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A man I dated returned to his ex without telling me but I can't stop thinking about him

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Question - (2 March 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2014)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi i met this man last year i really liked him but he went back to his ex without getting in touch to tell me.

i gave him another chance in january we met up both drunk and ended up having sex. i know this was a mistake now i haven't heard from him since i know ive been used i just need some advice on how i can stop thinking about him really.

i have a date with a man i recently met next week but in so scared also the man i slept with is still on my Facebook should i unfriend him thanks

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (4 March 2014):

So_Very_Confused agony auntUnfriend him, block him, delete his number from your phone and block him if possible.

IGNORING HIM 100% will help you move on.

go on your date but pretend you are a 15 yr old virgin... keep it relaxed.. no talk of sex or prior partners or what you want for the future... just go, have fun... relax and take it very very very slow.

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A female reader, Sensible Alice Australia +, writes (2 March 2014):

Sensible Alice agony auntYes, unfriend him asap. Then delete all his messages and his phone number from your phone. It might feel like a wrench to do it at first, but you'll be amazed how much better you feel when you know you can't impulsively contact him and it will go a long way towards helping you move on.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (2 March 2014):

Honeypie agony auntYes you should BLOCK and unfriend the ex.

Why would you even MEET up with a guy if you KNOW he went back to his ex? Did he tell you he was single again? Because if he did, my bet is he lied.

He (the ex) is a dud. Let him go and MOVE REALLY slow with ANY guy you met, don't get into sex til you know you want to be with him, don't use a guy as a rebound.

Good luck.

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