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A girl offered my boyfriend a blowjob...

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Question - (22 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Heya..Me and my boyfriend Dexter have been on and off for about 2 months now and at the start of the relationship he said he would stop smoking for me then admitted it was too hard to do so he didnt stop.. i appreciate him telling the truth but lately he and his mates have started smoking weed. One of his mates stupidly told my best friend and told her not to tell me but obviously she did and dexter denied it and said he hasnt touched weed since before we started dating. We arent that close anymore because i finished him for another guy but that didnt last because i still loved dexter.

We got back together but a week later he finished me! My other best mate saw dexter with another girl the day after he finished me but says there was nothing going on between them, when we were really close this girl asked him if she could give him a blowjob--shes 14 and hes 13 and im 13. I think i can trust him coz he says he loves me an all that but ive got something in the back of my mind sayin what if?? Please help xxx

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A male reader, AdamPayseno United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2007):

AdamPayseno agony auntI don't agree with the above reply.

Love can bloom at any age.. and it frustrates me when I hear people patronising young lovers.

To the question.. Did he take the Blowjob? If not.. Then you don't have anything to be worried about.

If a guy came up to you and offered you oral, would that give him a reason not to trust you? The girl was probly under the influence of several drugs, or just simply a whore.

You finished him for another guy, That no doubt has hurt him.. Maybe he broke it off with you for revenge?

He may just be insecure that you'll break it off again, therefore not letting you get close to him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007):

you have a lot of growing up to do and years of goodtimes ahead,this girl of 14 has no morals or pride as when you have to offer oral it shows thats the only way a guy is going to want you and thats really sad.

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