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Three's a crowd in our flat... but the place belongs to my b/f's mate, who's mad at me.

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Question - (14 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2005)
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I met a guy while I was working abroad. We were friends straight away and at first I wasn't attracted to him but I fell in love with his personality straightaway than I started to feel attracted to him.

We got on really well we were an item and we were best friends also,it was great. I left to go back home as my contract ran out and I needed to make some money. But when I went back home I missed him so much and he asked me to move back so I did, from Ireland to Spain. My boyfriend is English.

I moved in and left my home, friends and job. We were sharing with his mate as it is his mate owns the flat. We all got on but than I fell pregnant and we decided an abortion was best. He is 30 and I am 20. But my boyfriend got genital warts and told his mate and now his mate now doesn't want me in the apartment and I don't know what to do.

My boyfriend has been mates with the guy for years and I've only been with him 9 months. Should he be sticking up for me, as his mate is cutting me down.

My boyfriend is telling me what he is saying and is so mad but he can't move out as he has nowhere else to go.

I'm away now having an abortion and all this is worrying me, as when I go back I have to stay on a couch of one of his other friends. His mate has been with prostitutes and thinks because he has been fucked about and hasn't had someone to care from him that I'm doing that to his mate. I love his mate very much and don't want to lose him because his mate is jealous of our close mates.

Please help. I'm having the abortion in a few days and I'm confused about our relationship.

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (1 July 2005):

Where did your boyfriend get the genital warts? If he suddenly acquired them I would seriously consider his fidelity toward you. Why has this made his friend turn against you? If your boyfriend isn't sticking up for you, I think you should question your relationship with him.

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