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writes:I used to be friends with this girl and her boyfriend. He seemed really nice. Then she broke up with him very cold heartedly and I refuse to speak to her. He started talking to me on facebook message basically crying over his relationship. Then I discovered I have feelings for him. Every day for the past 3 weeks we've been talking with him sending me youtube videos and asking me things but then he told me he met someone at the cinema and he wants to ask her out to dinner. I was devastated and he was asking me for advice on how the date should go. But the problem is, he is always flirting with me. Like using a lot of :) and :P and basically I think he sees me as a close friend but I want to be more. He's 5 years older than me. Last night we were teasing each other and I actually began to think he liked me back but I replied back this morning and now he's ignoring me? I am so confused! He keeps asking me like what are you up to and talking about True Blood ( he told me to watch it) and being really flirtatious so I can't help feeling he's playing games with me, using me or if he actually does like me! He talks about sex a lot with me too and basically goes on about his previous sexual partners. Help me please! Thanks :)
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (11 September 2012):
 Agreed with honeypie. His flirting and the way he talks to you can very well just be how he acts. A lot of people are very flirtatious by nature, unfortunately it doesn't mean they are into you that way. I think asking you for dating advice sealed your fate, you are a friend. You can try letting him know you like him if you want but don't expect it to be reciprocated and be prepared to possibly lose him as a friend. But maybe that's what should happen since you are interested in him anyway. Hard to be friends that way.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (11 September 2012):
 If he was interested in dating you, he would have made his move, not asked for dating advice..
Sorry, honey I think he's "friend-zoned" you.
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