I am scared confessing my feelings will ruin our friendship.
Q. Right this is really picking my brains and is rather silly to be honest but i need an answear. There is this girl who i have been friends with for absolute years now and iv always had a little crush on her but nothing id bother moving on, she is just...
A. 26 March 2010: Yes u should explain ur feelings and ask her. she could be the one and u dnt want to spend the rest of ur life wondering wut if. good luck.... (read in full...)
If I pay my girlfriends cell phone bill do I have a right to ask about numbers she has been calling?
Q. My girlfriend and I are on the same cell phone plan and I pay the bill every month. When I paid this months bill I saw that she was talking to someone late at night for 216 minutes. We have been going out for 4 years. Do you think I have the right ...
A. 26 March 2010: You have all the right to ask her about it and not just because ur payin the bill but also because ur her bf. Just be like hey i noticed uve bn talkn 2 someone at this number pretty late for long periods of time n i was just wondering who it was!? ... (read in full...)
Are my instincts trying to tell me something or is this just paranoia because of what happened to me?
Q. I don't know how to deal with the premise that there are so many paedophiles active and within the government. I'm 19 and when i was at school i was abused by a teacher from when i was 12 till when i left at 18. The school never did anything about ...
A. 26 March 2010: I think ur instincts are telling u something so u should go with them. Sorry u had to go through something so horrible. Hope things get better. Good luck.... (read in full...)
What can I do to lift this feeling of lonliness?
Q. ive recently been made unemployed, i have had failed attempts for getting to a job. my boyfriend is never with me anymore and always at his mates, my friends are all still at school and im feeling really lonely lately as my sister has moved away ...
A. 26 March 2010: You need to go out and try to have some fun. ... (read in full...)
Can me, a gay guy, be in love with my best friend - a girl??
Q. Help! :( im a gay guy and im so confused... im 16 and im definately gay theres no question about it. I fancy guys, ive had sexual relations with guys and everyones knows me as the "gay guy". Im totally infatuated with a guy from college ...
A. 26 March 2010: Yes u could be in love and it sounds like u are. Maybe u should talk to her about it and maybe take ur friendship further but u also have to realize this could destroy ur friendship. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Recently split, tough choices ahead
Q. hello, me and my girlfriend have just split up after a year, its really tough at the moment, feeling lonely. although it was my decision i do really miss her, we got along great but the physical side of our relationship just wasn't ever ther...
A. 26 March 2010: You just need to let her go. It will hurt to lose her as a friend and all but its better than keeping her hanging there on a string of hope. Shes just going to get hurt more. The last thing u should do is get back together. that decision can do ... (read in full...)
After hearing he verbally cheated on me I feel all these years together have been fake.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost seven years now. Last year I found out he was cheating on me through email. The girl he was talking to had an ex that actually told me. I guess they used to chat online alot back when they were younger. ...
A. 26 March 2010: Well for starters its not ur fault at all it is completely his. I would just dump him and move on. I know it will be alot harder because u have kids together and everything but u obviously cant trust him and probably never will. He has lost ur trust ... (read in full...)
When an ex says that he wants to be friends... is that true?
Q. I dated this guy for two days then he broke my heart and said that we rushed into this to fast. He said that he knew nothing about me which is untrue. I don’t know why I cried because I never liked him like the way I like my best friend. But he said ...
A. 26 March 2010: Some guys do just want to be friends if a relationship doesnt work out but its also just a nice way to break up with u. It would be hard to be friends with an ex and it could take work but sometimes it can be easy and it should be for u two where u ... (read in full...)
What should I say to make things up with my estranged brother?
Q. My parents always used to favor me over my twin brother and they were really mean to him (they once said that they wished they'd only had me). They'd always buy me things but never him and I used to tease him about it (i know i was wrong but i was ...
A. 26 March 2010: Just talk to him. Im sure he doesnt hold it against u, u were young. I sure once u see eachother what u want to say will come naturally. Tell him how u feel. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to make things better between us to stop our arguing?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 1 year and 8 months. I used to be so happy with him and we never argued but recently we have started arguing more and more. Normally by this stage I would have broken up with them but i just cant, i love ...
A. 26 March 2010: You need to pick ur battles. Sometimes u just need to bite ur tongue. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Am I gay/straight/bi or confused?
Q. hello, i am 20 year old guy, and a virgin =/ it appears i no longer consider myself straight since i had 2 incidents (not sexually but the way that you feel about someone you just met and you want to spent every hour of your time with him), tha...
A. 26 March 2010: I think you seem very confused. I would try things with the girl and if they dont work then you know its not meant to be. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I have approved of my wife having an affair. Do you think this will lead to problems in the future?
Q. My wife is having an affair with an older man at work. She started this relationship around 10 months ago. She told me about it 1 month ago. They never had sex yet because she is 8 months preggy. we have talked about her having another man before ...
A. 25 March 2010: Wow u have ur morals messed up. That is not okay at all. You need to put ur foot down.... (read in full...)
I am sick of waiting for this married man to divorce his wife. What is he up to?
Q. I'm involved with a married man for a year now, he's been clear from day 1, he said his marriage was arranged by his parents, that he never met his wife before engagement and that he's only "obeing" his mom by marrying the woman, he said he never ...
A. 24 March 2010: Ok well now u how his wife feels. That is wrong and what comes around goes around. how can u honestly think he wouldnt do to u what hes doing to his wife. My advice is to cut all ties with that loser and stay away from married men. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Child abuse... help!
Q. When I was 12 1/2 , I lived with my dad. when my step- mom wasn't home he would take showers with me and make me touch his dick, and balls. and he drove semis, and I would go with him, and he started to make me sleep with him and he would touch me ...
A. 24 March 2010: The best advice i can give you hun is to tell ur mom right away. He needs to be in trouble that is wrong and its not ur fault at all. Wish u the best of luck. sorry u had to go through something so horrible. stay strong.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my brother what should I do???
Q. I'm in love with my younger brother. He's the only guy that truly loves and cares for me. If I ever need someone to talk to he's there for me and I love spending time with him. He's smart and he has a really cute smile. I love him more than I've eve...
A. 24 March 2010: Well this is way wrong. Which doesnt sound like u can help it but u should try harder because this would never work out and im sure ur brother would freak which would make things weird. good luck.... (read in full...)
Help!!! Am I still a virgin... or not???
Q. I am 18 but when I was 15 I had a bf who tried 2 make luv 2 me but he didn't enter, I bled a bit, he tried it over 6 times sometimes I bled, sometimes I didn't. I am worried coz I don't know if I am still a virgin. I was dating both A and B but B ...
A. 24 March 2010: Well if u bled that means he popped ur "cherry" which is considered losing ur virginity. My advice to u is to tell a right away...if he finds out ur lying later then things could end badly. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Threesome with husband & best friend gone wrong... I think??
Q. Hello, My husband and I had a threesome with my best friend the other evening. I wasn't exactly into it and I told him but he kept insisting and finally when we were all watching tv he made the move. I wasn't exactly expecting him too but I thought ...
A. 24 March 2010: Well i personally think threesomes are disgusting and degrading. It seems as if theres a little more between them then what they have lead on. Thats weird and messed up of your husband. that is something i dont think u could or should get over easy. ... (read in full...)
Teacher acts weird around me because I think he`s interested...I`m not.
Q. I'm 17 atm and at a private school where increased interaction between students and teachers is acceptable. However, there's this teacher who's 30 years old that I'm having a few problems with. He's an English teacher and only arrived a year a...
A. 24 March 2010: I think you might be just blowing it out of porportion. It sounds like hes just trying to be a nice guy and teacher. good luck.... (read in full...)
Why do I get these naughty feelings about him?!??
Q. Okay so theres this guy who makes me go completely mad! I am 16 and in 5th year and hes 12 or 13. He is in 1st year. He walks with my brother to school every morning. I've never ever spoke to him and he has only smiled at me. I've never been ...
A. 24 March 2010: well u may be having these feelings because your a virgin. most virgins find it easier to have sex their first time with someone less intimidating. my best advice is to move on and dont even try to start something there. good luck.... (read in full...)
Deep, passionate crush on older guy with kids!
Q. Hi all! I am new to this but not a registered user. Let me get straight to the point. There is an older guy I have a deep, passionate crush on and I cannot tell if he likes me back. I have been chasing him since earlier this Summer and never co...
A. 16 October 2009: At his age hes tired and done with the whole high school games! You need to be straight up with him and tell him how you feel and see what kind of response he gives and then make your move from that point! Good luck!... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my long distance boyfriend want to make me his world?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We met on myspace and he lives in Oregon. I live in California. We are 16 years old and almost 17. We met over summer and really connected the days he was here. Before meeting each other we ...
A. 16 October 2009: First off why would you want to be with someone who pressured you into doing things you didnt want to...doesnt sound like too great of a relationship to me!? Youve got to stop running back to him to make up because that shows him he doesnt have to ... (read in full...)
What do you think is going on between us?
Q. Hi everyone. I have a guy friend who I like and know he likes me too. But we aren't going out even though he wants to. If I could I would. But here's what happened. I don't have a cell phone so I texted him (last friday using my dad's phone whic...
A. 16 October 2009: It sounds like you guys are getting mad at eachother for like no reason! Just be nice to him and he will be nice back im sure! Good luck!... (read in full...)
Online guy that lives in another state is not ready for a girlfriend....did I scare him off?
Q. so i was talking to a guy (my best friends childhood friend from another state) i had never seen him, he lived far away (7 hours) we talked for 5 months, we'd talk on the phone for HOURS at a time...but he'd call every other week to once a week, ...
A. 16 October 2009: You already have the answer...you should leave him a message saying exactly what you said you want to say! Try not to be so clingy, you guys werent dating so you shouldnt have started nagging him about when he didnt call! You should probably ... (read in full...)
Online guy that lives in another state is not ready for a girlfriend....did I scare him off?
Q. so i was talking to a guy (my best friends childhood friend from another state) i had never seen him, he lived far away (7 hours) we talked for 5 months, we'd talk on the phone for HOURS at a time...but he'd call every other week to once a week, ...
A. 16 October 2009: You already have the answer...you should leave him a message saying exactly what you said you want to say! ... (read in full...)
Parent imposed curfew has destroyed my social life! Why have they turned against me?
Q. I'm 20 years old but feel like a child as my parents treat me like one yet treat my younger brother like a adult. My parents brought my brother a house for him and his gf to live in but have raised my rent to pay for the mortage and the expensive ...
A. 16 October 2009: First off they cant give you a curfew...you twenty! You need to move out as soon as you can...it would make life much easier for you!... (read in full...)
Medical condition left me unable to have children. Do I deserve to be with anyone?
Q. I'm 25 years old. Because of a medical condition, my doctor told me it'll be hard for me to have children in the future. This news has shattered my dreams of experiencing childbirth and being a mother, and I feel bad for my boyfriend because it ...
A. 16 October 2009: Hun its not your fault at all...step one, you need to stop blaming yourself and being so hard on yourself! I would make sure you tell whoever you start to get serious with when up front, then its their choice! Some people dont want kids and there is ... (read in full...)
Midnight horrors and deep thinking takes me away to another place! Am I sane or insane is the question?
Q. I get strange dreams every night. Always about the super natural. Most of the time very disturbing thing such as mini heads, impaled bodys, flickering lights, dark figures and canniablism. Somtimes it even gets to the pint where there are three ...
A. 16 October 2009: Well you should listen to your psychologist but if you honestly think he or she is wrong, try a new one and see what they say! Good luck!... (read in full...)
How do I let them down gently?
Q. Hi, this is just a general question. Im not pretending to be some kind of stud or anything, but a few times in my life so far Ive had girls practically throw themselves at me. The first time this happened was on a film course and I was in a rel...
A. 16 October 2009: You sound like a great loyal guy! Theres not much you can do to keep from hurting their feelings...just talk to them and tell them the truth, you are in a serious relationship and are very loyal to your girlfriend...most girls will understand and ... (read in full...)
How do I find a quality partner even though I am bound in marriage?
Q. I am 44, and I have spent the past 3 years working through Immigration to bring my Filipina wife to America. She was an excellent actress and never let on, but now she is here she has left and revealed it was a sham marriage (marriage fraud) just ...
A. 16 October 2009: Just date around but let them know upfront what happened...if they stay then they might be the one for you and if they go then they werent the right one! You should try to get that divorce finalized so you can get on with your life! Good luck!... (read in full...)
He's been cheated on 7 times and doesn't date. Is there hope?
Q. im desperate for some answers so please help. basically my problem is one that we've all heard before, the 2 guys one girl thing. basically i met this guy at a party around sep. we've been texting some,kissed once, and i have plans to go out ...
A. 16 October 2009: I wouldnt go back to your ex, give this new guy a chance! Sounds like you and your ex dont really have a chance of making it and having a good relationship and your always off and on, who wants to keep doin that!? Just keep hanging out with him, the ... (read in full...)
Over drinks my boyfriend brought up a threesome. Am I a drama queen for how I reacted?
Q. about two weeks ago my partner and a friend of mine were having a good old drink or two, when my partner suggested a 3 some and within seconds of him saying this my friend a girl, then came onto me. i responded at first as my partner was glaring me ...
A. 15 October 2009: You are totally right. Dump his worthless ass and that obviously skanky friend! That is disgusting...i wouldnt speak to my bf again if he even hinted that! Then id beat the shit out of her for agging it on...how gross!!! Ya get rid of them and move ... (read in full...)
Our straight female roommate invades our privacy
Q. My best girl friend for more than 10 years was hanging out every day with my boyfriend and me, who also likes her around and she is like our best friend together. Well her room mate moved out and she could not afford the rent herself so we said she ...
A. 15 October 2009: You should deffinately put your foot down...you need privacy! Talk to her and tell her she needs to stop and that is getting ridiculous! Hopefully she will understand! Good luck!... (read in full...)
What can I do, my boyfriend raped me?
Q. help Im 16 and my boyfriend is 25 andw when we were in his car he drove far away and raped me and he keeps sayind and texting he'll do it agian when hes not busy.It hurts and hes mates say and have tried too have sex with me help!...
A. 15 October 2009: Omg you need to call and the police immediately and press rape on that jerk, not only will he get rape, he will get stagatory rape also! You need to talk to your parents and the police immediately and stay far away from him! I know its scary hun but ... (read in full...)
Is this just OCD or am I Paranoid as well?
Q. hey i have got really paranoid lately well ive got ocd and i have images of myself and loved ones getting hurt, say i think of my boyfriends face on fire i wont let him near fire anymore because of my images but i also I think someone is in th...
A. 15 October 2009: It sounds like paranoia! You should go to a counselor for a for sure answer and help if you do have paranoia! Good luck!... (read in full...)
He took my virginity and then started having sex with his manager. Should I be in a relationship with him?
Q. my boyfriend and i started having sex before we got together cause during that time he seem to be confuse.rite after he took my virginity lets say a few weeks after he started having sex with our manager but when he had sex with her he came out and ...
A. 15 October 2009: Well sorry to say this hun but i dont see this relationship lasting! Hes obviously a cheater and i dont see him getting your trust back...its harder to lose it than it is to get it! You will never be able to fully trust him. If nothing was going on, ... (read in full...)
Should I walk now or wait and see? She's not a puppy anymore.
Q. She lives in Philadelphia, I in New York City. We spend 1 weekend together, Fri- Sun. We had some really intense love making sessions together. We both have been single and doing without. It was obvious to me, The problem is this, she tells me that ...
A. 15 October 2009: Answer to question 1...i think she probably does really like you but has been hurt many times before and really is scared to get too close/attached! It does sound like, however, you have given her plenty of time and are trying to be open with her! ... (read in full...)
How to win his heart when he keeps turning me down?
Q. how to win a man's heart? I really like him. Sometimes I ask him out, but most of the times he turned me down. He cares for me like his sister, but not a love relationship. I want him to love me too. How can I do that?...
A. 15 October 2009: Sweetheart you cant change his mind. You should probably forget about him and move on! Good luck!... (read in full...)
How can I improve my social skills?
Q. I'm a 23 year old male with Asperger's Syndrome, and I have difficulty getting a girlfriend. I always end up in the "friend zone", and if a girl says she's single, I always doubt it and think, no, this must be a lie, too good to be true. I do...
A. 15 October 2009: You need to get out and meet new people and do new things! You could go out with friends, go skiing, go to the beach, go to the mall, go to church, or go to a club or something, theres alot of things out there you can do just go for it and dont be ... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant? What will my mom think?
Q. okay i am 14, my mam knows i might be pregnant i told her this morning now she has gone to work so i am very scared for when she comes home okay i came on my period last month a week after i had sex and now i am 19 days late on this months period i...
A. 15 October 2009: Wow at your young of age you should not be having this problem,you are way too young to be having sex, i can only imagine how disappointed and angry your mom must be!Im sorry you have to go through something like this so young,i know its not just ... (read in full...)
Should I pursue him or is he a waste of time?
Q. am aged 20 years now at university in Uganda in my second year remaining with a year to complete ma course. i ve been in love with this "man" since 2006 thus making it to 3 years now. He loves n and cares about me dat i dont luck if i tel him wat i ...
A. 15 October 2009: You should go for him! You cant read the future so if you really like someone, go for them! Good luck!... (read in full...)
Was this guy a schemer all along?
Q. There's a mate of my husband's who has been really nice to me and is a great guy. He's called me nicknames, teased me, and has been really nice in little ways. He plays with my son and my husband has noticed him sometimes asking my son questions ...
A. 15 October 2009: Well it sounds like you like this guy and you do think your marriage is ending...and you knew you were crossing a line by emailing him, which anyone would do, dont get me wrong! It deffinately sounds like he likes you but i just dont see a ... (read in full...)
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