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writes:hello, me and my girlfriend have just split up after a year, its really tough at the moment, feeling lonely. although it was my decision i do really miss her, we got along great but the physical side of our relationship just wasn't ever there, which i think is a massive part of being together! i guess im writing on here cos i dont know what to do next, she wants to give it another go but im scared that will just cause more hurt if it goes pear shaped again! the thing thats troubling me is she is saying either we give it a 2nd go or she dosen't want to see me again or be friends as its hurting her so much. i understand shes upset, i am to, but i dont like this choice im being given it seems an impossible one to make? any advice welcome, thankyou
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (26 March 2010):
 You just need to let her go. It will hurt to lose her as a friend and all but its better than keeping her hanging there on a string of hope. Shes just going to get hurt more. The last thing u should do is get back together. that decision can do nothing but end badly, most likely alot worse than the first time. So let her go and maybe later she will come around to the friend idea. Good luck.
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