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I am scared confessing my feelings will ruin our friendship.

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Question - (26 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Right this is really picking my brains and is rather silly to be honest but i need an answear.

There is this girl who i have been friends with for absolute years now and iv always had a little crush on her but nothing id bother moving on, she is just adorable to be perfectly honest.

A while ago we both became single, and we got talking alot more than usual and stuff and helping each other out and stuff and during the extra time i have actually really fallen for her..

We have always been close like when were together will just get in each others arms and have a chat and stuff, were both goths so believe it or not there is a loving friendly person beyond the hair and makeup. :)

But because were so close and cuddly and stuff anyway i'm scared to ask her out incase it ruins the friendship we have, but its driving me crackers thinking about it..

Should i just explain my feelings and ask her?

Imean i'm certain the friendship is great enough to survive it but if its a no go things are going to be a little awkward..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

Tell her how you feel. Chances are if you are cuddling and stuff like that she feels similarly. It's worse not going for it, trust me, I'm there.

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A female reader, YourDestiny11 United States +, writes (26 March 2010):

YourDestiny11 agony auntYes u should explain ur feelings and ask her. she could be the one and u dnt want to spend the rest of ur life wondering wut if. good luck.

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