Like what
she writes?
... Add *LEAHx to your favourite agony aunts
Want to get in touch?
... Send *LEAHx a private message | | | *LEAHx's profile: Hi im Leah and im from surrey in the u.k I hope to be able to help you with your problems and give you some good advise no matter what age you are..
iv been a agony aunt to many people, them coming to me with concerns an worries and have always had time to listen and been a shoulder to cry on..you don't always have to put your name you can write in anoym and i will try to give you my best advise..
Thankyou
xLEAHx |
|
He said he doesn't get much time off but took my number...was he just being friendly?
Q. I met this guy,i've seen him a few times and he he is always talking to me,he works at a club i go to,well yesterday i saw him again and before i went home,he said i suppose your off home to your husband or boyfriend now,so i knew he was fishing to ...
A. 21 October 2006: Hi there,
Sounds like he is interested otherwise he wouldn't be fishing to see whether or not your attatched..hope all goes well..
GOOD LUCK
xLEAHx... (read in full...)
What is acceptable timing to become engaged?
Q. how long do you think a couple should date before they get engaged? Just please give me some idea. Then after the engagement how long should they wait before they get married? my boyfriend says that an engagement is the same thing as ...
A. 21 October 2006: Hi there :)
It all depends on differnt people,some fall in love so quickly and they decide thats it! we wanna get married..some people get engaged a number of times in thier life thinking this is the right person..and they break up..... (read in full...)
I should be glad we are going to see more of each other but after I see him things are worse as I get upset and over emotional!
Q. Hi everybody This might be confusing but ill have a go. My boyfriend works away Starting begining of november i should be able to see him once a week This will be great because before now we have gone up to 6 weeks without seeing each other....
A. 21 October 2006: What your feeling is true love for your man ..you love him so much your missing him like crazy and of course its hurting you when you do see him ..because that precious time you have together goes so quick and its hard to leave or break away..theres ... (read in full...)
Urine sample
Q. I heard that if you don't pee after sex you will get a yeast infection. Is this true?...
A. 21 October 2006: No not exactly,some women i myself included have bouts of cystitus which is a urine infection and can be very uncomfortable and painfull,doctors always say to prevent it in the future is to uranate after sexual intercourse as this clears any ... (read in full...)
Is my penis big enough for sex?
Q. hi would my penis just under 6 inches erect be large enough for sex? also which position is best for a penis which has a smaller girth?...
A. 21 October 2006: There is nothing wrong with the size of your penis.. and so many guys are paranoid about this.. the average size is normally around 5-6 an a half inches errect..and many guys think they should have one 7" and over because they think thats the ... (read in full...)
My son is addicted to carbs!
Q. My son of eleven is addicted to carbohydrates especially chocolate.He has had this problem for a couple of years now and I have only just realised how intense the problem is getting and that there is such a thing as carbohdrate addictio...
A. 20 October 2006: Hi there,
it is very common for a boy this age to eat all this rubbish as i myself have an 11 yr old son who eats choclate and chips ect..your not alone here..and they eat so much at this age but its due to growing.. the older they get the ... (read in full...)
We dated for a couple weeks and then he went weird! Said he doesn't want anything serious..what should I do?
Q. my boyfriend and i went out for 2 and a half weeks, everything was amazing and going great,then he just starts acting wierd, and says that he doesnt want a serious relationship and wants to go out and have fun and is afraid he will hurt me and all ...
A. 20 October 2006: Sorry hunny but im affraid im gonna have to agree with DR PHYC it sounds as if he is just not interested all he wanted was a bit of fun something casual..i think he was trying to let you down gently..so its time for you to move on ..im sure your ... (read in full...)
My Internet guy says he loves me... but I'm 28 with a child and a boyfriend, and the 'net guy is 18 and 6 hours away!
Q. hi, well ive met this guy on the internet and he keeps saying he loves me,dnt know what to do im 28 with a child and boy friend i dnt get on with this guy is only 18, and says im right for him i do really like him he also live 6 hrs away ,plz help ...
A. 20 October 2006: He is still young and proberly doesn't know what he wants his hormones are racing..and at the age of 18 some guys think its good to have an older woman for experience..think hard and carefully about this situation ..i really know how your feeling at ... (read in full...)
He irritates me somedays and then other days, I really like him! ! Am I actually falling for him?
Q. Hi i'm in my second year of uni and very confused, on my first day i met and totally connected with this guy who slowly pissed off every 1 in our friendship group over the year. We were very close especially in first term where dispite his supposed ...
A. 20 October 2006: Think to yourself would you be botherd if he was not in your life as a friend no more ..guys always irritate us from time to time ..and you do get guys which can be so annoying and your thinking omg why don't you just go away ..but then think i ... (read in full...)
Do girls like it when a guy plays with their hair?
Q. i just wanna know do girls like it when guys play with their hair? i usually play with this girls hair. she never say's anything to me she doesn't move away, just she like it? how do i know if she likes it or not? any other flirting tips? i'm ...
A. 20 October 2006: YES, most girls and women love having there hair played with at watever age as long as a guy does'nt do it when shes just done her hair and ready to go out :)..also some females love having fingers gently running up an down thier backs..so carryon ... (read in full...)
After 3 hours of talking to her..I have feelings for her. How do I get to know her better?
Q. i met this girl who my mates birthday for the first time. and we had a good chat in the restuarant and she sat with me in cinema. she was so sweet. well i have discovered just after 3hours of knowing her i have feelings for her. she is 14 i'm 16. i ...
A. 20 October 2006: Why not make it obvious that you like her..thats the only way your going be able to get to know her more..theres nothing wrong with letting someone know that you like them..why not ask her for her number and tell her is it ok if i call you sometime ... (read in full...)
We met on holiday, we were gonna take things further but he never turns up and says hes too shy!!!
Q. I met a guy on holiday. We got on so well and I have never felt like this for anyone before. When we were on holiday together, although I was really up for taking it furthur when we both got home, he seemed to be too. Since we've been back, I have ...
A. 20 October 2006: Was he shy on holiday ? if he wasn't then why be shy now thats what you need to ask yourself i could understand the situation if you had never met before and he was nervous and shy about the first meeting, but you were on holiday together so there's ... (read in full...)
The pressure is mounting upon us
Q. I have been with my partner for just over 1 year. We fell in love very quickly. I had seperated from my husband 9 months previous which was extremly messy. My friend and family became protective and felt it was too soon. They are also very jealous, ...
A. 20 October 2006: Hi There,
I totaly agree with him getting help, there was no need for violence..and he must get help for this ..if this is the guy you really want to be with think twice do you think he will ever get violent with you again if so 'GET OUT'... (read in full...)
what does first base really mean?
Q. a simple questin...what are all the bases..ie. 1st base 2nd base etc.?...
A. 19 October 2006: Hi Katz,
Hmm well i presume it means steps like step 1 step 2 ect..unless you mean the correct term for 1st base which is used in baseball and a game called rounders :s
xLEAHx... (read in full...)
im going off on holiday soon but i will miss her
Q. Im off on holiday on saturday until the following saturday and while it will fly by, i am going too miss my girlfriend. I was just wandering if there are ways too help me not miss my girlfriend the most i've not seen her is 5 days and i missed her s...
A. 19 October 2006: Hi there,
Aww thats so sweet,there are many ways to still keep in contact with your g/friend while away but seeing as your going for a week it will soon fly so don't worry ok here are some of the things you can do or take to stay in cont... (read in full...)
My buddy is planning to dump his gf..and I like her. Would it be wrong of me to date her once he let's her go?
Q. I've been friends with (Bob) since we were kids. Bob's been dating a girl but says he's thinking about ending the relationship soon because he's not in love with her. I became good friends with his girlfriend, and realized she's my ideal woman in ...
A. 19 October 2006: Hey There,
There's nothing wrong with still continuing a friendship with this girl just because bob dumps her..seeing as you have strong feelings for this girl id give it a few weeks and then once bob is finally over her ask him whet... (read in full...)
We've had sex and we went to France for the weekend...so why hasn't he asked me...to be his gf?
Q. Please help me! im 18 and soo confused! This bloke who is 25 is always taking me out and recently took me to france 4 the weekend but he hasnt asked me 2 be his girlfriend yet? we go out for dinner and cinema all the time and we have slept together ...
A. 19 October 2006: Hi Emzie,
Seems like this guy does not want any kind of commitment i.e long term relationship.. but just a casual one or maybe its to early and his taking one day at a time ..if its really worrying you and you want to know where you stan... (read in full...)
He gave me the impression he was single but he is engaged!
Q. Theres a guy who is older then me, I meet him in a house party. We got along well, and spoke loads, though he did give the impression he was single at the time. I found out he is engaged a few weeks later, I asked him a direct question. I have ...
A. 19 October 2006: Have a word with him, try telling him how you feel and the feelings you have for him and whether there is any chance for the two of you.. if he replies and says there isn't nothing there but just friendship and his happy with his fiancee,and you ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex always start fights with me and bring up the past?
Q. why does my ex always start fights and brings up stuff from the past even tho i try my best to be nice to her? alot of the time we are fine but she randomly starts fights. Shes back with her ex btw, and is happy with him....
A. 19 October 2006: She's proberly resenting and angry at you for whatever happend in your relationship..but if she's now back with her ex there should be no reason for her to keep bringing up the past..my advise is if you want a quiet life and this to end and if ... (read in full...)
Everytime I want to go out with my friend he goes mad!
Q. Everytime i want to go out with the females my husband gets mad and it makes me feel like he only wants me to be friend with his best friends wives what should i do.....
A. 19 October 2006: Put him straight and don't let him control your life ..thats one thing that anoys me and that is control freaks..he obviously does'nt trust you and he thinks that by only going out with his mates wifes nothing will happen because they will report ... (read in full...)
seventeen and ready
Q. Ok, im 17 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly a month and we want to strat doing things but i have no idea what so ever what to do like blow jobs and stuff. Please may i have some advice and ideas please...
A. 19 October 2006: Hi natalie..right first things first 'contraception'im not saying your nieve and do not know this but believe me theres plenty out there who don't, and would like to ignore it, make an appoitment at your family planning clinic thats if you haven't ... (read in full...)
Dating 3 months and she's talking engagement rings and marriage?? She's my 1st gf, so is this normal?
Q. Hi i am slightly confused. Since me and my girlfriend met my girlfriend from a very early stage (3 months) started saying things like 'When we get married' and stuff. And i found it very strange as she's my first girlfriend and i didn't think in ...
A. 19 October 2006: Oh boy i think you better put her straight before it gets any worse like she turns into a bunny boiler, she's putting far too much pressure on you in the 3 months you have been together..YES you do get alot of girls like that ..its thier dream to ... (read in full...)
My partner doesn't give me any love since the baby was born!
Q. My partner just rubishes everything i do. No love since the baby 22 months ago. I work hard and give all my time and money to us, but I feel the one left out. she has two children to a previous relationship and one we have together. I treet them al ...
A. 19 October 2006: This is a very common situation,this happens so much in relationships after a baby has been born ..the husband gets put to one side and feels neglected and all sorts of things are proberly going on inside your head right now like 'what am i doing ... (read in full...)
I know guys like the chase but It's his birthday! Should I go ahead and plan something special? ?
Q. Dear Cupids, I have been seeing a guy for nearly 2 months now and I think we are exclusive as the other night he said his older cousin had mentioned he was happy to hear he was with a girlfriend. We are both in our late 20's he is is a couple ...
A. 19 October 2006: I think he'd love the thought that you have actually took the time and trouble to think about his birthday and want to celebrate it with him ..GO FOR IT GIRLFRIEND!! you only live once..you say he always takes you out and treats you,so nows the time ... (read in full...)
Does he still have feelings for me?? What should i do??
Q. what does a guy mean when you go out with him then become friends then go out then friends again and then he starts flirting with a lot but he has a girlfriend and if someone asks him if he was flirting with me he says hell no then the next day he ...
A. 19 October 2006: Hi there,
Basically you wanna find out what this guy wants ..he seems to be playing games ..and its messing with your emotions..maybe confront him if you can and ask him what he wants and expects from you ..friendship or a relationship beca... (read in full...)
Are we sex addicts?
Q. Ok i need some advice guys...! Ive been with my bf for almost a year now, the relationship is up and down, due to the fact that he doesnt seem to trust me fully and jealously issues AND we argue a ALOT!!!.. but our sex life is CRAZY, we see each...
A. 19 October 2006: 'OH YES' The average guy has a high sex drive and especially if they have a young sexy woman ..although you have been with your boyfriend for just a year its still so very new between you ..give it a few years and then your find you may not be ... (read in full...)
Is it safe for my gf to fart during anal sex or can this cause harm?
Q. Is it safe for my gf to fart during anal sex or can this cause harm?...
A. 19 October 2006: Hi there gerry,
There is no harm if your g/friend wants to fart during anal sex, but personally i think if she has a sudden urge to fart then she should try to hold back or maybe you should pull out and take a break so she can rele... (read in full...)
He wants me to strip on cam for him or he will keep pasting my email addy to everyone!!
Q. well this lad added me annd i ended up arguing with him cos he was really racist ((a didnt no him)) and i blocked him, thn all i get is LOADS of ppl adding me, lyk 50 every minute or summit stupid, he's basically put my addy up on a syt, en loads of ...
A. 19 October 2006: I am a bit confused in how you got another email from him when you changed your email address..just make sure you change your email address again and only give it to those you trust..then he can't keep harrasing you..if he then finds other ways and ... (read in full...)
He wouldn't marry me and make us a family but he is making me feel guilty by saying leaving him split up his family!
Q. im with this man for long 9 years and we have one son,our relation is not that bad only im hoping for him to marry me but he never did since he is married still in his wife.after long years i decided to separate thinking that i am hoping for ...
A. 19 October 2006: Hi there,
Firstly please do not feel guilty,its not your fault i totally understand where your coming from, the guy you gave best part of 9 years of your life too was not dedicated to you enough, to even get a divorce from his wife and ... (read in full...)
What should I say, when my bf says I'm beautiful? What's a good response?
Q. how do i respond when my bf says im beautiful? i never know how to respond! i either thank him or smile and giggle! but i never know really what to say back!! i want him to know that i think hes hot, but he doesnt really like that word, and idk how ...
A. 19 October 2006: Hi Hunny,i can totally relate to your question..when i get told im beautiful too ..and its very true sometimes you don't know how to reply ..i used to always say 'NO IM NOT'and then he'd say you are babes..i'd reply back saying aww thankyou ... (read in full...)
We don't love each other anymore....is getting back together the right thing?
Q. I don't love my ex boyfriend anymore and he doesn't love me (i don't think), however I want to get back together as I still feel SOMETHING for him, even though i'm not entirely sure what it is, and we still get on so amazingly well, the sparks are ...
A. 19 October 2006: You say you dont love each other any more yet the sparks still there ..this would mean the sexual spark,(chemistry) you still find each other atractive and turn eachother on..but theres no love in this relationship..You proberly still have very ... (read in full...)
14 yeasr old and I'm pregnant..what should I do?
Q. im 14 nd ad sex wit ma ex now i think im preganant wat shoudl i do?...
A. 19 October 2006: Hi Hunny i totally agree with david..you must talk to your mum or a family relative your close to about this, as the problems not going to go away you need to act quickly to make the right descission about this pregnancy..i also agree with the ... (read in full...)
I swallowed, but was violently sick during the night. Is this common?
Q. Hi everyone Ok, last night I swallowed with my boyfriend for the first time. I really liked it at the time (he has a healthy diet and im told that helps) but in the middle of the night I was violently sick. We both realy enjoyed it and id luv...
A. 19 October 2006: Hi There,
This is not a common thing as i haven't heard of anyone being violently sick afterwards but your sickness may not have been due to that an maybe something you had eaten..the only way to know for sure is to try it again and see ... (read in full...)
I broke his heart because of what people thought. I still love him, but he won't get back with me.
Q. i broke up with my ex because what people thought and i broke his heart, i still love him and he still has feelings for me but doesn't want to get back with me. does he still love me and will we get back together? i love him so much it hur...
A. 19 October 2006: Hunny, who gives a damn what people think about your relationship, its none of thier buisness and its your life at the end of the day ..i don't know what your circumstances are for ending your relationship coz of what ppl thought ..but you should do ... (read in full...)
My partners son and his mate went out on a night out with me and my mates....he reports everything back to his mum!
Q. my parners son went out with me and my mates and his mate and one of his mates kept trying it on i no my partners lad tells his mum everything ,plus my friend got off with my parners lad what do you think his mum will say ....
A. 18 October 2006: Hi Steemo,
Well i guess the s***ts gonna proberly hit the fan now and its going to cause an uproar..im taking it your partners son is a lot younger then you and your mate, or maybe not as you have not noted your ages, but i suggest you ... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I am a big enough part of her life....Am I wrong for thinking this?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for about 3 years now. We have had on and off periods. The other day when I was at her apartment I counted 24 picture frames about, however I am only in 1 frame. I have told her many times I dont feel like I am a big ...
A. 18 October 2006: Hi there holly,
As you haven't really give enough info out about your relationship with your girlfriend i cant really say ..but it seems as if maybe you are making a mountain out of mole hill (figure of speech) if you wern't a big part... (read in full...)
Can shaving cause thrush?
Q. I get frequent flare ups of what I assume to be thrush every couple of weeks since I became sexually active. However, I broke up with my bf and no longer had a sex life but the thrush still came back. I had just assumed that it was caused by my ...
A. 18 October 2006: Yes there is a possibility that shaving foam could cause thrush,not actually shaving your private part would have anything to do with it ,some people are alergic to certain toiletries,and its very unlikely you caught it from your previous ... (read in full...)
Why do I bleed during sex??
Q. When having sex why do i bleed? It is only in small amounts and is found on my partners foreskin. Although it is only when im on top....
A. 18 October 2006: Ireally think this question should be for your G.P, bleeding during sex could be due to a number of things maybe his penetrating to hard or there is a underlying problem..please consult your G.P about this matter.
... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to my boyfriend anymore and think this is why I can't orgasm with him!
Q. hi, I have trouble getting an orgasm. I always end up dessapointed. I think is because i'm not attracted to my boyfriend anymore. I broke up with him and there's this guy that works with me. A lot of my co workers told me that he likes me and that ...
A. 18 October 2006: Firstly get to know this guy..get to know eachother and he will come out of his shell,maybe take things slow and see what his reactions are towards sex ..if you really like him you don't wanna rush things and come across as being desparate and end ... (read in full...)
Does he expect me to chase him?
Q. Right where to begin?, i really like this lad i have only really knew him for a month or so and well i slept with him last week! He seen me in the pub after and never spoke and then he txt me later and said sorry i dint speak everyone would start ...
A. 18 October 2006: Well im sorry to say but this guy sounds like he just wanted you for sex..and i hope you were sensible,if this guy likes you he will be in contact,but he sounds as if he just wants it casual with no strings,id suggest you get on with your life, your ... (read in full...)
He has changed into not only a bad boyfriend but a truly evil person!
Q. I met my boyfriend in MD. Within 2 months time span we fell in love and he separated from the military and moved himself and I to where his family lives in AZ. Everything was perfect as we were trying to start a new life for ourselves. We've been ...
A. 18 October 2006: I seriously think this guy needs help..and if he doesn't want it ..then you must get out of the relationship,although you love him his not the same guy you fell in love with ,tell him you will support him if he wants help ,but if he doesn't your ... (read in full...)
| *LEAHx's friends
These are mutual friends, so *LEAHx has
added them and they have added *LEAHx!
|
