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writes: I have been with my partner for just over 1 year. We fell in love very quickly. I had seperated from my husband 9 months previous which was extremly messy. My friend and family became protective and felt it was too soon. They are also very jealous, as they wanted my for their needs. And my partner is successful. I had many uses for them. They do not have anything good to say about my partner even though my friends have not met him. He has changed my life for the better in many ways which they do not like, they assume so much about him. He is a strong character with alot of love for me. But they think he is bad for me. Due to hearsay around me, my partner and I have rowed so much it has led to violence from him. I dont entirely blame him as I suppose I was damaged from the brake down of my marriage and very confused with what was right and wrong from a relationship and will admit to provoking him. But my friends advice gets to me and I take it out on him. I shouldnt compare relationships. My friends are married and have been for a long time and their advice is not necessarily right for me. We love each other, but the problem we have now is I cant forget the violence he has shown. He is sorry and assured it wont happen again. He has agreed to get help to keep me. He loves me and I love him what should I do?
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reader, xLEAHx  +, writes (20 October 2006):
 Hi There,
I totaly agree with him getting help, there was no need for violence..and he must get help for this ..if this is the guy you really want to be with think twice do you think he will ever get violent with you again if so 'GET OUT' if you believe in him and he's the right man for you then give him a chance if his willing to get help,as for your family and friends there proberly thinking you have rushed into this relationship too quickly after your previous..but they should get to know him better before judging him..if they know about his violent behavier then their never going to let it lye..and your going to have to tell them to keep out of your buissness and accept that this is what you want and how you want to live your life and for them to be happy for you..
GOOD LUCK & KEEP US POSTED
xLEAHx
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