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iv been a agony aunt to many people, them coming to me with concerns an worries and have always had time to listen and been a shoulder to cry on..you don't always have to put your name you can write in anoym and i will try to give you my best advise..
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I had a dream that my bf was texting my ex-friend
Q. hi! i have abit of a problem but im not surr if it is a problem or just my paranoid mind! i fell out with my best friend in june sometime and we havent been in touch since then but my bf had her number in his phone but it wasnt stored under her name ...
A. 31 October 2006: Hi Anon,
Mostly what we dream about reflects on whats on our minds,seems like this thing with your b/friend txtin other girls is still playing on your mind and your paranoid in thinking that he maybe in contact with your ex mate..and i can'... (read in full...)
Developing too quickly and getting stretchmarks. How do I get rid of them?
Q. dear cupid, i am a 15 yr old girl and over the last month or so my boobs have been getting bigger which i am very happy about as i have always been very flat chested but as my boobs get bigger i have began to develop more and more stretch marks they ...
A. 30 October 2006: Hi Anon,
The bad news is there is no way of getting rid of stretchmarks..the good news is ..that your not alone 90 % of girls and women have them ,i know your young and its not fair but you having stretchmarks at an early age mainly on your... (read in full...)
He never takes me anywhere because he says "I act weird". What should I do?
Q. is something wrong with me or him? been dating for over two years. waited for him while he went into the military, but since he's been home, it's like pulling teeth to get him to spend time with me. he says he won't take me to his company picnic, no ...
A. 29 October 2006: Well hunny with your man having a attitude like that i think i would have been long gone ..for him to be embarrased to take you out to meet his coleagues saying you act weired is a insult, and he gets to do what he wants but to him you shouldn't ... (read in full...)
Blood and brownish spots in my underwear...what does this mean?
Q. Ok, i have this problem...for like a couple weeks i have been having blood in my underwear, but its not like a regular period tho, and i am like a month and a half or two months late, but i have like brownish spots in my underwear everyday or ...
A. 29 October 2006: Hi Anon,
Have you done a pregnancy test ? as you are nearly 2 months late ..i would make a appointment with your doctor to rule this out..
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I have friends I like to hang with. My gf has no friends. How do I priorize my time to be with her?
Q. 10 month relationship, its good, but i always would rather just chill with my friends, they dont have girlfriends and i always have a good time with them. I come home to my girl and friends thursday-sunday. My girl has no friends, i try to ...
A. 29 October 2006: Maybe you are not ready or happy in a long term relationship, seeing as you would rather chill with your mates..when a couple get together and fall in love in many cases they drift away from thier friends because their loved ones mean more to them ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you fancy someone?
Q. This is probably the most vague and stupid question in the world, but how do you know if you fancy someone? I've often been confused about the exact emotion you're supposed to feel when you have a serious crush on someone. I mean, just because you ...
A. 29 October 2006: Hi Anon,
A crush is really meant for a younger person finding an older person you see regularly and finding them attractive, (fancying them)and thinking about them all the time, the word crush means the same word as fancy only mostly youn... (read in full...)
Why do boys like porn so much?
Q. why do boys like porn so much!? i've got a long term boyfriend (18) who looks at porn regularly (practically every day) but i don't know why! does it mean hes not happy with me? we have an amazing relationship and i know he thinks so too and i just ...
A. 29 October 2006: Hi Anon,
It is natural for guys to look at porn as they find the female body attractive and a big turn on..for him to watch it everyday sounds like he has a obsession with it,men are also at the height of thier sexual peak at the age of 18..... (read in full...)
Now normal is it for dad to perve at his daughters?
Q. hi, i'm 15. almost fully grown. is it normal for your own dad to look at their daughters bums or legs or boobs? cos i go and get a drink and i turn round to where my dad is, on the sofa and hes looking at my bum. i saw my mates dad look at her bum ...
A. 29 October 2006: Hi Anon, This is defently not normal..it is not normal for a father to look at his daughter in this way and also her friends at such a young age..have you asked your friends whether thier dads look at them like this? i bet they don't..also some of... (read in full...)
The other night as a dare we kissed
Q. Well, one of friends broke up with her boyfriend recently. And the other night as a dare we kissed, but all of a sudden i find myself really liking her. I dont know if she like me or not, and I'm confused about what to do! Can someone help???...
A. 29 October 2006: Hi Anon, Well just to be on the safe side i'd treat it as a bit of fun..obviously it wasn't to you, and you enjoyed the kiss and now your finding you have sexual feelings for her..but as for her it may have been just a bit of fun seeing a... (read in full...)
I don't know whats going on
Q. when i was at a mates party the other night, this woman kept looking and smiling at me (me in particular) and she then pulled me up to dance a lot. i also saw her whispering something to her friend and looking at me, i don't know what she was doi...
A. 29 October 2006: Hmm ,sounds like this woman likes you..when you mentioned she was whispering to her friend she was proberly telling her how she liked you..sounds like this woman may be the other way..and was clearly trying to come on to you..if you are feeling ... (read in full...)
Hand-job timings?
Q. How long should a girl keep going for before stopping when giving her boyfriend a hand job?...
A. 29 October 2006: Hi Anon, There is no time limit on giving a handjob..if you feel comfortable doing it, and your guy is enjoying it, then there's no harm in carrying on til he ejaculates..unless its a bit of fourplay then you move on to oral or intercou... (read in full...)
We're cheating on his new gf
Q. Confused about my feelings for my ex...he has a new gf but we have had sex since they started going out...I think he's now avoiding me in some way but there's loads of signs that he still wants me. For example when we were cheating on his new gf he ...
A. 29 October 2006: Yes its possible you still are in love with him and still have strong feelings for him... and it sounds like he's still in love with you but don't know what he wants..if your still having sex with him then your not gonna get him off your mind ..if ... (read in full...)
My Mom as this annoying way of comparing her figure to mine! What should I do?
Q. My mum and I have very different figures, she's got a small bum, and thin legs, and no chest, whereas I've got a large bum and larger thighs, small waist and large bust. However, I'm happy with my body. I like having a more womanly shape, however my ...
A. 29 October 2006: Hi Anon,
I think it may be a bit down to jealousy,if your mum is quite trendy for her age,she's probery getting paranoid about her ageing and the way she looks..i can understand why your getting anoyed at this because it sounds as if she'... (read in full...)
I have weird white tiny spot at the top of my penis
Q. I have weird white tiny spot like things around the ridge bit whatever its called at the top of my penis. what are they? should i see a GP?...
A. 29 October 2006: Hi anon,
It could be nothing but id advise you to visit your GP just to put your mind at rest and to make sure its not a STD..also hopefully you get some answares on this from male readers to give you a peice of mind ..
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PMS problems..are bothering me! Has anyone got any ideas on how to cope?
Q. Lately I have had a very umpleasant premenstural symdrome,before I only had a headache 2 or 3 days and felt tired now I also get swollen and suffer from a lor of breast tenderness which makes me feel very uncomfortable without my bra. I start ...
A. 29 October 2006: Your not alone with this,i also suffer from many of the symptoms you have stated,normally for breast tenderness and bloated stomache this is due to water retention which alot of women store (me included) you can get tablets for this from your GP or ... (read in full...)
I keep getting emotional on the phone to him before he leaves for a long time and I don't want him to think he is hurting me!!!
Q. I have the most wonderful relationship with my boyfriend but he works overnight and sometimes I'm a week not seeing him..but we talk every night on the phone when he works...I'm 21, and independent, have my own apartment...so it's not a dependency ...
A. 25 October 2006: Hi Ruby,
I know just how you feel,as my situation is similar,yes your very much in love and feel lonely without him and being an emotional person doesn't help the situation..prehaps ask him to try and txt you more often or whenever he can ... (read in full...)
We slept together and I really like him but we don't want to hurt our friend who likes him too!!
Q. i have just started uni and made some quite good friends.most of the group i am with travel to uni every day exept me and one lad over the last 5 weeks we have become realy good mates.and on thursday we ended up sleeping together.now i dont no what ...
A. 25 October 2006: Hi Anon,
Really you need to know where you stand with this guy ..did sleeping with him actually mean something to him or was it just a one off..if it was a one off (one night stand) then prehaps him using amanda was an escuse..if he real... (read in full...)
My ex gf was kissing me and hugging me! Was it because I told her about another girl I liked?
Q. Hi all, well i kissed my ex gf at the weekend after she asked me if she could kiss me and as we started kissing she started holding my hand an we both started to embrace each other and i asked her later on that night if she regretted us kissin...
A. 25 October 2006: Hi Anon,
Well it does seem funny that after you told her about seeing someone else she decides she wants to kiss and hug you..it don't sound to me like it was a goodbye kiss..she most proberly regrets you two ever splitting up, and still has ... (read in full...)
Negative actions and thoughts are causing me to lash out at my bf. Help me!
Q. Iam 15 and my bf is a bit older then me at first it was great, but i just get angry with him for no reason what so ever i just go of at him for no reason i just turn really selfish it is really causing big promlems i can never really get the right ...
A. 25 October 2006: Are you sure your not going off your boyfriend or maybe fallen out of love with him..sometimes if you get bored or fed up with the person you tend to react like this ..but where your saying you hear in your head 'ugly and horrible' maybe you are ... (read in full...)
My man's penis won't get hard! Is there something wrong with me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have sex about 5 times a week, but the past few days he is unable to get hard. One night I gave him oral sex and a hand job and he orgasmed perfectly fine. Is there something wrong with me that my man's penis wont get hard or is ...
A. 24 October 2006: Hi Yo,
I shouldn't think its got anything to do with you..is he worrying about anything ? or feeling stressed ? this sometimes can cause a man errection problems..or is it only with you he can't get an errection with ?..you say you give him ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to take one extra week of birth control???
Q. Do anyone know if it's safe (baby-proof as well) to continue to take one extra week of birth control pills? To clarify, I'm suppose to have my period next week, but I want to delay it for a week(going on a trip), can I just open another package and ...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi there Anon, I know alot of people have done this due to them going on holiday,to carry on taking the pill to delay your period which i have done in the past well many years ago and it was ok for me ..but things may have changed ... (read in full...)
I've been feeling ill and don't know what to do....
Q. why do I always feel so unwell? i've been feeling not 100% since late June, either stomach ache or feeling sick, and my eating has changed. I tend not to eat as much now, though I wouldnt say I under eat tho i have lost some weight,not loads. I just ...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi there chaz, i think you should make an appointment with your doctor to put your mind at rest if you worry about it your only going to feel worse i know alot of people don't like to see a doctor inc myself..but it might be the case... (read in full...)
How do I go from casual to real relationship???
Q. how do i get a guy from a casual relationship to a more committed one?...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi Anon, If your casually just seeing this guy for just maybe the odd date or sex and you have started to have feelings for him and want to take things further i.e commitment..then having a talk to him would be the best bet..my advise w... (read in full...)
How do I go from casual to real relationship???
Q. how do i get a guy from a casual relationship to a more committed one?...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi Anon, If your casually just seeing this guy for just maybe the odd date or sex and you have started to have feelings for him and want to take things further i.e commitment..then having a talk to him would be the best bet..my advise w... (read in full...)
Are we or aren't we ...together? He acts like we are but says "No we aren't". I'm confused!
Q. Dear Cupids, Been seeing a guy for nearly two months, I am 25 him 29. We have been getting on really well, sex is good, we have a laugh together and there doesn't seem to be any awkwardness. We have been seeing each other a couple of ti...
A. 23 October 2006: Well everything you have described seems to me that you two are in a proper relationship and im just as confused as you why he happend to say you wern't together..unless he loves your company ..likes the sex..and dont think of it as a proper ... (read in full...)
Can't read the signs here...does this guy really like me?
Q. Here's the problem, i have never really been good at reading the signs that boys chuck at us! So can sum1 help me out, he keeps looking at me when he thinks im not looking and has tried to catch my eye when there was about 3 of us in the room.(me, ...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi Anon, There all the signs of him being interested in you im pleased to say..when you find a guy looking at you out the corner of your eye ..or you can mostly feel thier eyes on you ..it means they like what they see and don't wanna t... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps telling me about a girl that wants to have sex with him and another with a crush on him...he's quite ugly so I don't see how they would!!!
Q. hi im 14 and going out with this 15 year old boy. we went out to the cinema the other day on out first date and he kept telling me stuff about other girls. he said that this girl on msn asked him to have sex with her. why did he tell me this? im...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi Anon, I Think maybe his either being honest with you and just talking to you like he would his mates, not thinking that you really wanna know these things ..or his doing it on purpose bragging ect..maybe he has a complex about his look... (read in full...)
What can I do to help my lover have an orgasm???
Q. what can i do to help my lover have an orgasm...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi Anon, Personally speaking when having sex with your lover try introducing a sex toy (viberator) let her use it on her self to find her g-spot ..viberators are the best thing to make a woman orgasm..then once she knows what does it for h... (read in full...)
I want to know if we will ever get back together!!!
Q. I just returned from my ex boyfriend's house where I spent the weekend. We have been broken up now for 3 months and when I was there this weekend he was staring into my eyes and saying that he thought I was beautiful inside and out. I told him ...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi Anon, Sounds like he is still in love with you and does have feelings for you..if you say he has been depressed then this is why you broke up ..maybe things were getting too much for him and he has other issues and because of the way he f... (read in full...)
Is she really in love with me or am I losing her???
Q. my girlfriend has changed her mind on me saying that she needs a break,but i still love her and want her back.Is she genuinely in love with me or am losing her....
A. 23 October 2006: Hi there waba, When someone says 'WE NEED A BREAK' it can either mean 2 things 1.The relationship is getting to heavy and the person needs time to get thier head together to find out what they really want. and 2.Can sometimes mean the... (read in full...)
Jack or Max?? Which one do I risk my future with?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend Max for 4 years now. I've always thought he was the one I was going to marry and I've never thought of anyone else in that way since we got together. but recently I've started to have feelings for my old friend jack. ...
A. 23 October 2006: What are these feelings i have for jack ,that is what you need to ask yourself.. and whats gone wrong in your relationship with max to make you feel this way and maybe try and work at it..if say jack has taken a sudden interest in you then it may be ... (read in full...)
She just graduated and I'm still in high school. Should I date her?
Q. is it okay for a 16 year old guy who's still in highschool to date a 18 year old girl that just finished highschool?...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi Anon,
I Don't see there being nothing wrong with that presuming she isn't botherd about the age difference..most guys like to date older girls and if she really likes you and you really like her then whats the problem..go for it!... (read in full...)
When he fingered me..he missed the right hole and it hurt, badly. Is this normal?
Q. bit embarrising but i must ask lol i got fingered the other day by my boyfriend (for the first time) and it didnt hert really, but i happend last night again and it hert!! :S but this was because he like "poked" slightly lower than the hole lol is ...
A. 23 October 2006: If his not putting his finger in properly then yes it proberly would hurt..its obvious its the first time his done this and doesn't exactly know what his doing..and the only way to correct this is to tell him or guide him ..otherwise its going to be ... (read in full...)
How do I let him know I want to date him with being in his face? Any tips?
Q. Any advise how to get things moving a bit without being too in your face. I really like this guy been talking to him online for about 3 weeks and i've met him once before. We hugged a few times and talked for about 3 minutes before i had to go. As i ...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi Kat,
Well firstly i would see if he takes up your invitation to where you invited him ..if he shows just try an be a bit flirty using eye contact if he responds then your know his interested and wait for him to make the next move whet... (read in full...)
Not sexually active but my bf is making plans for us to do things, next weekendI am scared!
Q. i am 17 years old, i am not sexually active yet, however my boyfriend has invited me round to his next weekend...and i think he is planning for things to happen which i want but im worried! i dont know wat im doing! Will it hurt getting fingered ...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi Anon,
If your sure too that your ready then you need to relax,it won't hurt, you just need to be sure your ready and try not to think of anything hurting,things will come naturally if he does anything you dont feel comfortable with... (read in full...)
I like her and she doesn't like me! Any tips on how I can stop liking her?
Q. please help. Im 16 and i like this girl but i really don't want to! i don't want to like her because i no that she doesn't like me that way so there is no point in liking her otherwise i will just get hurt. Can someone please help me and i mean it ...
A. 23 October 2006: hey there anon,
Ok..If you see this girl at school or whereever you happen to see her, try avoiding her and also look around im sure there must be other girls you have your eye on ..if so..make your move..try and possibly avoid her ... (read in full...)
Why is it that the women I try to talk to..are so cold and rude to me? What should I do?
Q. why is it that i find that many girls are so cold towards me...can someone ( preferably female) tell me if these scenarios are normal ? 1)I like to say hi or smile to girls in the street, but they rudely walk by without saying hi back. 2)Or i...
A. 23 October 2006: Hi there keith,
This is quite normal from some women ,there are alot of women that constantly think that guys are hitting on them all the time and they have very bad attitudes..you sound like a very polite person saying hello and hold... (read in full...)
How do I stop from flirting/cheating with others when my bf is away? Advice needed!
Q. at school i was always the ugly girl and i had really bad spots, i never got any attention from the boys. when i was 16 i met someone and i love him dearly we have been together almost 3years now. as i have grown older i seemed to have got prettier, ...
A. 22 October 2006: Hi ther anon,
I can understand how your feeling and why you are doing this,although you love your boyfriend dearly and never want to hurt him,the reason for your behavier is that as you said that because at 14 you thought you were ugly... (read in full...)
We don't want to have sex yet but she wants to enjoy dirty phone calls with me!
Q. me and my girlfriend want sex but not yet as she is a bit uneasy with it. that's fine with me. were both virgins. she wants to enjoy a dirty chat on the phone. that's fine with me if it helps her. have you got any ideas of what really turns on...
A. 21 October 2006: Hi There,
Dirty chat (phone sex) is very normal and common, it could be a bit hard for you both seeing as your both virgins and do not really know how it feels to have sex..as phone sex is describing what people would like to do to each... (read in full...)
My bf hardly wants sex anymore. Is this because he sees me as a long term person who he wants a proper relationship with, or because he is going off me?
Q. My bf has said that 'we are not just about the sex' and doesnt wanna do it as much as we used to We have been together 6 months Maybe im just being a bit insecure at the moment He kisses and cuddles me loads when i see him (we only get to see ...
A. 21 October 2006: Its funny really coz most of the time its the other way around,we all know guys love sex and its all they mostly think about ..i think you have one in a million there and should feel flattered that he wants more then just to get in your knickers ... (read in full...)
He said he doesn't get much time off but took my number...was he just being friendly?
Q. I met this guy,i've seen him a few times and he he is always talking to me,he works at a club i go to,well yesterday i saw him again and before i went home,he said i suppose your off home to your husband or boyfriend now,so i knew he was fishing to ...
A. 21 October 2006: Hi there,
Sounds like he is interested otherwise he wouldn't be fishing to see whether or not your attatched..hope all goes well..
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