Girlfriend Troubles!
Q. Q: 1 i need help. i love my girlfriend so damn much, and yes i will admit i have fucked up a few times for example during the beginning of the relationship i had looked at a few girls and made some comments, it has now been 6 months since Ive done...
A. 17 October 2010: 2: She isn't sexually frustrated, she is frustrated period. Sex is a part of your relationship that ties into the rest of it. It is easy for a woman to be pleased when she wants to be.
If she is mentally/spiritually/emotionally satisfied by you, ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend Troubles!
Q. Q: 1 i need help. i love my girlfriend so damn much, and yes i will admit i have fucked up a few times for example during the beginning of the relationship i had looked at a few girls and made some comments, it has now been 6 months since Ive done...
A. 17 October 2010: 1: She sounds like she needs a break from you. Nothing permanent, and nothing that requires blame to be thrown around. I think both of you would benefit from a period where you weren't contacting each other, to help put both of your feelings and ... (read in full...)
Dated him. Broke up. Then got back together. Lost the feeling again. Did it again. Then really fell for him. He dumped me. I love him. How do I get over him?
Q. Awhile ago me and this guy went out. A few weeks later I broke up with him, because I wasnt really feeling it anymore. About a month later, he asked me out again. I said yes,because i thought i liked him again. We went out for about three days. ...
A. 17 October 2010: Don't beat yourself up. You are a perfectly loveable woman who got in and out of a relationship that didn't work.
Don't spend time beating him up. He is gone, and you mentally hating on him will only hurt you.
Realize it didn't work, it ... (read in full...)
The ex: I don't even know if I want her back or is my ego just bruised?
Q. should i tell me ex girlfriend how i feel? we broke up 3 months ago for reasons that are honestly just misunderstandings. Ive told her before that she misread me but shes stubborn and just got mad that i didnt care about how she felt. Shes was a ...
A. 17 October 2010: You have to realize that your judgment is clouded. Admit it to yourself. Until you do, you will make all kinds of bad decisions based on emotions that are based on what you perceive. For instance, you say she got over you easily, but the rational ... (read in full...)
Has anyone had success in a new relationship with their ex?
Q. my girlfriend broke up with me over three months ago and is till have feelings for her and dont like that the misunderstanding that ended our relationship. While i am conflicted on whether or not i should even like her still and hold out till sh...
A. 17 October 2010: It works for some. Sometimes the original reason they split becomes a non-issue and they can move forward from that. Sometimes both people can grow separately to a point that they come back different people and can make it work.
But what usually ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex that I feel badly about the way things ended?
Q. I really just needed some where to write this, because I just needed to get it off my chest. I dated a girl for a year and a half, it was pretty good most of the time, but I didn't fully put my effort into the relationship like I should have. I a...
A. 17 October 2010: Wait it out. It is the best and most caring thing you can do for her. She is dating someone else, and she doesn't need to be reminded of the past this early on in that.
I would also recommend taking up a physically exhausting hobby of some kin... (read in full...)
He thought I deserved better!
Q. My (ex)boyfriend about 3 days ago. We were about to make 10 months. We had a great relationship until Sept. We work together and our relationship slowly faded out. He told me he needed space to want to miss me. I tried to give him space but we work ...
A. 17 October 2010: I'm sorry, I know your situation must have been really hard.
You need to not stress about it. Do your best anyway. Use this time where the two of you are separated to work on yourself. Boost your own self-esteem, go out and try something you've n... (read in full...)
Do I have a chance with Alex?
Q. My best friend ryan has his god brother over all the time, alex. We hang out EVERY weekend together, His god brother is a junior at my school and I am a freshman. He always says flirty comments to me and talks with me, and the class we have ...
A. 17 October 2010: I would strongly suggest not being under the influence at your age. There are too many people at my age (25) who STILL can't figure out how to do it responsibly.
... And yes, I totally think you should have a chance with him, if he is really i... (read in full...)
He's confessed his love for me but... he HAS a girlfriend!!!
Q. um yes there's this guy named alex i love him so much but he already has a gf the thing is he tells me he loves me all the time once i asked him why cant i have a bf but you can have a gf and he told me because i wanna be the only one to kiss you, ...
A. 17 October 2010: Realize that he is setting you up to be cheated on from day one.
Move on, leave him behind.... (read in full...)
Please I really need some ways to get over a hard break up...
Q. hello guys, i really need every single advice and feedback fron you guys. my LDR gf of 2 years and i finished ( we couldnt meet within this 2 years for some reasons ), coz she just disapeared for over 4 days and got bk tellin me that she doesnt need ...
A. 17 October 2010: The best way I found to get over someone who was a large part of your life like that is a change of scenery.
When my first engagement went down in flames (I was 22 and had known her for 15 years), I was a mess. She was my best friend, the only per... (read in full...)
Power struggles with mom!
Q. I am in my mid twenties and there seems to be some power struggle with my mom.. she tends to live in the past and still thinks i am 16 even 19 at times. She doesn't spend money on worthless things at all..but i think she has a problem in terms of ...
A. 17 October 2010: I wouldn't accept it. Granted, I don't expect to get anything from people. I would rather spend the money I have on people I actually share my life with, and not on people I only know through cards and gifts.... (read in full...)
My past is destroying my current relationship
Q. Hello In the past I have had quite a few relationships that ended badly and im not in good terms with my ex's My last relationship ended because my girlfriend cheated on me then dumped me for her ex that she told me she hated and never told me ...
A. 17 October 2010: When I was much younger I went through something similar. Self-esteem is beaten to the point where it wreaks havoc on your ability to make decisions.
What you need to do, and this is the best thing you can do, is the following:
Take a breath... (read in full...)
Cheating with married man, why do I feel its all my fault?
Q. I have been in a situation where-as-though I messed with a married man. My intentions wasn't to get seriously involve but I did. I was told he was separated and lived by his self but all that was a lie. He made it so believeable because he always ...
A. 27 September 2010: You feel at fault because you believe in marriage. You were lied to, but in the end you still feel like you got dropped between two married people. A marriage failed with you in the middle, but you need to see that you were used in the whole ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend beating me--is there any safe way out of this?
Q. Ok, so I've been with this guy for 3 years, and he's been hitting me for a while now. A long time actually. After we were together for only 6 months he started to hit and it has continued these past three years. I had the option of course, like ...
A. 27 September 2010: The boyfriend my wife had right before me used to beat her. He raped her, broke ribs, and beat her bloody. He would cheat on her and rub it in her face. He isolated her from her friends and family. She used to think that, as long as he was beating ... (read in full...)
Still Not Over Breakup
Q. So basically I got out of a bad relationship in July. And I'm still not over it. I have hooked up with a couple guys but I haven't felt anything with them really. I get depressed after I hook up because I think of my ex and my relationship with him. ...
A. 27 September 2010: Hey Jessmca!
Your best bet is probably to take it easy for a while. I know it sucks when older people tell you that you are too young to be worried about stuff like this, but you have a long time ahead of you to meet guys.
So take your time, ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he's going to leave me for someone else
Q. I've been in a fantastic relationship for a year now. He's absolutely wonderful and treats me so well. But I am quite insecure. He's never done anything to hurt me or make me think he'd leave me. He even called me the love of his life the other ...
A. 27 September 2010: First off, if 'yeah, I think so' isn't a good enough answer for him, he sounds just as insecure as you so don't worry.
And now... Get over the fear. It's a risk, and it's hard work, but nothing worth having in this life is ever going to com... (read in full...)
Will I ever have a boyfriend in my life?
Q. im 16 years old and i never really had a serious boyfriend, ive had guys intersted in me but i wasnt in them.Sometimes i like being single because a lot of my friends have boyfriend and there always getting in fites and telling them what to do ...
A. 27 September 2010: I'm sure you will, but don't worry if you have to wait for it. Looking back at when I was 18 (I am 24 now), I would seriously doubt I even knew what a serious girlfriend really was back then.
And enjoy being single. Being single is easier, ... (read in full...)
Window for the "Previous Sexual Partners" talk has passed... what do I do?
Q. Hello World, I had sex with my girlfriend on our first official date, and now I'm stuck in between a rock and a hard place with finding out her previous sexual history. I was a virgin when I slept with her (and was blind-sided by the whole experi...
A. 27 September 2010: I would suggest you let it go. If you really only care because she won't tell you, then put yourself in her shoes.
She slept with people in the past, and is now in love with a man who hasn't. She isn't bummed that you don't know what you are doin... (read in full...)
Trouble having anal sex
Q. My boyfriend really really wants anal sex from me, but every time we try, I can't follow through because it hurts SO much. He hasn't even gotten his cock all the way in yet. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to make this better? He's done it ...
A. 27 September 2010: Read a guide like this one:
http://www.freddyandeddy.com/howto/howtoanalsex.htm... (read in full...)
Boyfriend likes rough oral sex?
Q. I have never had a problem getting a guy off with my mouth. Infact I like to think I pretty good at it. The thing is, my bf now likes it rough. I am talking teeth slidding down the shaft, I have sucked him so hard I cracked a filling, and that he ...
A. 27 September 2010: First, kudos for your dedication to pleasing a man that 99.99% of women would tell to blow himself or that he is lucky she does it at all!
If you are sincerely interested in making it more pleasing, I would recommend finding a toy/tool you coul... (read in full...)
How can I make anal sex a clean experience?
Q. hi everyone:) My BF has been asking me to try anal.. But I keep on saying NO!! I'm really scared, terrified you can say! I'm afraid it's going to turn out really disgusting (definately know what I mean).. he never tried it before, and I really w...
A. 27 September 2010: I pulled the following from a larger article you should probably read anyway here : http://www.freddyandeddy.com/howto/howtoanalsex.htm
"Clean yourself out with warm water. There are many methods: using your finger while in the shower to “rinse o... (read in full...)
Wife and I are more like roommates--do we stay together for our kids?
Q. HI, I have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids. My wife and I argue from time to time (I would say it is fairly normal) but thereis no abuse of any kind. I would desribe us as upper middle class and our kids are really great and they m...
A. 27 September 2010: First, take a look at some of the highlights of your post, and address them one at a time: - Sex life has gone way downhill. After you hit about 25, your sex life is going to go downhill. When you get married, your sex life is going to go dow... (read in full...)
How long does a women's prime last?
Q. I'm a 26 year old women and lately I've been wanting sex more and more lately. I'm recently divorced and I'm not sure if it's because of my single life or I'm hitting my prime. All my friends tell me that I'm hotter than I was in my teens and early ...
A. 27 September 2010: It will last until you decide it has ended. Age truly has little to do with how attractive you are considered (until you get up there in years).
Considering the people around you think you are hotter than ever, and you want more and more sex, I w... (read in full...)
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