A poll regarding virginity
Q. I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...
A. 16 May 2009: Don't know if this helps as I'm in the UK but I was 26.... (read in full...)
My sex drive is out of control!!!
Q. First of all, im a guy. i accidently pressed the female option on the form thing and now find that i cant change it. so i masturbate ALOT, and im horny all the time. i find it really difficult to find a girlfriend that satisfies me and time and time...
A. 16 May 2009: What can I say, for some of us guys you are making us extremely jealous with talk of your own exploits. Most mens sex drive is out of control I myself masturbate almost daily and sometime more but that is through the fact I'm not currently in a ... (read in full...)
Why have I no energy to masturbate?
Q. I would like to know why I am 30 years old and I no longer have energy to masturbate? I still have sex but not to often due to circumstances in my life. ...
A. 4 May 2009: Have you realised how dull and monotonous it is? Have you become bored with it? Are you satisfied with who you are and where you have reached in life?
How often do you have sex? Are you in a strong relationship with someone you are in love wit... (read in full...)
Easier for guys to move on??
Q. My b/f and I broke up after 7 years. we are 20 difference in age, I'm in my later 20's and he's in his later 40's. We love each other very much, he's a very nice guy and treats me with respect. He always tell me that I'm the love of his life. ...
A. 26 April 2009: In answer to your questions again only from a personal point of view
1) He is probably thinking that you may want or need to have children at some stage in your life and he will be an "older" father, and possibly won't want to be seen this way... (read in full...)
My boyfriend refuses to go down on me. Help!
Q. my boyfriend wont go down on me! i am very clean and shaven down there, just how he likes, and i dont taste bad either. hes only given me oral sex 3 times in 2 months we've been together. its been about 3 weeks since the last time and when ive asked ...
A. 18 April 2009: I personally think that you will have to take away what he enjoys then see how he likes it. Personally I like nothing more than going down on a woman and making her squirm in desire and passion and when she asks me to stop I just continue. (Far too ... (read in full...)
Someone cheer me up please!
Q. Me and my ex-girlfriend have been on and off for the past 6 months but we are very much into each other...too many disagreements and problems with trust have ruined things. I decided to give it one last go instead of giving up on it but i didn...
A. 12 April 2009: Closure has not yet happened. You and your ex need to sit down together and discuss things properly, no distractions. No computers, no mobiles, nothing to get in the way. You are both adults.... (read in full...)
Thoughts about first time sex
Q. Hi everyone! Okay I'm not saying that I'm going to have sex or anything I'm just very curious what is it like the first time you have sex? Does it hurt? Does it feel good? Is it amazing or what? I need to know!!:) it would really help me out for ...
A. 27 March 2009: jessica04 says it all in the first line.... (read in full...)
Do most men like to offer oral sex?
Q. Do men really like going down on women? - I know that most men like blow jobs - but do men really like going down on women or do they prefer to skip the foreplay and just get on with it? Honest answers please - as I've got my first night of passion ...
A. 1 March 2009: Personally it's the one thing I love to do more than anything else. The pleasure to make a woman squirm and writhe in orgasmic pleasure through oral sex.
Forget about a woman going down on me - I derive little if any pleasure from it.
I would... (read in full...)
I was just a mess when we snogged!
Q. I don't know what I am doing, there is a guy I work with whom I have been attracted to since I first saw him, we have been flirting for a couple of years (yes years) we finally snogged but I was rubbish I completely froze (my hands were shaking and ...
A. 27 February 2009: Sounds to me deep down you were over excited. This is what it should be like, the anticipation, the fear, the excitement.
I'm 45 and if I see a woman I like, yes my heart beats a little bit faster, and I get a little excited.
Have some fun... (read in full...)
Should I give the green light to my friend to have sex with my mom?
Q. Hello… My friend wants to have sex with my mum. They are both single. i care for them both and want them to be happy. I know my mum thinks my friend is cute. My friend said that he has liked her since we both were in high school. She is in her 4...
A. 27 February 2009: Personally if they both want to have sex that should be up to them and them alone. They should both decide on their terms.
You steer well clear of this situation. The less you know the better. What if they end up falling in love and marrying... (read in full...)
Will this help give me closure?
Q. So.. right or wrong I'm writing this letter to my ex and sending it via the internet. I wrote to him a few weeks ago, and we spoke for a while and then he just didn't answer me. The last thing I said was "I'm glad you're happy". That was a week ...
A. 27 February 2009: Dear ? Only you can ever tell by sending this letter will it give you closure. If you feel this is the best way to unburden yourself and be able to move on then YOU HAVE TO DO IT. Maybe just the act of writing it down and then destroying it will it ... (read in full...)
Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them?
Q. Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them? We hear that men are always thinking about or watching sex at some point or other but even some unattractive average woman offered herself to a man for the night would he take it??...
A. 26 February 2009: Personally - no I wouldn't take it. There is a thrill in the chase. Although I was chased when I was younger but I didn't spot the signs she wanted to sleep with me. But at the time she wanted me I wasn't interested (confidence issues).
I still ma... (read in full...)
I want to have sex at 13, what do you advise?
Q. im am 13 and i really want to have sex i just dont have anyone to do it with! who can i go to?...
A. 26 February 2009: I advise that you wait until you are 1)Old enough. 2)Emotionally involved with someone who you care for and cares for you. 3)Know you own body better. 4)Are able to communicate effectively with someone of the opposite sex. There is plenty ... (read in full...)
I know its going to happen but I'm so scared of losing this person!
Q. i'm only 13 but i have a really close friend who is 17 and will be leaving school soon. she's the best thing that ever happened to me and has completely changed my life. she's the person i can always trust, and she always helps me when i'm have ...
A. 24 February 2009: You're so lucky in today's world. You have all sorts of ways of keeping in touch, e-mail, texts, videophones. Talk to your friend and explain everything about how you feel. ... (read in full...)
Is my b/f pervy or does he love me?
Q. pls pls as many opinions as possible from men and women, im having a hard time deciding if my b/f is a bit pervy or does he love me. everything comes down to sex if i want anythin he will jokingly reqest sex or a favour like that. when i see him he ...
A. 24 February 2009: On reading this personally I think the guy is only interested in sex. Yes men are to a certain extent ruled by their penises, but if he was interested in you 1st As an equal, 2nd As a woman, 3rd as a friend, then finally as a sexual partner t... (read in full...)
His new sex move is amazing, but I feel guilty for loving it!
Q. Dear girls Pse help me with a rather embarrassing question. A few months ago my bf was going down on me and suddenly switched tactics and flicked his tongue across my ass. After a few protestations I had my biggest orgasm EVER and a huge headache ...
A. 21 February 2009: First time I have heard of a woman having a headache after sex.
Anyway the issue here is whether you enjoyed yourself - YOU DID.
Just make sure it happens more often.... (read in full...)
He wants me on top for first time sex and I'm not so sure...
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months now and we're talking about having sex. Its not that i dont want to do it, but he says he wants me on top. i've heard its a great turn on for guys to have thier gf's on top but the thing is its my ...
A. 21 February 2009: No disrespect to anyone but you shouldn't be having sex at your age. Snogging, feelin each other, mutual masturbation fine but not full on sex.
No matter what societies expectations are currently.
Have some fun yes, but sex no. Wait until y... (read in full...)
Will I lose weight on this diet?
Q. I have started a new diet where I eat nothing the except food supplements 'echinacea' and exercise 3 hours a day on my treadmill at 6.5 km per hour. I have been on it for two days now and feel fine though I was just wondering whether this would lose ...
A. 21 February 2009: Eat sensibly, exercise every day. Use more calories than you eat.
At your age your body is still growing and adjusting to the chemical changes within. Your body needs proper fuel and liquid. Only 'actual' food can provide this.
Don't fall fo... (read in full...)
First time with a prostitute...
Q. Is it better to lose your virginity to a prostitute if your past your teens than waiting for sumthing long term, which could take forever?...
A. 12 February 2009: Same as pvtguy, wait. I did and I still remember it. The excitement and anticipation. The first time seeing a naked woman in the flesh - oh joy. And remember enjoy the experience take your time and ask the woman you're with what she likes. Take a ... (read in full...)
Do men ever regret their decisions?
Q. My ex broke up with me because he wanted his freedom and didnt want to be tied down in a relationship, even though we were perfect together. Unfortunately, I dont see us getting back together or even being friends but I am wondering when he finally ...
A. 8 February 2009: Yes. Absolutely - decisions we did make and those we didn't. I only ever regret 2 things 1st - Mine not asking the first woman in the world I fell in love with to marry me. Oh what a fool I am! and 2nd - see the 1st one.... (read in full...)
How can I move on, or stop feeling so bad?
Q. ive recently found out that this girl i was absolutly crazy about doesnt like me, but we are still mates, i dont think that she knows i like her that way and we still hang out together but wen we do it kills me thinking that we can never be ...
A. 8 February 2009: Hi
As the two female responses have said - spend time with other people. Your friend doesn't like you in the way you like her. First talk to each other about your feelings. You will be surprised how good it feels to open up to someone.
Meet ne... (read in full...)
I don't want to do the chasing
Q. Ok, about a year ago I met someone, Rob, through my friends. I really liked him and he liked me too. We flirted alot and kissed but he never got with me, he said I was too "full-on" and he wasnt ready. He was still in love with his ex as well. Then ...
A. 17 January 2009: Get together have a coffee and a chat. Nothing wrong in you asking him, then give him a couple of days to reply and take it from there.... (read in full...)
Is confidence ultimately the most important quality women are looking for in a man?
Q. Hello. I'm a little low on self-esteem at the moment. There's a woman at work who I thought was sending me indicators of interest so I asked her out via e-mail and was rejected. Since then she has barely made eye contact with me. This has gone on ...
A. 17 January 2009: Personally I think confidence is the biggest factor and it has taken me till I'm 45 before I believe I had the confidence and now I will have no fear in chatting to someone who I think looks like the type of woman I prefer. Everybody male and female ... (read in full...)
Happy New Year to all!
Q. Happy New Year to all those who post on here, aunts or otherwise. May this year bring us all love, luck and happiness, and if not then enough alcohol so we don't care :)))))). Love and blessings to you all, Deema....
A. 1 January 2009: A very Happy New Year to all.
May we all find what we're looking for, but not lose everything we have, in the way of those we love without boundaries or exceptions. Let's keep talking to those love and never give up caring.
Today I am th... (read in full...)
Do best friends really have that cheesy happy ending?
Q. Hi, I'm nineteen and I've had my fair-share of boyfriends. Mostly bad, as I've only had one boyfriend that lasted more than a year. The other night, my most recent ex and I broke up and as usual, I went straight to my best friend of seven years ...
A. 1 January 2009: You have a best friend who will always be there for you.
I should know I'm in the same predicament with a friend of mine of 20 years the most amazing, beautiful, charming, desirable, elegant, feisty, gorgeous, honest, intelligent, joyous, ... (read in full...)
Is this all there is to marriage?
Q. I've been with my husband for 12 years and am seriously considering leaving him. He loves me but everything I ever do seems to irritate him. We don't make love - we have sex once a month and it's hideous. We don't have a lot to talk about and s...
A. 1 January 2009: Meet your husband again and restart the romance.
I've never been married but I know through a friends break up that it is when people fail to communicate properly that things start to go wrong. Either partner will edn up doing more than the othe... (read in full...)
How to ask out girl you've known for 5-6 years?
Q. How do you ask out a person that you've known for 5 or 6 years? If she says no, will the friendship end? Will she hate me?...
A. 27 December 2008: Only one way - ask her out on an official date.
Why would she hate you? Hate is a very strong word to use in this instance. She may be surprised that you want more from her than she realised. In this world you don't get if you don't ask, and if y... (read in full...)
Easier for guys to move on??
Q. My b/f and I broke up after 7 years. we are 20 difference in age, I'm in my later 20's and he's in his later 40's. We love each other very much, he's a very nice guy and treats me with respect. He always tell me that I'm the love of his life. ...
A. 27 December 2008: No it's not always easy for the guy to move on. After letting a wonderful woman go, because of my insecurities and fears, it has taken me 17 years to realise there are more wonderful women out there to form relationships with but you have to love ... (read in full...)
Which girl would you ask out?
Q. what types of girl do guys mostlt for: A)heavy girl with class and sophication,sort of pretty just about B)blonde or red head or brunnette c)easy girl with no class ,dresses trashy ,goodlooking, D)girl of class, sophication,ed...
A. 27 December 2008: Even for a man this is a difficult question to answer. We all have our specifis types that we tend to gravitate toward but at the end of the day if the person you're with is the person you don't want to be without, then she (he) is the right ... (read in full...)
I don't know which one is stronger, my head or my heart, how can I get over this teacher crush?
Q. I'm so tired of being in love with this guy, that i can't have. I thought i would get over him soon, because it'll never work out...but yet, im still sitten here, love sick, and tired of it. I need help! I don't know how to get over him. Here's ...
A. 23 December 2008: Oh dear the familiar story once again. No doubt it is very common and one that really tugs at your heart strings. I too am in the same position even though I am 45. I am absoutely, madly, passionately and deeply in love with my best friend & will do ... (read in full...)
I get erections hugging my girlfriend!
Q. i always get an erections when im hugging my gf should i be worryed ...
A. 21 December 2008: To answer the main question, no don't be worried at all it is a natural male reaction to someone you are obviously attracted to. ... (read in full...)
Can I ask my brother to watch him masterbate?
Q. Hi, hope u can help bit of a dodgy question but I walked into me older brothers room hes 15 and cought him touching himself. We both freaked out but it was to late and he came, he insists that he didnt but i saw it, he was shouting at me a...
A. 21 December 2008: Ask this question of yourself. Would you be happy for your bother to watch you masturbate?... (read in full...)
My husband loves me, I know he does but he can't say it!
Q. my husband and i have been together for 7 years, married for 6. i love him with everything in me, he is my world. i know he loves me too, and we have a decent sex life and all of that, but he REFUSES to compliment me. this is something we've been ...
A. 21 December 2008: If you love someone enough you should tell them everyday, in word, thought action or deed.... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and never had a date! Why do men never ask me out?
Q. What are you supposed to do if you're were an ugly duckling that grew up to be an ugly duck instead of a swan? I am a 25 year old virgin and a girl. I've been reading some postings here from other people but my situation is different becaus...
A. 21 December 2008: Dear Charlene
I felt exactly the same way as you and I'm a guy. I'm in my mid forties and have only had one serious relationship nearly 20 years ago now, which lasted two years. This just happened to be with an absolutely stunning looking woman fr... (read in full...)
Every time we have sex I get torn--any suggestions?
Q. Seventy percent of the time we have sex, he tears me. I tear near the little part just below the vagina (it commonly tears during child birth). Not a big tear, but just enough to make it uncomfortable. Everytime it happens he stops our love making. ...
A. 20 December 2008: The best thing to do would be to visit your doctor or gynaecologist and explain the situation.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves sleep more than me!!!!
Q. Hello all, I'm in such a deliemma with my boyfriend, I always feel like he cares more about himself that he des me. When we have sex, we dont really do much foreplay, well thats to say its not returned. I do things to him but he wont do anything ...
A. 20 December 2008: It seems to me that your boyfriend has all the benefits from this relationship and none of the responsibility. Relationships are about communicating and understanding one another. Personally I don't feel your boyfriend is being true to you or ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves sleep more than me!!!!
Q. Hello all, I'm in such a deliemma with my boyfriend, I always feel like he cares more about himself that he des me. When we have sex, we dont really do much foreplay, well thats to say its not returned. I do things to him but he wont do anything ...
A. 20 December 2008: It seems to me that your boyfriend has all the benefits from this relationship and none of the responsibility. Relationships are about communicating and understanding one another. Personally I don't feel your boyfriend is being true to you or ... (read in full...)
Guys - what makes for amazing sex with a girl?
Q. Hey, quick question for the guys - what is it that makes a girl really good in bed? I mean, REALLy good? Because right now I'm seeing a guy who is AMAZING at sex, and puts 110% effort into pleasing me, it's awesome. But although my last boyfriend ...
A. 18 December 2008: Just take your time. Talk to each other about your fantasies and desires. With experience will come more pleasures. have fun and enjoy the moments you spend together. It's not a test you don't have to score 100% each time, just put a 100% effort in ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I will grow old and never meet anyone and it's making me sleepless! What to do??
Q. Im 25 years old and Im just a normal hapy-go-lucky girl with a good job, good friends and family. Im currently single, but I would say it was rather through choice. I know Im very attractive, and I hate writing it as it makes me seem arrogant but I ...
A. 8 December 2008: I know where you are coming from. The main thing I have learnt though is, it is important to go out and have fun. You never know who you will meet and one of them may be the one. You're only 25 and you still need to do some discovering and ... (read in full...)
What do older men see in younger women?
Q. What do older men see in younger women? Why would a man want to pursue a relationship with a younger woman? I would genuinely like insight from those with experience in the matter. I'm a young female interested in a man 15 years older than me, w...
A. 30 November 2008: Innocence, excitement, passion, healthy bodies, soft skin, great sex. Have fun, enjoy it you never know when you'll get it again.... (read in full...)
What is with men and older women?
Q. Guys:- Are men really attracted to older woman? (For example women in their 30s or 40s?) Why do some men date older women - is it because they get bored with younger girls or does age really not matter? Also what age gap between younger men and...
A. 30 November 2008: I may be in my forties but I still find older women, those in their late fifties and sixties, sexually attractive and would like nothing more than to have some fun with someone who knows what they want and wants to experiment.... (read in full...)
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