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What is with men and older women?

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Question - (12 November 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, *nonny writes:

Guys:- Are men really attracted to older woman? (For example women in their 30s or 40s?) Why do some men date older women - is it because they get bored with younger girls or does age really not matter?

Also what age gap between younger men and older women would you find unsuitable?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008):

I don't think it's because they get "bored" with younger girls, but some older women are just seem to be naturally very sexually attractive. It's how they are as a mature woman, how they carry themselves and their manner etc, those things are more attractive than their looks (even though they can look stunning as well)

I have always had a massive thing for British TV actress Amanda Burton, phewwwww. Even though she is around the same age as my mum, she typifies everything that is sexy about an older woman for me.

*goes for a cold shower*

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A male reader, urbanking99 United Kingdom +, writes (30 November 2008):

I may be in my forties but I still find older women, those in their late fifties and sixties, sexually attractive and would like nothing more than to have some fun with someone who knows what they want and wants to experiment.

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntIts because we are hot! sister.. Why wouldnt they want us he!he.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008):

Why older man dates young girls?

This is no different...

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A male reader, toddybad United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2008):

You know what, i think the other respondants have got this wrong a bit. I'm a 28 year old guy who fell completely for a 36 year old woman recently. things went a bit wrong but i still love her. its not just the sex - yes that was great - but its the fact the things she enjoys in life are very much the same things i enjoy - a slightly slower pace that doesnt involve going outg etting drunk every night. if there something between you and a younger guy and theres a real connection and you have a real friendship then it may well be more than justsex because age is no barrier to anything - the old cliche thats its just a number is all too true. if two people have that connection age is unimportant - its whats in your heart that is the real truth.

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2008):

shania agony auntI think men find older women attractive because they know what they want in bed.Younger women tend to be self conscious with their weight etc. Plus older women tend to enjoy sex more and like to experiment.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008):

Older women know exactly what they want and they don't shy away from asking for it. There are no hidden agendas, they're not usually interested in having babies, they know how to please a man, they don't giggle between themselves and they know how to look good without asking "Does my bum look big in this?" They purr between the sheets rather than bore the pants off you telling you all about how so-and-so's baby has started talking/walking/using the potty.

The good bit - like the previous answer says - NO DRAMA! Drama covers a multitude of sins. Younger girls can be a right pain in the arse with all their dramatics, but best of all, older women were brought up with stockings and suspenders rather than tights!

Give me an older woman every time! (unless she's called Sarah Palin)

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A male reader, happylife +, writes (12 November 2008):

Older women understand younger men very well. They know exactly how to make men happy and they usually never have the emotional confusion that younger women may sometimes have. This means that for most men, older women provide a more peaceful, calmer, satisfying relationship with absolutely no drama.

Happylife

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