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writes: I have never had an orgasm! Guys have gone down on me and I'v had sex in all different positions but still nothing! Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2006): maybe its not you. maybe you need more time. Does he finish too fast or switch positions constantly? orgasms come much easier when you stay in a position long enough to develop a rhythm. try girl on top and develop a rhythm and try not to think too hard either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2006): My minds not made up about this but two practicing hypnotherapists I know who see clients for this problem would say that not being able to "release" an orgasm is linked to how you handle your emotions, in particular, anger. I would be interested to know if you feel what I'm saying relates to you at all, if it does, send me a message and I could discuss it in further detail.
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reader, uonlyliveonce  +, writes (9 June 2006):
 i dont agree with the first answer which said you are to nervous to experiece one we know nothing about you and all the confidence in the world doesnt mean you'l have an orgasm i would agree with the fact that you should findout what you like for yourself and tell your partner how you like him to touch you. if you can make yourself orgasm then it is possible but until you know what you like your partner hasnt got much hope either! have a night just about you and get your partner to try differant thngs try toys too if ure darin enough the more comfrtable you are with your partner the easier it is to tell him what you want, it will happen just keep trying and it'l be worth the wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2006): It sounds like an indirect challenge. Never had an orgasm eh? [grins] That's unfortunate. What's even more unfortunate are those who come asking "Did I orgasm?"
Anyway, it's possible the guys aren't sensual enough, or possibly not rough enough. [smacks lips] Have you tried masturbation? It's possible that they're not perverted enough too. Mmm... 8]
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2006): You are too nervous when you have sex that you dont experience one. You're problably too focused on having one that it gets in the way in not having one. Communication is the key to everything, so talk to him and tell him how to touch you and let him know what turns you on. You should also experement with yourself and see what parts of you get you going if you know what i mean and then tell your man where and how to touch you so that you could climax! i hope this helps.
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