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writes: I am in college and I have been with a guy for a year and 4 months. He is in the airforce, and we are very in love. However, I am unsure as to what to do about a difference between us. If he makes plans for us, I like to know exactly what they are and exactly when they are taking place. In the past he has repeatedly failed to give me important details about plans and failed to come at the time he said he would. I have told him many times how this makes me feel and that I need him to clue me in on things. He has yet to change this pattern. I'm not sure what else to do. I love him and I don't want to lose him over this, but I feel continually as though he is inconsiderate of my time and feelings. What else can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, uonlyliveonce  +, writes (13 May 2006):
 i know how you feel with this situation for someone who is not in love its easy enough to say walk away and find someone else, but when your in love thats impossible and you'll whatever he does isn't gonna make you stop loving him, but you have to ask yourslf how unhappy this makes you it doesnt seem like a serious flaw on his half unless their is a reason for him not been on time for things. but if you trust him then keep telling him how it makes you feel till he starts to listen, do the same to him and see how he likes it, if he loves you as much as you love him then he'll try his best to change so he doesnt lose you.
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reader, uonlyliveonce +, writes (13 May 2006):
i know how you feel with this situation for someone who is not in love its easy enough to say walk away and find someone else, but when your in love thats impossible and you'll whatever he does isn't gonna make you stop loving him, but you have to ask yourslf how unhappy this makes you it doesnt seem like a serious flaw on his half unless their is a reason for him not been on time for things. but if you trust him then keep telling him how it makes you feel till he starts to listen, do the same to him and see how he likes it, if he loves you as much as you love him then he'll try his best to change so he doesnt lose you.
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