I don't mind my husband watching porn but I feel so disappointed in what I have found on our PC
Q. My husband of 50 resently got this sick mind of watching the music DVD of "Cameltoe" over and over everytime im at work. On our pc at home i found on the history that he was watching it just after he woke up (he was working nigh shift)at 10H25 and ...
A. 8 July 2010: That's disgusting, I can't believe he would do that! Repulsive!! I'm at a loss for words!!!
What was the name of the website that video was on again? ... (read in full...)
Let the past be the past? Or warning sign?!
Q. I been with my girl for 1 year,we were having intercourse and she yelled out a name that wasnt mines. I was furious and asked her to explain her self. She told me it was the person she was with prior to me,but that wasnt what borthered me. It was ...
A. 29 June 2010: The best leson I ever learned was, circumstances don't make the person, they reveal them..........and no I'm not judging. The best predictor of a persons future behavior is their past behavior...... (read in full...)
My wife had sex with her cousin and wants a divorce
Q. My wife a couple months ago found out her cousin on the other side of the country had cancer and wanted to go see him. Well they were never close but I didnt understand why but I let her go, she came back a week later and started fighting afterwar...
A. 26 June 2010: What the hell is wrong with this world....take all the money out of the bank and leave. ... (read in full...)
My wife has been having an affair, I want his name and details
Q. My wife was caught having an affair by his wife, a couple of days later I caught her out, she admitted it and said she didn't love me anymore, she has since changed her mind but refuses to give any details about the affair, I have said as a minimum ...
A. 26 June 2010: Dude...just take the money out of the bank account and leave. ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to just wait for a woman to make the first move?
Q. I have problems with meeting women (I don't ask them out anymore) and I'm wondering if it is okay to just wait for a woman to ask me out. Most people I speak to say it should be the man's job to ask the woman out. But I think it should be 50/50. ...
A. 26 June 2010: My friend, get out of your comfort zone. My suggestion is to go read the book "Play to Win".....it's not about relatinships, it's about postivie thinking, taking risks, and asking yourself, what's the worst that could happen, and what't he best that ... (read in full...)
In a relationship with a stripper who lies constantly
Q. [Mod note: OP's title] what should i do about the relationship (over 1 year) with a woman who has constantly flirted with other men, lies over and over and is an exotic dancer? She says she loves me but I have caught her in so many lies it is stagg...
A. 25 June 2010: Dude..what the hell are you doing., Have your friens not knocked any sense into you yet. She's a stripper, her whole profession was based on flirting and lies....you can take her out of the strip club, but it's gonna take time to take the strip club ... (read in full...)
Is this really cheating, I feel cheated in my marriage.
Q. Two friends, a man and a woman, both married in their late 40s, the marriages are sexless and in trouble. We became sexually attracted from the lack of any intimacy at home. We talk often and sex is a hot topic between us. She asked me to have sex ...
A. 23 June 2010: Get divocred. Cheating will ruin so many more relationships that just you and your spoudse. Find a way dude....trust me, it's the harder yet higher road to take. ... (read in full...)
My husband has been sending emails to an exgirlfriend on Facebook!
Q. iv been with my husband 4 years now and just a few weeks ago he got in contact with a ex girlfriend on facebook, i found emails they had been sending to each other saying they still loved each other and that he counldnt wait to see her again and ...
A. 21 June 2010: omg...social networking sites destroy relationships!!!! Always keep an open book on all of them! ... (read in full...)
I need someone to tell me that two people can love each other and it last forever.
Q. I'm 17 years old. An orphan, dumped into the arms of grandparents when I was 12 after my mother died. My sister lives in London as a pediatrician, so I rarely see her. I've learned the way of life on my own, and now I've fallen in love. I met my ...
A. 21 June 2010: It doens't dude....sorry man move on. ... (read in full...)
I want so much more in life...
Q. I'm 15 and I pretty much going through a LONG stage of depression. I don't get a long with my family including my annoying lil sister. They don't understand me and never will. They only have one mind set, they always think of the negative happening, ...
A. 21 June 2010: Go read the book "Play to win" by Larry wilson, or something more simpler.....The Secret (but that's too commercialized)....Play to win is a great book about getting out of your comfort zone, facing your fears, and moving on. ... (read in full...)
Girl trouble! Very bad!
Q. This the first time this has happened to me. So me and this girl have been good friends for about 6 months. Well just out of nowhere about a week ago she says she likes me so we start going out. four days later she says “so what do you think about ...
A. 21 June 2010: Ask her dude. What's the worst that could happen? She says, she realized she didn't like you that way? I don't think you did anything wrong.....sometimes things like that just happen. Don't fear her answer...ask her...otherwise you'll always doubt ... (read in full...)
Does he find normal sex boring?
Q. my boyfriend and i are having issues with sex. I want sex alot but he says that he hates it to often as it gets borin! Im gettin frustrated as im always the 1 givin oral and bring in toys etc to spice things up but i get hardly any input on his ...
A. 20 June 2010: YOu're giving oral, and he's getting bored??? ohhhhh man I'm stumped.. :( yah it's the porn, I'm all for porn, but it can be destructive at a certain point..... watch porn with him, see if that does anything for him....
Also, can he get it up ea... (read in full...)
We're both married but while drunk I told colleague how I feel about him!
Q. What should I do? I have a crush on a collegue who I have worked with for over 2 years. We have become good friends and sometimes there is chemistry which we both ignore as we are married. Last year he had a one night with another colleague of whi...
A. 20 June 2010: Don't do it. If either or both of you are uhappy in your marriage, get counseling or a divorce... Cheating or heavy flirting like that (which leads to cheating let's be honest) is so much more destructive not only to your lives but those around you. ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me because we argue
Q. I need advice on what to do :( I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months and I love him so much. He's adorable, caring and funny and everything I could want really although we argue quite abit. It used to be about doing stuff like sexual stuff ...
A. 20 June 2010: sounds like you two are pretty young....I say let the break up be, learn, grow, and move on........I mean that sincerely....... (read in full...)
Should I give it time or let him go? I'm getting too old for flings.
Q. I have been dating a guy for 4 months now, he is 38 and I am 37. we spend two to three nights a week together, talk and text all day everday, go hiking, play tennis, etc. I will sleep in at his house when he goes to work and he will come home on his ...
A. 20 June 2010: Yeah, I know what you mean. Honestly, if you want the commitment and it's not there, then move on. You can't force someone, it has to be mutual. It's free will. Alsok, don't get caught up in games, if you make that decision, stick with it! Good ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to skip the condom while on the pill?
Q. I'm taking birth control, I've been on it for about 3 months now, never missed a day. I haven't been active, but I'm curious that if I have sex, is my boyfriend able to finish in me, without the chance of getting pregnant. We don't want to use a ...
A. 20 June 2010: To anser your quesiton, no it's not safe.. :) ... (read in full...)
She swore she'd never cheat on me, but did!
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost one year now. We love each other so much. We are both on summer break from the college that we both attend. She is living/working in a town over 4 hours away from me. she recently visited me for a few ...
A. 19 June 2010: Seriously dude...get over it and move on. Confront her, tell her what you found, if you she says you invaded her privacy tell her, you betrayed our trust first...and break up..move on.......... trust me their will be other owmen. ... (read in full...)
I still love my ex alot, so I don't want him to know what I did
Q. I had broken up with my ex 6 months back.After which there was this guy in my life whom i got intimated with :( I know it was a mistake.I've stopped talking to the guy but its like i have to see him very often at meetings and gatherings. How do i ...
A. 19 June 2010: well are you guys together or broken up.....can he be with another girl? ... (read in full...)
How can I move on and stop loving him?
Q. I'm really hoping people can give me some insight on this because I'm beyond hurt right now. I dated a guy I'll call Sam for about a year and a half. We broke up but acted like we still were together. I went away to college and he told me he wanted ...
A. 19 June 2010: YOu're young and you're going to learn and grow from this. My suggestion is that you cut off all ties, and communication. Everything! Nadda. And move on. If he texts you ignore it. If he calls, don't answer, if he e=mails you don't reply. Block him. ... (read in full...)
I hate porn! Is it true all men watch it?
Q. I'm a 21 year old girl, and I HATE porn. I really, downright hate it. I think that, because of it, I may be doomed to stay single forever. I had a boyfriend until recently. He watched porn, but I just had to deal with it and it killed me inside...
A. 19 June 2010: Uhhhmmm to all those women who think men don't watch it, or "their" man doens't watch it...........haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! You're man watches it, your father watches it, your boss watches it! Just look at Alexa's website traffic. These sites are more ... (read in full...)
I looked at porn and my wife thinks I cheated!
Q. How can I prove to my wife I am not, and have never cheated on her? Recently my wife found out I had been looking at porn, it is something we had agreed not to do in the past, argued about in the past, and for some reason I looked at it again (I am ...
A. 19 June 2010: Explain it was the fantasy of porn, and nothing more. and that you did it because you're not getting something with her.......she'll hate you for it yes.....and then you have to explain that you want to watch it with her....to show her it aint that ... (read in full...)
Natural women verses porn...
Q. I have a question... I know there is A LOT of porn out there, many different genres, featuring a lot of different types of people, amateur, alt porn, etc. But if we talk about mainstream porn, which is the most common type, we'd all agree that t...
A. 19 June 2010: The faker the girl looks, the wilder she is, the better the sex, at least in the porn. Men like the fantasy of having wild sex with a trashy girl...hence the fantasy of porn.......
That's why men watch porn too because maybe their girlfrie... (read in full...)
My partner keeps changing her story about her past, what should I believe?
Q. ive been with my partner for 6 years and at the start she told me she had 4 previous partners and liked making me jealous, and it worked and as time went on i asked her how the sex was with them, then all of a sudden she said she only slept with 3, ...
A. 17 June 2010: you should double that number she orginally told you and then multiply it by 2. ... (read in full...)
Why won't she tell me her real number of sexual partners if she loves me?
Q. I am involved in my first relationship since divorcing my wife of 20 years. I have been in it for 9 months, and it has been wonderful. However, there was an instance a month into our relationship where I caught her in a bit of a lie and it made me ...
A. 17 June 2010: To Marialatin ....you're right and I hate you for it..haha.
To the guy that posted this letter. I went through the same thing....she'll never fess up. Just use your head, it's alot! ... (read in full...)
Did we both cheat and do two wrongs make a right?
Q. I have been married for almost 7 years, About 5 years ago I caught him on a porn site doing his business in front of the computer and it really made me mad. He never takes blame for aanything. He told me since the sex was not often enough he got i...
A. 16 May 2010: Lady....seriously....sleeping with another man vs. porn. Come on! Men watch porn becaue thye're not having their fantasies fulfilled. You cheated!.....I'm not gonna pretty this up..you're wrong, and crazy if you think he is. ... (read in full...)
I have only ever had 3 girls interested in me! How do I get my self-esteem up off the ground?
Q. im a young adult, have been in a relationship for 3 years and my self esteem is the lowest it has ever been. i feel soo ugly its eating me up and there is very little i can do about it. it never used to bother me before it was just something i could ...
A. 24 April 2010: Dude, take up the gym (and dieting). Build up a little. Girls love ripped dudes. But the diet is the most important. YOu will get your confidnce up...and get a lot of attention to. ... (read in full...)
My cheating girlfriend got pregnant!
Q. what should I do my girlfriend I was with for 4 years in on and off relationship who wanted to have kids and love each other. recently got pregnant but she cheated but didnt tell me so I thought it was mine. I was with her through the whole ...
A. 24 April 2010: Dude...leave! you're young. YOu do not need that in yoru life!! Leave! dump her move on. It hurts now, I know but trust me in a year, you'll be very glad you did!!! Seriously...she did that and you want her back....duuuude... (read in full...)
I can't bear the thought that I've reached the age of 19 with zero experience.
Q. Ok so i asked a question here a couple of days ago. The thing is im 19 and a virgin still, and i feel really worried and down over it. The people who answered were great and it helped but i think they thought i was just obsessed with sex and losing ...
A. 24 April 2010: Dude..Dude Dude...don't worry about it. I was 19 when I lost my virginity. Here is what you do.
1. Take up the gym (and dieting), build up a little, trust me it will give you confidnece.
2. Get some insurance for your first time (i.e. ciali... (read in full...)
Boyfriend threatening to dump me for being overweight!
Q. I am a 20 yr. Old female I been in a relationship of 3 years my boyfriend has a problem with my weight. I'm not too much overweight but I try to do everything I can I go to the gym I eat healthy and I do it all for myself and him but it seems to not ...
A. 24 April 2010: Sorry to say...Lose the weight! Look, men don't like fat women, or even "slightly overweight" women. It hurts i know, but lose it. And let me tell you when you do, and you will, you will have so much more self confidence......
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Our sex life is one sided!
Q. I'm in a relationship of 1 year now I'm 25 and he's 28 we love having sex we have a problem with our sex life he likes when I give him oral sex but when I try to get him to give me oral sex he won't do it and its just not fair and I have stopped ...
A. 24 April 2010: Yeah tha'ts pretty effed up.... I love oral sex as much as the next guy...but you gotta give to get! ... (read in full...)
I'm 18, is it bad that I masterbate and watch porn daily?
Q. I am VERY young and I watch porn daily and masturbate. Is that bad?...
A. 21 April 2010: Not at all. have fun! It's natural, and don't listen to anybody else :D... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to give me oral sex?
Q. Heyy everyone i really need help! ]= okay so i been with my boyfriend for about 3 months and he was a virgin while he was with me until yesterday when he gave it up to me. but he wasnt my first and he knows that we'll anyways i love oral sex!! ...
A. 9 April 2010: I know how you can!!! Tell him. YOu want a blowjob. You need to go down on me first and make me cum. Bottom line. Trust me that will work1!!!!!!! ... (read in full...)
Why do men turn to protitutes?
Q. this may sound like a random question, but why do alot of men visit prostitutes? most of them are dirty crack addicts who are really ugly and are tramps, and why would men want to do that if they have a pretty girl at home who is willing to do ...
A. 8 April 2010: Men turn to prositutes becaue they want oral sex....bottom line. Keep the oral sex alive....and they wont' turn to them....anyone care to disagree...... (read in full...)
Should I go on a date with a married man? He's so hot
Q. Hello guys I'm a 22 year old woman and well i was getting some work done waiting for the owner to get an estimate and this super hot guy walked in he kept checking me out so neways he was like your incredibly beautiful and I told him thanks he kept ...
A. 8 April 2010: He just wants to sleep with you lady..come on...seriously...he'll drop you as soon as he can. ... (read in full...)
My husband demands oral sex every morning to relieve stress, creating for me, what can I do?
Q. My husband demands I suck his dick every morning but I dont want to. I am over 50 and cant support myself and remaining kids in house. If I dont, he menaces me. I am sure it is not right for him to demand I blow him each morning, but he feels it ...
A. 8 April 2010: Just do it or he'll cheat on you or divocre you :) Trust me on this one. However, you should make him do it as well :) ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me with a prostitute, how can I trust him again?
Q. how do i save my marriage after my husband of 10 yrs went away "golfing" wiv guys from work and slept wiv a prostitute.i knew by the way he was when he got back and when asked he admitted it.he was drunk(though no escuse) and i belive him that ...
A. 8 April 2010: I personally, no matter what, would get divorced if my spouse cheated on me. But why did he do it is the question. I think men cheat when the sex dies down. They still need it, and men are very selfish and unaware when it comes to sex. They don't ... (read in full...)
My partner wants to cum on my face but it makes me feel violated!
Q. I've been in a relationship for over four years, we love each other madly and have a child together. However, my partner wants to come on my face during sex and is unhappy (which I find unbearable to live with) when I refuse to let him. I feel vio...
A. 8 April 2010: Seriously, you women need to get over that. First of all, it's fantasy and a big turn on. Not a big deal. Your husband watches porn and wants to keep your sex life alive. I bet it's already died down...just let him do it....it's hot....... (read in full...)
Why do men like fake boobs so much?
Q. Why do men like fake boobs so much? In my country, guys seem to prefer fake boobs. These are some famous models in my country, which all men drool over (no nudity, just bikini clad, but probably NSFW): http://i48.tin...
A. 31 March 2010: It's the "Trash" element. Women with fake boobs have insecurities that they don't feel attractive without them. so they get boobs to make them selves feel attaractive. A false sense of self esteem. Then they feel comfortable to have sex, and they ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is addicted to porn and I hate it...but I don't know why.
Q. My girlfriend has been addicted to porn since before we got togeather but told me she had stopped at the beginning of the relationship. I recently found out that shes been watching porn behind my back, this really pisses me off... Im not even quite ...
A. 31 March 2010: dude you watch porn too, so it's all cool. Next time you see her watching porn, get into it!! and have sex. :)
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Married for 3 years and found my husband looking at porn in the toilet at 5am!
Q. Hi,I've been married for 3 years now and everythings been fine until recently.I caught my husband looking at porn In the toilet at 5am! We had a huge fight about it and I didnt speak to him for quite a while neither were we intimate. Then when I did ...
A. 31 March 2010: Okay first of all. Every man in the world watches porn. Every man. He is no different. Even if you got divorced over this and you married another man, he would watch porn. It's about the fantasy. He wants what he is looking at with you.
So th... (read in full...)
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