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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I've been married for 3 years now and everythings been fine until recently.I caught my husband looking at porn In the toilet at 5am! We had a huge fight about it and I didnt speak to him for quite a while neither were we intimate. Then when I did start talking to him the same night while I was asleep ,he started touching me and trying to have sex with me! I asked him what was he doing and he said he taught I was enjoying it,I was totally disgusted by his behaviour as that wasn't the first time he did it but has promised to stop! Then an old friend tried to get in contact with me and he was very rude to them,saying he is jealous and that I'm a married woman now,does he have any right to say that after what he has done? I can't forget and I can't forgive-he hurt me in the worst way! Please help me,I feel so used,violated and suffocated!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): I know how you feel. My husband and I got in a huge fight about two months ago. He was talking divorce. I found out he was on a dateing website talking to girls and even meeting some of them even after he said we were fine and that he did not want to lose me. I found out he has started looking at porn late at night and going to the personal adds on craigslist looking at escorts and no strings attached sites, as well as sexual chat rooms.
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reader, twinlab99  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Okay first of all. Every man in the world watches porn. Every man. He is no different. Even if you got divorced over this and you married another man, he would watch porn. It's about the fantasy. He wants what he is looking at with you.
So the question is before you caught him, was he treating you well, did he make you feel good about yourself. Was your sex life good. And the most important question, did you give him oral sex. I think when that dies down, men look elsewhere for that fantasy. Men love that, and if they don't have it they need to find a release...hence the porn.......
So you know what, don't be mad at him. Ask him what you can do (sexually) to make him not want to look at porn......and tell him you have no rules... :) He'll be a happy man :)
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