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Married for 3 years and found my husband looking at porn in the toilet at 5am!

Q.   Hi,I've been married for 3 years now and everythings been fine until recently.I caught my husband looking at porn In the toilet at 5am! We had a huge fight about it and I didnt speak to him for quite a while neither were we intimate. Then when I did ...

A.   31 March 2010: Okay first of all. Every man in the world watches porn. Every man. He is no different. Even if you got divorced over this and you married another man, he would watch porn. It's about the fantasy. He wants what he is looking at with you. So th... (read in full...)

I want to be accepted my muslim girlfriends family.

Q.   My girlfriends mum has recently found out that her daughter is dating me and she will not accept it as she is worried that the rest of her family will frown upon it. They are a Muslim family and they will not accept me, a White British male, even ...

A.   31 March 2010: Yeah dude, I'm a muslim, and you're in a tough spot....just move on...it will be hell!!! ... (read in full...)

Is he just using me for a game or does he see a future even it is just with me as the "other woman"?

Q.   I am falling for a male colleague 20 years my senior. We are both married and I know he loves his wife and she is pretty stunning. We have started texting and it is becoming quite sexual. He tells me things like he is feeling randy etc. We have als...

A.   31 March 2010: Serioulsy, if you're ready to cheat, just get divorced. It's not fair to his wife or your husband. Just get divorced, and then you can be with him. The pain will be so much less than either of you finding out of the cheating...and let me tell ... (read in full...)

My wife bet a BJ to another man and he's won the bet... what should we do?!

Q.   My wife made a bet that I don't want her to keep and now she has to pay up, or default on her word. What to do? A couple of weeks ago, my wife, some friends of ours and myself were drinking at my house. The conversation got heated regarding...

A.   30 March 2010: are you people crazy! of course don't let her do it. HOnor my butt man.....if she even thinks about it I would leave her. ... (read in full...)

How can I get my husband comfortable with the idea of me having sex with other men?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for ten years. I think that i have a healthy and realistic view of sex. I have told him that if he ever gets bored with our sex life that he is welcome to sleep with other women. He of course told me that he ...

A.   30 March 2010: Lady get divorced. Seriously. Because if you don't you'll end up cheating, and you're going to crush him. The thought of you with another man probably enrages him. Get divorced and live your life...nothing wrong with sex...have fun, but don't do ... (read in full...)

Is this relationship with an older woman worth continuing?

Q.   A few weeks ago, I met a woman in my town and we had a sexual encounter. Since then, we have been seeing each other on a regular basis on the premise of nothing more but just fun together. I hadn't had sex for about 2 years until I met her but after ...

A.   30 March 2010: Dude..enjoy the moment, it won't last. You've got so many years ahead of you! Don't attach any emotion. You like her and that's great, but be honest and tell her it won't be long term, because it wont.....Harsh..but true... ... (read in full...)

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