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I'm living in a complete mess. But i sincerely like it. And since I don't know how to solve my own problems, since for me they are unsolvable, I decided to help the ones whose problems are for me not such a mystery.

Bah just joking. I like to play the misterious spooky guy, because I like to test peoples reaction. The truth is that I love my life, and would love to make other happy, so as soon as I found out of this site, decided to start answering, the questions which look I'm able to answer. I'm not he kind of guy who likes to comfort anybody, and if I have to say anything, I'll say it in the face, the most brutal way possible. For me that's the only way of people to find out the truth. And I also like to give people another perspective of the problem, and sometimes thanks to those two, end up having serious debates. I'm not the kind of guy who likes to give away info not needed. But knowing I'm 13 will give you another prospect of me, now won't it?

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This past week I keep having a recurring dream of being raped.

Q.   hi, For the past week I've been having a dream where I'm being raped; this guy who seems stalks me (in reality) comes up to me (in my dream) knocks me out and puts me into his car, when I wake up I'm on a beach which is surrounded by cliffs, ...

A.   11 November 2008: i told you. premonitions... but seriously TELL SOMEONE. FAST!!! or find someone who knows him, and find more about him. i once had that knid of thing. i started writing a text, with know purpose. and the things in that paper just keep on happenning, ... (read in full...)

If it wasn't for her, he'd like me..I know it! What should I do?

Q.   I first saw this guy when I was walking through my college's club fair, he was standing by his clubs post and I knew from the second I saw him that he was special, I knew I had to speak with him, and know him. Sooo I was too shy to go up to him... ...

A.   9 November 2008: i never wanted to give a bad opinion about your faith. i'm a pessimist by nature, so i like to give people full of happyness, another perceiving. don't misintrerpret my comentary. just trying to calm down all of that excitement. and in fact i do ... (read in full...)

Any tips on how to have sex so it doesn't hurt so much?

Q.   I tried having sex with my boyfriend, and I wasn't a virgin before hand, but I'm too tight and he's too big so it hurt me a lot and we stopped. The first time I had sex it didn't hurt at all and the guy wasn't that small but he wasn't huge like my ...

A.   9 November 2008: if your so sure of yourself, who am i to lecture you? if you want to have sex go ahead... but since you say it hurts so much, i think it's better to try, sex without penetration, so it won't hurt that much, don't you think?... (read in full...)

If it wasn't for her, he'd like me..I know it! What should I do?

Q.   I first saw this guy when I was walking through my college's club fair, he was standing by his clubs post and I knew from the second I saw him that he was special, I knew I had to speak with him, and know him. Sooo I was too shy to go up to him... ...

A.   9 November 2008: it's interesting that you feel angry wth me. you think you have no control over life. yet you do. you've just not perceived that. being angry with my "live with it"... blowing all with my expression heheh. do you know something? go to this site http... (read in full...)

I Can't concentrate on my studies an am much disturbed.plzzzzzzz help!!!

Q.   I am a silly girl of 23. I have tried my level to run a smooth relation with my boyfriend. Well it is a long story. We met by a wrong call. He just dialed my number and asked me to be his friend. At first I refused but then after his continuous ...

A.   9 November 2008: it's very simple. those kind of guys, acomulate stress, over and over, until the littlest of the problems, makes them explode. then when all is over, they are calm peaceful and gentle. beware of those persons, because if they don't have someone else ... (read in full...)

I have never felt so strongly about a girl before and I really want to win her over.

Q.   Hello, Recently I met in person, for the first time, a girl that I have been talking to (online/phone). We clicked over the phone and always had lots to chat about. We agreed to meetup after chatting on and off for two years. She was more nervous...

A.   9 November 2008: it would be better, to know more of why she's like that, but if you can't...then maybe that message would be the best option...... (read in full...)

I'm in love with someone who is no good for me...

Q.   We all fall in love. It happens . . . and when it happens there is nothing we can do about it. It's a sensation we cannot control. But what if you fall in love with somebody you're not allowed to fall in love with? What if you were secretly in love ...

A.   9 November 2008: do you truly want to know? it's because, like i always say, love is the most powerful force of nature. love is like those persons, who talk to everyone, but rarely choose a side. that is love. love is the closet you can be to any other feeling, and ... (read in full...)

Are there any ways of making my feelings clearer to myself...?

Q.   A couple of months ago my relationship with my girlfriend ended due to her thinkin that it was "too wierd" and that we were best just being friends. I was mostly ok with this but i did still have feelings for her even though i didnt want to. To t...

A.   9 November 2008: my friend there are lots of them. you can meditate about it, you can talk about it with someone you trust, you can cast a spell upon yourself. or you can think this way: "i broke up with my ex. i felt somehing towards this girl. thne i didn't feel ... (read in full...)

Any tips on how to have sex so it doesn't hurt so much?

Q.   I tried having sex with my boyfriend, and I wasn't a virgin before hand, but I'm too tight and he's too big so it hurt me a lot and we stopped. The first time I had sex it didn't hurt at all and the guy wasn't that small but he wasn't huge like my ...

A.   9 November 2008: call me old-fashioned, but with 13-15, you shouldn't be so interested in sex. but i would say some lube maybe...... (read in full...)

Should I tell her or not?

Q.   i've been madly in love for this girl for a lot of time. and i guess she feels just a bit attracted for me. but i suffer from an early case of borderline personality disorder. it makes me a very problematic person. but i care so much about her that ...

A.   9 November 2008: thank you so much. now i know, it's better to put myself at risk, that to end up in something way worse than just a empty lonelyness. with the best wishes: E.U Atmard :)... (read in full...)

If it wasn't for her, he'd like me..I know it! What should I do?

Q.   I first saw this guy when I was walking through my college's club fair, he was standing by his clubs post and I knew from the second I saw him that he was special, I knew I had to speak with him, and know him. Sooo I was too shy to go up to him... ...

A.   9 November 2008: god i'm starting to feel angry with you my friend. you keep saying "if it wasn't..." well it isn't. live with it. you have know power over his life, unless you're a manipulator. stop focusing on the past or paralel presents, and put you're feet on ... (read in full...)

A love affair, a fairytale that ended badly.

Q.   ok, this is a long story so thanks in advance for reading. about a year ago i bumped into an old friend who i hadn't seen in years, through common friends. Soon after we all started hanging out and at some point she admitted having problems...

A.   8 November 2008: maybe that's exectally what you need. that's what i do to my "pacients". i shock tem, and then hear as they unbottle all the feelings. when they're exhausted, and had lost every bit of anger and frustration, i ask them to talk about that same ... (read in full...)

What type of guy asks this so early on?

Q.   A guy that I see at my job occasionally asked me out a few months ago and at the time I was seeing someone else so I wasn't that interested but he's a really nice guy so I explained my situation and we still talked occasionally through texts and ...

A.   8 November 2008: i guess he still loved you, and saw some sign on you, that caught is attention, and fought, it was the time to show he's feelings, once again (i have done this so many times). the decision is yours. but i think is not desperate, he just wants an ... (read in full...)

I'm scared and hurt after having been cheated on, I'm worried I won't be able to go back to who I was!

Q.   Just got out of a 18 month relationship and feel like shit. I was cheated on for 3 months by my 'girl', and we ended it, but for some reason its been about a month and I still have feelings for her. What do I do to get her out of my mind and stop...

A.   8 November 2008: my friend, there's a time when you find that life isn't always nice and flowers. it's rough, hard, cruel, merciless, and likes to play with us, because like you doesn't have anything better to do. now, now you 'll, eventually forget her. probaby ... (read in full...)

Well, this is a new one!

Q.   I had given my number to a girl I met at a Halloween party, and on that night, we seemed to really enjoy each other's company. A few days later, I get a call from a number I'm not familiar with, and when I answer, I get a *click*. So I call the ...

A.   8 November 2008: it depends on how much time has passed. if a lot, how about another call? of course, if something similar happens, you should say goodbye my friend. or become her friend...... (read in full...)

This past week I keep having a recurring dream of being raped.

Q.   hi, For the past week I've been having a dream where I'm being raped; this guy who seems stalks me (in reality) comes up to me (in my dream) knocks me out and puts me into his car, when I wake up I'm on a beach which is surrounded by cliffs, ...

A.   8 November 2008: If you believe in premonitions, you better go hiding somewhere far way. or, you could warn the authorities, about that guy who stalks you.... (read in full...)

My Love Life (This really sucks)

Q.   This is what I wrote from my hi5 blog: Well.... my love life has become my love death, so I'll start from the beginning. Please don't judge me on all of this because I never really had online relationships that much this year. So far this year I ...

A.   8 November 2008: i agree. you are a great amount of crap. instead of going out ther, you are sitting in front of a computer, waiting for angelic help to come. come on. stop playing the victim, and go there live your life. you're surely a good person. prove everybody ... (read in full...)

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