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my name is Kalynn, Im here to help people on their relationship problems mainly but ill help with anything. Im 14, yes I am young but NOT young minded. I hate when people degrade my advice just because I tell it like it is. Get over it! I know what I'm talking about. I probably went through more than most adults, so dont say I dont know what I'm talking about because you would be suprised. I dont really put alot about myself out there, but what I do try to do is inform people so they dont make the same mistakes I made. Well thats basically the run-down of myself=]

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He's the cheese to my macaroni, I think I love him or am I just attached to him?

Q. hi all i have a question that most people have problems with figuring out. i feel that im in love with my boyfriend but could it just be that i have an attachment to him i feel like the happiest when im with him. ive had many boyfriends and each...

A. 20 April 2008: you could very well be in love. i know that feeling and they say that you ar your happiest when your with the one you love...But only you know your true feeling so its kinda hard to decipher feelings that only you can feel. It could also be a ... (read in full...)

It's hard to be friends because we weren't friends prior to dating, now he acts as if we never even had a relationship!

Q. I have been boyfriend trouble. me and my boyfriend of 4 months broke up. i am very hurt since this happened tuesday, I know that us being 14 and all you cant really say it was love but We honestly were in love. now its gone. He acts now as if ...

A. 19 April 2008: thank you salvation... (read in full...)

I told him about my ex and sex and now things are not the same...what can I do??

Q. Okay everyone my problem is that im dating a very good guy. We are both 14 (no lectures please) i have a good head on my shoulders and same for him too. Our relationship has been the cute lovey-dovey type. However since i told him about an incident...

A. 25 March 2008: thank you everyone, your advice has really helped me! i appreciate it all god bless and take care!! xox... (read in full...)

I told him about my ex and sex and now things are not the same...what can I do??

A. 24 March 2008: what does sulking mean? lol sorry... (read in full...)

I don't understand how he can be disappointed since this all happened in my past, before I even started talking to him.

Q. heyy everyone=] I'm in a little bit of confusion and need some help. Okay so me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone last night and somehow we got into the subject about my past and what I've done. He's always called me "miss innocent" ...

A. 20 March 2008: its just that hes really protective of me and thinks im going to go back to the guy i had this "past" with. no matter how hard i try to explain that it wont happen he wont take my word for it because he never thought i did some of the things i have ... (read in full...)

Is he for real this time? Should I take him back?

Q. hello everyone! wow i havent asked a question on here in a while so here it goes. okay me and my ex split up about 2 weeks ago. my mom took my phone away so i didnt read any messages but hes been trying to talk to me and asking me to please talk to ...

A. 8 November 2007: we've been together like 4 other times so this is like his 4th chance. lol. but hes tryin so hard! i just dont know anymore... and hes the one who ends it..i could understand why he the first time due to personal matters.... (read in full...)

Is he for real this time? Should I take him back?

A. 8 November 2007: every single day he sent me messages. do u think he is going through all this trouble to break up with me again or do u think he really did learn the truth?-if this clears things up a bit.... (read in full...)

I still want to be friends with my ex, but he ignores me!

Q. Well, me and my ex's relationship hasen't been going well lately. It all started when i started hanging out with my old friends who can get on people nerves a little bit. And since i've been hanging out with them i guess i've been getting on his ...

A. 26 October 2007: i had the same problem too!. okay what you need to do is either get him alone and tell him in person (people give u alot more respect when you show them you got the guts to say it to the face) and explain that you still wanna be friends....or you ... (read in full...)

14, my boyfriend is 16. Why are boy his age so obsessed with Sex?

Q. why are boys his age so obsessed with sex!!!. hi everyone!! I was recenly back with me ex and he broke up with me by text message saying that "i love you megan" and I was like wtf? he told me "ahahahah" and i asked what was so funny and his response ...

A. 22 October 2007: lol thank you. thats very good advice, and your right I could have figured that out on my owm. I appreciate your advice very much... (read in full...)

I don't want to fall for him to quick this time.

Q. hello agony aunts and uncles!. okay heres the deal, I recently got back with my ex, he asked for me back. Well some people who answer all my questions on this boy probably know the whole story. We were split up for a few weeks and now were back ...

A. 20 October 2007: now he wont answer my text messages!!!. he has a job at a fast food place cus he is 16 but my phone shows a black arrow when the person your sending a message to reads the message. so far all are black and I have no replys. could this be due to him ... (read in full...)

Why would he go back to her?

Q. i hate life. well me and my ex supposedly got back together, he claimed he missed me blah blah blah. well we werent 100% together but we were thinking about it. he went back to his other girlfriend. this shocks me cause last night he called he ugly ...

A. 9 October 2007: he said he wanted back with me, he just didnt want to hurt me? idk if that help out any... (read in full...)

Why would she want to cause me any aggro?

Q. ok, well my life is so confusing right now lol. me and my ex broke up about 2 weeks ago. i really did like him and bla bla bla so on and so on. well he new girlfriend. i have gym with her so i kno who she is and vice versa. well me and my ex staye...

A. 8 October 2007: and i didnt contact him until she called me, which i saw no reasone for, we hadnt talked in a while so again, what is the point in telling me not to contact someone who i had no intention in contacting!?... (read in full...)

Why would she want to cause me any aggro?

A. 8 October 2007: well i mean i do want him back in a way, but id rather him be happy even if hes not with me. i wished them the best eventhough i cant stand her as well. i havent talked to him since before they got together, cause i kno my boundaries and i didnt ... (read in full...)

I want to lose weight but don't want to be muscular . . .

Q. i want to loose weight. im eating good and exercising. but i dont want muscles to show but i want to loose weight off my legs but i think the only way of doing that is to exercise but then i wont have lady like looking legs. help...

A. 8 October 2007: but muscular do u mean seriously body building legs? be realistic here. excersing for a good period of time will not exert your muscles to man muscles lol. but on the other hand this will tone your legs and thats what you want! there is quite a ... (read in full...)