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female
age
30-35,
*oftballplaya
writes:i hate life. well me and my ex supposedly got back together, he claimed he missed me blah blah blah. well we werent 100% together but we were thinking about it. he went back to his other girlfriend. this shocks me cause last night he called he ugly and he was so sorry for hurting me and said how sorry he was for missing my birthday n shit. i honestly have no idea what to expect when i talk with him. and now his new girlfriend stares me down. he told me how much beeter i was than her, so why in the hell would he go back to her!!!. i kno i ask alot about him, this is onlt because i seriously have no idea what to do.all advice accepted xoxo
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 He is keeping you dangling in reserve babe and thats all it boils down to, if he tells you you are better, then he has it in his head he can have you as and when he wants to.
Hold your head high and tell him to have a nice life and move on with your babe as you deserve better.
Take care.xx.
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (9 October 2007):
softballplaya is verified as being by the original poster of the question he said he wanted back with me, he just didnt want to hurt me? idk if that help out any
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reader, Bronze +, writes (9 October 2007):
He's a guy, plain and simple. He's at an age where he's been set loose in the candy store and wants to dip his finger in all the different flavors before he commits to one flavor. I'm not saying all young guys are like that. Some actually have their head on straight and know how to treat a lady. If he's telling you how much better you are than his current GF, then that's 1) a compliment to you and 2) his loss.
This is just going to be one of many relationships you'll have with guys. You'll have some good ones and some bad ones. Just as long as you learn from them, you'll find the right man for you later down the line, because you'll know what to look for - the good and the bad.
Don't let him stress you out. You are not anyone's 2nd choice.
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