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writes: I am 16, My girlfiend is 16... we were having sex and two condoms broke in same day (2hours of sex maybee less). *I never came till way after penatration*... The first time it broke I pulled out with in 3-6 to seconds,then i got a new condom and that one broke TOO! it took me 2-5 seconds to pull out... COuld she be pregnant?Why did the condoms break?My girlfiend does not want to get a home test and apsolutely refuses to go to the doctors.I came like 35 min later after we stoped she wanted to go again I said no and she ended up giving me a handjob with a happy ending but thats not the problem.My girlfriend says im being way too paranoid, is that true? all advice is appreciated...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): its very unlikely. dont freak out!! the condoms could have been old or exposed to high heat or cold temps. next time buy a new box at a store before you plan on doing it..
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (16 September 2007):
I would say there could be a very TINY TINY chance she is pregnant. But id say its fairly unlikely. However since there isa slight chance she could be pregnant its important you guys find out soon whether or not she is.
You could go buy a home pregnancy test for her? And give it to her and hopefully she will take it. That would be the first think you should do. Go do that tomorrow.
Then see the result.
Try not to keep thinking about it, although I know its hard. Ive been in a similar situation before too. But yeh try not to keep worrying about it because you will only make yourself feel worse. Worrying about it wont make the situation any better whatever the answer be. And if she is pregnant its not the end of the world. You dont ahve to raise a child. There is the option of abortion or adoption.
I woudl suggest that if you guys are going to continue to have sex then she goes on the pill. BUt my guess is that your gf would be too embarrased to go to the doctor for it? If so then you shodulnt really be ahving sex with her. If she cant be responible for her sexual health then she shodulnt be doing it. You could go with her to the doctors and hold her hand, give her some support. but in the end its up to her.
Get that home pregnancy test for her :) and let us know how it goes. and just remmeber the chance of her being pregnant is very very low.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioneven though if It were like only for a few seconds!! I think the condoms had spermiced because The condom was like wet on the inside part. so wouldn't the spremiced kill the pre cum? aww man i'm going to freak... I'm 16 and I finaly decided to have sex and this happens. and tomorrow would be the third day and shes working ahh its 2 am should I call her now...
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reader, Kasekuchen  +, writes (16 September 2007):
It's always possible that she could be pregnant even if you use a condom. That's why people really shouldn't have sex if they're not ready to accept the responsibilities. However, if you didn't cum inside her then there's a lower chance of her being preganant than if you did. You could buy her a home preganancy test (if she's embarrassed about buying one herslef) and be 100% sure about one week after her missed period. I wouldn't worry until then. If condoms keep breaking I would advise she go on the pill and you both get tested for STD's reguarly.
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reader, shivon1705  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 Yes, she could be pregnant , even if you didnt actually cum inside her precum is still there, were you using eny lubricants or oils? they can cause a condom to split if used or even mosturiser can effect it on the other hand were the condoms out of date? did you check the date?you are right to be worried sweety, youre not paranoid and you need to sit her down and have a nice calm tlk with her hunjust let her know you wont leave her, thats what most women are afraid of, but she NEEDS to get that test, something can be done about it with just a pill if you convince her to take a test within 3days after this insidant, if not there is always abortion, unless you both want to keep the babybest of luck xoxox
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