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Am I the only one that has breasts like this? It makes me insecure!

Q.   I have a question. I am insecure about my breasts. I have large breasts which men love, but the colored part around my nipple seems realy big to me compared to other breasts i've seen. Does it matter. Do men prefer one or the other? Am I the only ...

A.   5 May 2008: Don't worry at all. I have the same as you. I used to be really self-conscious about them too, but eventually I realized that to most men boobs are boobs.... (read in full...)

Midlife crisis---What are the differences for men...and women?

Q.   What happens to guys vs. women when they go through the so called midlife crisis and at what age is it?...

A.   22 February 2008: Well, for males just watch the movie American Beauty, that's the male mid-life crisis in a nutshell. My aunt just turned forty and she got her belly button pierced and started sleeping with men in their twenties. That was her mid-life crisis. ... (read in full...)

I don't think I'm bi but I fantasise about girls and I have a boyfriend.

Q.   I find myself thinking about girls alot. im straight, i have a boyfriend of a year and a half now, nad i love him with all of my heart. but i also think that im attracted to girls. i think about doing things with girls all of the time and i have ...

A.   21 February 2008: Don't worry, me too. I'm not really interested in having a relationship with a girl, but I find girls just as attractive as boys and have fantasized about them. I've had a few experiences with girls I know, and it's been a lot of fun. Don't be afra... (read in full...)

Poll question: how far have you gone (14 year olds)

Q.   hey everyone Me and my bestie are both 14. She is really worried that she hasn't done anything (sexualy) before. I'm not talking about fully having sex but even a hook up. So i want to start a poll for all the 14 year olds out there. How f...

A.   20 February 2008: I had my first kiss when I was 14 going on 15 years old. That's all. There's no right age for things to start happening, so tell your friend not to worry.... (read in full...)

Is it okay to fantasise about men other than my boyfriend?

Q.   Is it okay to fantasize about other men other than my boyfriend or watch movies with actors that I find very attractive? I wouldn't do this if he was around, only when I'm alone and if the urge sometimes comes up and I don't watch movies that ...

A.   15 February 2008: I'm pretty sure that's just one of those things that everybody does, but don't necessarilly want to admit to. It's completely natural as long as you a) aren't planning on acting on these impulses or b) aren't setting standards for your man that he ... (read in full...)

She loves someone else, but what about us?

Q.   Last summer/early fall, I started to suspect that my wife's attention was elsewhere. Especially concerning a really good friend of ours. This guy is in the middle of a terrible divorce with a wife that is being diagnosed with serious personality ...

A.   8 February 2008: Break it off with your wife. It will be hard, but you deserve a women who is all there for your relationship. In the end I believe everyone will be happier. I also think your wife is deluded in believing she can truly spread her love between the two ... (read in full...)

Why the change of heart once I actually buy the ring?

Q.   I have been dating my girlfriend for 13 years and we just bought a house 8 months ago. She has been asking me about getting married for the past year and getting excited till she found out I bought a ring then I woke up one morning and she threw me ...

A.   7 February 2008: Here's my girl perspective on this whole situation. On my birthday this year I was convinced my boyfriend was going to propose to me (he didn't). The second I heard this I had the most unnatural urge to run in the opposite direction. I was scar... (read in full...)

Masterbating behind girlfriends back, bad?

Q.   I masturbate, maybe two or three times a week, I try not to do it so much, because, honestly, it makes me feel really bad about myself, being, that I have a girlfriend. I feel like I'm the worst guy in the world, and it makes me really depressed. I...

A.   7 February 2008: It's good for you. Keep it up. Work on your communication with your girlfriend. You'll probably be surprised to find that she doesn't mind at all. The only reason masturbation should be a bad thing is when it turns into an obsession like porn addi... (read in full...)

I am having an affair. Part of me wants to stop, but part of me doesnt.

Q.   I am having an affair and I am unable to end it. I have been married for 8 years now and I have a great hubby. But..6 months ago I met a guy who just blew my mind. At first it was just great conversation and flirting.. but I admit I knew where it ...

A.   7 February 2008: The truth of it is, you can't have both. You, at some point, are going to need to make decision. Take it from someone who is learning this the hard way, each second you spend with "the other man" is making your marriage mean less and less. Sadly, ... (read in full...)

My mother-in-law hinted she wanted to sleep with me, I always had this phantasy so what should I do?

Q.   Me and my wife have been married for two months. Well her mom and dad just got a divorce. My wife has always told her mom her sex stories. I brought my baby over to her moms house and she was hinting around that she wanted to sleep with me. She said ...

A.   7 February 2008: You are very young to be married. I question whether you understand what a marriage truly entails. However, you got yourself into it, so now you have a responsibility. It sounds like these desires for your wife's mom stem from a pretty selfish ... (read in full...)

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