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Poll question: how far have you gone (14 year olds)

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Question - (20 February 2008) 17 Answers - (Newest, 6 June 2009)
A female Australia age 16-17, anonymous writes:

hey everyone

Me and my bestie are both 14. She is really worried that she hasn't done anything (sexualy) before.

I'm not talking about fully having sex but even a hook up. So i want to start a poll for all the 14 year olds out there.

How far have you gone?

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A female reader, XHakudatsuX United States +, writes (6 June 2009):

I'm a 14 year old girl. I've gotten fingered, felt up, eaten out. I've done anal & vaginal. I've given a BJ & a HJ. I've given & gotten hickeys. I've done it on boats, sand, the woods. Just about everywhere. I've done every possible kiss you can imagine. I've also gotten my breasts sucked on several times. I'm on the pill. I'm a little ahead of my time, so tell your friend not to worry. I know people that have never even kissed a guy. Not even on the cheek.

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A male reader, rapor 350 rapes United States +, writes (17 March 2009):

i just turned 15 a while ago and ive done, makeout, fingered,hj's, bj, ate girls out, dry humped and about everything but 69, tittyfuck, and sex but it all happened within a few months so you dont need to worry at all

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008):

im a 14 year old (boy)

and i think im ready but its up to you i do get pressured

by friends and other students

and then i ended up pressuring the girl i was with to do do it and i know i shouldnt have but the pressure is hard to stand up to do your best

im no longer with that girl for reasons unrelated so tell her not to worry if it happens hopefully she wont regret it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008):

i just turned 15 (girl) and ive made out, been felt up, been fingered, given handjob, blowjob, eaten out,and fooled around with sex but not actually going in...im on birth control though, just waiting for it to kick in

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A male reader, timmy r United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2008):

hi im tim im 14 and realy its differant for both boys and girls,like with boys its a race to loose there vaginaty ,however, keep ur dignaty cuz i lost mine when i was 13 and it wasnt nice , find the right guy who is going to love u dont just waste it on any one . sorry bout punctuation take it slow dont give it away 2 quick or ul end up bein used

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

im almost 15 and ive made out, given a handjob, been fingered and been eaten out..i plan on bj soon tho. but i only made out earlier this year so dont worry, dont rush yourself it'll happen when it happens :)

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A male reader, DangerCody United States +, writes (5 May 2008):

Im 14 (guy) and have fingered, got a handjob, got a bj, ate a chick out. missing all but sex.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008):

i am a 14 year old guy and i have never gone too far with a girl, i have fingered her and she has given me head...but as far as sex is concerned i will wait...i want to keep my dignity and so does my gf

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008):

when i was 14, i hadnt even had a boyfriend. no worries honey, reassure your friend bout that (:

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008):

I'm 12, I lost my virginity two months ago and ever since than I've slept with six different guys.

Please dont be jealous, as it's rather trashy.

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A female reader, jace_mr.muffles Canada +, writes (23 February 2008):

i am 14, never had a bf and never dated im not desperate either cuz a couple of guys ask me out already but i dont really like never had sex b4 or oral and i dont want either i say your too young no offense i am too anyways LOL but i think its ok to kiss or dated and hold hands for that matter but sex i dont think your up for it LOL not saying that ure a chicken but its best if u think a bout carefully for you and for her

GOOD LUCK!! :P

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A female reader, I.miss.yooh Australia +, writes (22 February 2008):

I have recently turned 15, but a few months before my birthday i had my first full on pash, dry sex..so not too much at all actually.. Dont feel pressured into doing anything!!.. Im either gonna wait until marriage or until im definately in love, before even contemplating sex.

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A female reader, shelleyanne United States +, writes (20 February 2008):

shelleyanne agony auntI had my first kiss when I was 14 going on 15 years old. That's all.

There's no right age for things to start happening, so tell your friend not to worry.

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A female reader, LouLee United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2008):

LouLee agony auntWell, when i was 14, the furthest i went was... i kissed and later snogged a guy the year above me..he was my first kiss when i was 13. x

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A female reader, sofiamorgan United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2008):

sofiamorgan agony auntWhen I was 14 I had done absolutely nothing with a guy. Now I'm 18 and have kissed a guy and that is all. You should never feel under any pressure to do anything that you don't want to.

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A female reader, maid_Marian_vetbabe United Kingdom + , writes (20 February 2008):

maid_Marian_vetbabe agony auntWhen I was 14, I had done absolutely nothing with a guy. I mean, in primary school, Id had kiddie boyfrinds but other than that, at 14 theres no pressure to have done anything.

When you feel the emotions that make you want to do sexual things with someone, then you are ready for it!

Hope this helps! :-D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008):

I'm only just 15... but I had sex and missed everything else out.. no making out no nothing. Was a bit stupid to say the least.

And to your friend: don't worry sweetie, waiting is better than making silly mistakes like I did.

xxx

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