A
female
age
16-17,
smoothlegs
writes:I find myself thinking about girls alot. im straight, i have a boyfriend of a year and a half now, nad i love him with all of my heart. but i also think that im attracted to girls. i think about doing things with girls all of the time and i have also talked to my boyfriend about it and he understands. i just look at girls and im like damn, shes really hott!! and i just really think it would be fun to have an expireance a girl. am i crazy? is this not normal?...please comment to this and tell me what you think.thanx. Reply to this Question |
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): you may not be bi....have you watched a lot of porn? If you have you have been learning to want to 'do' women.
If you don't watch porn then I would say yes, you are bi.
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female
reader, shelleyanne +, writes (21 February 2008):
 Don't worry, me too. I'm not really interested in having a relationship with a girl, but I find girls just as attractive as boys and have fantasized about them. I've had a few experiences with girls I know, and it's been a lot of fun.
Don't be afraid of your feelings, they're completely normal.
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female
reader, O Connor  + ♥, writes (21 February 2008):
 yeah me too....nothing to be ashamed of, alot of girls are or simply fantasize about having sex with girls, its normal. its ok to fantasize about girls if you have a bf, im with my bf 3yrs and sometimes fantasize about girls, it doesnt mean you love him any less or are any less normal!! enjoy the best of both worlds!! but dont cheat on your boyf, just cos it could be with a girl doesnt make the circumstances any different, unless he is of course ok with it which some men are. i have made out with my girlfriends before on nights out and he just thinks its funny and hot!!but i would never have any serious relationship with anyone while with my boyf!
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female
reader, Ann1056263 +, writes (21 February 2008):
 Well, it does seem like you are bisexual. But you shouldn't worry if it's normal. You are who you are and that alone is normal.Now if you're thinking about being intimate with a girl while you're in a relationship, you should really treat it the same as if you were thinking about a guy.I don't mean to repress your feelings, but to see that if you were fantasizing about guys that would be wrong because you have a boyfriend.Just because it may be a girl and it maybe tantalize your boyfriend, doesn't make it ok.You love your boyfriend. Focus on him. You're not committed to anyone else.And if things don't work out with him, then maybe you can try a relationship with females.Good luck with everything
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