He sent me a freaky message and now I don't know what to do!
Q. i was friends with this boy last year but we dont really talk anymore. well, when i say friends, we had to sit together in a lesson but ive never really liked him, although he's always had a bit of a 'thing' for me - flirting, trying to hold hands, ...
A. 19 December 2010: It is clear that this guy is interested in you and obviously thinks that things may possibly work out. If you are not interested at all then you do need to make this clear to him as it is unfair to string him along. Tell him that you know it is fr... (read in full...)
Taller girl, shorter guy - a couple?
Q. Hello, there is that guy in college... we have at least about 5 same intrests and we are considering on the same profession in the future,he likes my ideas,when I'm joking and I love everything he does.Once we had a chat on facebook and on the other ...
A. 19 December 2010: It sounds to me like you both have many similar interests and there is obviously common ground. My suggestion would be try to get to know him as a friend better first, and as for any height difference - I really wouldn't worry. Give things a chance ... (read in full...)
I break out when I make out!
Q. So, when i make out with a guy i break out in hives on my chest. This has happened twice. I thought at first it was the cologne but now i beginning to think that maybe its nerves. I'm not sure. Has this append to you? or what do you think. Oh a...
A. 19 December 2010: Likely to be because of either: 1) Increased perspiration which will irritate your sensitive skin 2) Emotional stress which causes an allergic reaction in the body. The best thing to do is Avoid hot baths or showers. Avoid irritating the area... (read in full...)
I really had no intentions of cheating on her...
Q. So my girlfriend and I just broke up. She had found out i sent some pictures to some girls a few months back. I tried to tell her that it really meant nothing which it did. but was just called a liar. I mean yeah i've thought about other girls in ...
A. 19 December 2010: Firstly you should not be thinking about any other women in sexual ways whilst you are in a relationship. I suggest that you try and sit down with her and explain your self. Firstly tell her how much you love her and how sorry you are for hurting ... (read in full...)
I have a problem concerning friends.
Q. I have a problem concerning friends. I always have tried to keep a close group of them and to have honesty and trust. Well, today a coworker told me that one of my friends told her some things that she didn't want me to know. The coworker told me ...
A. 19 December 2010: I think you need to think carefully about what things you share with your so called friend. They should not say things like that behind your back at all. I would also suggest that you think about reading up on some information online about sex and ... (read in full...)
Will it work out this time?
Q. i'm 17 a junior in high school. ok so i've liked this guy for about 3 years now, and over the years we're almost gone out many times but never acutally ended up happening. well just last week him and his girlfriend of 2 months broke up. me, him, and ...
A. 19 December 2010: Firstly be careful that you are not on the rebound and that he has genuine feelings for you. I suggest that you face the difficult one and try and discus your feelings with him. I think that you are right not to get your hopes up on him. My advice ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but want to kiss another guy!
Q. I'm so confused. I like this boy and he's coming over in the week and I really wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but I have a boyfriend and we argue like cat and dog. My boyfriend always says that he is going to kill my next boyfriend if I ...
A. 19 December 2010: Firstly forget about this new lad at the moment and concentrate on your current relationship. You need to make a decision on whether you want to work at the relationship or whether it is time to call it a day. If you decide that the relationship is ... (read in full...)
Does she like me? Please help? Why I am to scared to act?
Q. She introduced herself to me. Ignored what the other guy said when speaking to me and showed an interest in what I was saying. Stood close to me while entering classroom. Waited until I finished a conversation to say hi. Asked me t...
A. 19 December 2010: Firstly I suggest that you are sure that you are not just hoping that things are as they are because you have a crush. Ensure that she is interested by subtly inviting her out for a drink or something that could be as friends but if you both want a ... (read in full...)
I'm unable to cum during sex
Q. Over the past few years Ive heard lots of tales of the infamous "3 minute man" but when it acctually did come time to lose my virginity at 15 my expectations of myself were quite low, now my girlfriend is quite attractive and I have no troble geting ...
A. 19 December 2010: Firstly you are very young to have lost your virginity anyway, secondly i think that it is important to practice safe sex so all ways were a condom during intercourse.
Masturbating when you are alone may help to determine whether there is a phys... (read in full...)
I want to try sexual things but get nervous and can't!
Q. Recently me and my boyfriend have been engaging in foreplay. He seems to be really confident with it. Whereas I am not. I want to do things, but I get nervous and can't. (I don't want to be too graphic with details - sorry) He tries to help me and ...
A. 19 December 2010: The best thing you can do is talk through your feelings with your boyfriend and tell him how much you want to do things but are a little nervous. Your boyfriend should understand and be patient with you. You are likely to be just nervous as you want ... (read in full...)
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