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Sex life with fianceé is suffering. How important is sex to women in a relationship?

Q.   I just want to know how important sex is to women in a relationship, and also if it is important to them to maintain a healthy relationship. My fiance and I just got engaged a few weeks ago and we've been together for a year and a half. The first ...

A.   30 November 2013: Thank you guys for the responses and helpful tips. her condition is Interstitial cystitis which does cause her a lot of pain and discomfort. She does not like to receive or give Oral sex as well, unless shes flat drunk on her ass then maybe. And to ... (read in full...)

I know my fiance loves me but it feels like there is an underlying issue and I don't know what it is?

Q.   Hello Agony aunts, I've been dating my fiance now for a year and we've known each other for 5 years. after about 4 months I started to get separation anxiety because the honeymoon phase was slowly ending so the more she got comfortable and ...

A.   8 October 2013: Alright so just to retouch when I have my episodes of anxiety she doesn't know about them because I hide it. To her, I am the same person with or without anxiety. So the fact that my anxiety is pushing her away is false. And I let her lead the ... (read in full...)

What's with the mixed signals?

Q.   well I work with this girl and just recently started talking to her and so i finaly asked for her number and she gave it to me, from there we would txt back and fourth sometimes and she would usually always answer in a decent amount of time. So one ...

A.   11 July 2011: well guys, i asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime in the week and we set a time for tues after she gets off of work so hopefuly she follows through with it! i also appreciate everyones opnion and makes me feel good that everyone feels the ... (read in full...)

After her miscarriage and being diagnosed with cancer, she somehow seems less interested in me. Why is that?

Q.   hey agony aunts, im in a pickle and need some advice. Ive been with my girlfriend for a little over a month now, and the first few weeks went great, but then she started feeling sick and went to the doctor and found out she was 6 weeks pregnant f...

A.   28 May 2011: ok, i understand i was thinking a bit selfish. but none of you have the right to judge me. I make her a priority i tell her every day im there for her no matter what, and i give her space. I have had really bad past experiences with girls which ... (read in full...)

We went from talking every day to nothing. What happened?

Q.   She use to text me all the time since about three weeks ago when we started to talk. I have fallen for her because she is everything I like personality and looks. She said I am cute and we hung out then we kissed last weekend for the first time ...

A.   9 February 2011: Well, sounds like she's either playing hard to get, or she's confused about her feelings for you. Considering your age, I'd guess she's confused. So I would suggest just talking to her about it man.... (read in full...)

When taking it slow...should I try and hold her hand when we hang out or kiss her or anything?

Q.   i met this girl through my cousin, we started talking and stuff, and finally she asked me one fri night to come out and bowl and have a drink with her since my plans fell through. so i did and we had A LOT of fun, we danced, flirted, and at the end ...

A.   9 February 2011: Hey Dirtball, i think you give really good advice so i would like your further insight on this girl. last friday night she got tipsy and was txting me, and we ended up flirting a bunch and i gave her some rly good compliments which made her happy, ... (read in full...)

When taking it slow...should I try and hold her hand when we hang out or kiss her or anything?

Q.   i met this girl through my cousin, we started talking and stuff, and finally she asked me one fri night to come out and bowl and have a drink with her since my plans fell through. so i did and we had A LOT of fun, we danced, flirted, and at the end ...

A.   3 February 2011: well idk about kissing, because she was a little tipsy when it happened but it didn't seem to bother her the next day when it got brought up, and we actually haven't held hands yet, she just said she would in that particular instance. so i guess ill ... (read in full...)

When taking it slow...should I try and hold her hand when we hang out or kiss her or anything?

Q.   i met this girl through my cousin, we started talking and stuff, and finally she asked me one fri night to come out and bowl and have a drink with her since my plans fell through. so i did and we had A LOT of fun, we danced, flirted, and at the end ...

A.   3 February 2011: Also, I had forgotten to mention the reason she doesn't want a relationship at this time is becuase she just got out of one a month prior.... (read in full...)

I'm afraid giving her space means she's going to forget me

Q.   If you have been a bad boyfriend but you know she still loves you and misses you do you give her space when you break up with her and realize you messed up? I went to counseling and all kinds of other stuff to change into a better person. I broke up ...

A.   13 December 2010: if she wants space, then give her space. She's either gonna miss you alot or move on. id give her 2 weeks to a month at most. if by then she still doesnt know then move one dude, you CAN live without her. Everyone moves on, ive done it three times ... (read in full...)

Is she hinting at something?

Q.   today i was hanging out with this girl watching TV at her house when this Kays jewelry commercial comes on and as soon as it says "get that special someone a special gift for christmas" or whatever and then they sing "every kiss begins with KAY!" ...

A.   24 November 2010: no we are not dating, but she knows that i intend on dating her at some point.... (read in full...)

Is she hinting at something?

Q.   today i was hanging out with this girl watching TV at her house when this Kays jewelry commercial comes on and as soon as it says "get that special someone a special gift for christmas" or whatever and then they sing "every kiss begins with KAY!" ...

A.   24 November 2010: well i guess as far as hinting goes, could she be possibly hinting at the fact shes rdy to go further maybe?... (read in full...)

Girls lose interest because I'm too sweet?

Q.   well here goes... i have a huge problem. Whenever me and a girl start talking for a bit and we get rly into each other or after a couple months of dating they lose their feelings for me and distance themselves because i try too hard, and i dont mea...

A.   20 November 2010: All of these answers are just wonderful thank you soo much guys, but what are some things i can do to not smother girls so much? i usualy txt them everyday, but if they dont reply i wont txt back until THEY do, or hours later. This girl im ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend seems to be slipping away, what to do?

Q.   Ok me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 months now. I have never felt this way about anyone and she has told me over and over that she has never fallen in love this quickly before and already knows that she wants to spend the rest of her ...

A.   12 November 2010: I had the exact same problem mate, whats going on is you guys are moving waaaaaay to fast and now shes confused and most likely questioning if she wants to be with you or not. i suggest talking to her about it. Unfortunately my outcome i eventually ... (read in full...)

She has me so confused!

Q.   im really confused i gave my girlfriend some time to think becuase she told me that shes unsure shes happy being in a relationship. Ive given her sooo much space in the last couple of days, but she will tell me she loves me all the time if we dont ...

A.   28 October 2010: Yea we are still together, and during the time I haven't contacted her she will tell me she loves me, and call me babe and stuff. From some other insight I've gained her being scared of the love makes sense. I'm confused becuase if she's unsure ... (read in full...)

What is my girlfriend thinking?

Q.   So heres my problem: My girlfriend hasnt been so affectionate lately so i brought it up with her and asked if there was something wrong and if she wanted to talk about anything. so she kinda gave me round about answers like "idk" and such so ...

A.   27 October 2010: @dirtball- We have been dating for a little over 2 months, and we care about each other A LOT. ... (read in full...)

I feel my girlfriend is holding back on her affections!

Q.   Im 20 and my gf is 16, yea yea some of you think thats wrong. But i dont plan on having sex with her anytime soon, im in it for a relationship. We have been dating for 2 months now and we have a good relationship and we love each other. But ...

A.   25 October 2010: well we went and saw a movie, everything went pretty good, we laughed, joked, held hands, enjoyed the movie. But she didnt seem to thrilled to txt me later on, so i still get a vibe that theres sumthing wrong..... (read in full...)

I feel my girlfriend is holding back on her affections!

Q.   Im 20 and my gf is 16, yea yea some of you think thats wrong. But i dont plan on having sex with her anytime soon, im in it for a relationship. We have been dating for 2 months now and we have a good relationship and we love each other. But ...

A.   23 October 2010: well it got worse, she was supposed to spend the night fri night, and she was all excited the day before. and so when i asked her about it on fri she said she didnt think she couldnt make it and that she gets a weird feeling, and would be ... (read in full...)

I told my girlfriend I cheated on her, but wasn't completely honest about what happened. What should I do?

Q.   so I am 18 and in college and my girlfriend who i care about very much is 17 and still in high school. about two months ago I made a horrible mistake and cheated on her with another girl. I kissed her and got a hand job from her. I called my girl ...

A.   21 October 2010: if you truely love her, then you need to tell her the truth. ... (read in full...)

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