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writes:im really confused i gave my girlfriend some time to think becuase she told me that shes unsure shes happy being in a relationship. Ive given her sooo much space in the last couple of days, but she will tell me she loves me all the time if we dont communicate for a few hours, if shes unsure then why does she want me to know that she loves me so much? Reply to this Question
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reader, Wifeyindistress +, writes (2 November 2010):
 Well you would think that her telling you she loves you would be enough but it's not. Look tell her what you want and how you are feeling, it's not good to sit there thinking of what she is doing and why she is doing this to you. Just tell her this is what I want and I love you and i want to know if this is what you want and if so we are going to be together. Take charge this involves your feelings aswell and you need to think of your own feelings too.
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reader, alien invasion +, writes (28 October 2010):
 I agree with the first response where it mentions how people can be scared of love because of fear of loss. Love is a battlefield.
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reader, Sensativeguy010 +, writes (28 October 2010):
Sensativeguy010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea we are still together, and during the time I haven't contacted her she will tell me she loves me, and call me babe and stuff. From some other insight I've gained her being scared of the love makes sense. I'm confused becuase if she's unsure about what she wants. But she loves me and cares about me then shouldn't that be her answer?
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reader, Wifeyindistress +, writes (28 October 2010):
This is confusing? Well did you ask her while you are giving her space if you two are still together or are you seperated to where you are free to see other people? Maybe she is scared of the love she feels for you, some people are scared of that, cause it is strong and they don't want to get hurt. Or have you talked to her about how she feels or if she really does what to be in a serious relationship? she might love you but not be in love with you, its best to find out now as soon as possible becuase the longer to wait the more hurt you are going to get if she gives you the answer you don't want.
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