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| | *urrfectionist84's profile:My name is Nichole. I'm 21-years-old, and I live in the eastern United States. I am currently attending college full-time as a Psychology major. I would like to become a licensed psychologist and work in a private practice, hospital, or university. I love every branch of psychology, so the hardest part will be deciding which area to specialize in! I love to help others, and I pride myself for being honest and genuine, yet sweet and considerate. |
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What should I get my boyfriend for valentines day? Headache pills? ;-)
Q. i now its a little early to be thinking about this but what should i get my boyfriend for Valentines Day? what are you guys getting and hoping to get from your boyfriends this Valentines? i was thinking ab...
A. 6 January 2006: You don't talk to each other at all, except on the phone?! It sounds like you two need to arrange a special date in the near future! Are you in a long-distance relationship?
Well, in any case, when you talk to him on the phone, try to get his ... (read in full...)
She always has an excuse not to see me. Is it because there's someone else?
Q. Hey, The problem is I havent seen my girlfriend for around 2-3 weeks now. I've asked her to come over to my house lots of times; she seems to always have an excuse not to! I'll explain the situation: I usually see my girlfriend every Saturday w...
A. 6 January 2006: There may or may not be someone else in the picture. There is no way of knowing for sure unless you ask her yourself. It seems to me that perhaps she would like some time off from the relationship. If so, then she's being pretty rude by not being ... (read in full...)
I thought it was going to work out between us, but he broke his promise to call again and again!
Q. Hi, I met this guy off an online service. We arranged to meet and we hit it off right away. We discussed that we want to see how this will turn out, see what develops if you will. For the two week, he calls me every day. But now, he hasn't ...
A. 5 January 2006: Don't contact him anymore. If he really cares about you, then he'll make an effort to contact you again once he gets his head screwed back on straight. I went through a similar ordeal with my ex-boyfriend, who I also met online, later met in ... (read in full...)
Could I bring back a lost love with a love spell... or is that just a scam?
Q. I have a question about somehting a Lil bit different. I was doing a search for love advice and came across this one and another one that I have a question about. It was bring back a lost love by ordering a spell .Do you think these really work or ...
A. 5 January 2006: Anything can work if you believe in it and it makes sense to you. That's why prayer works for so many people, as do psychic readings, horoscopes, etc. Give it your own personal meaning, and it can generate the results that you want! (This, in ... (read in full...)
I take an hour to ejaculate. Sometimes it doesn't happen at all...
Q. It takes me about an hour to ejaculate during sex. Sometimes I can't at all. I really enjoy sex. This has happened with all my partners. How do I make things happen quicker?...
A. 5 January 2006: If your partner is bothered by the fact that it takes you a long time to reach orgasm, you could try "warming up" first prior to sex. This could entail lots of foreplay: oral sex, masturbation, talking dirty... Discover your fantasies and act them ... (read in full...)
My partner wants to remain friends after our split, but I can't stand the stress and pain!
Q. I have recently split with my partner (his decision), and he has already found someone else. He wants to remain good friends, but the jealousy and pain is eating me up. I loath his new person without ever speaking to him or meeting him. My ex ...
A. 5 January 2006: I agree with mommyofthree that you need to distance yourself from this guy so that you will have time to heal. It might be possible for you to be friends in time, but if you try to jump into being friends right away, it won't work because you still ... (read in full...)
Why am I so spotty? I'm really clean...
Q. Please help me. I am 15 years old, and have so many spots. I am quite pretty (I don't want to boast) and when I get spots I feel that people stare at me, some even say "Urgh, you're dead spotty!" and it's really making me depressed. I have tried e...
A. 5 January 2006: Hey girl,
Please try not to worry too much. I had terrible acne around ages 14 to 16, but after that, it really cleared up on its own, and at the age of 21, I don't break out nearly as much. I'm sure that it will improve for you as well; it... (read in full...)
My physics teacher still leers at me and makes suggestive remarks. I think I'm falling for her!
Q. I think a teacher fancies me. I am 16 and in 6th form and ahe is about 45. When I was in year 11 my physics teacher used to wear low cut tops, showing her breasts and every lesson she would stand opposite and bend over the desk and help me with my ...
A. 5 January 2006: It is completely unprofessional and unethical of your former teacher to be behaving in this way. At 16, you are a minor, practically a little boy, and at 45, she is a grown woman (and probably married). If you have an affair with her and word ... (read in full...)
His current girlfriend doesn't appreciate him, so should I give it a try?
Q. Dear Cupid, What can I do when I'm in love with a guy who is not appreciated by his girlfriend? I'm 17,and in love with a guy that is 21 and has a girlfriend my age. He told me that she has hurt him, and doesn't know how to appreciate him. ...
A. 5 January 2006: It sounds like this guy regards you as a good friend, since he is confiding in you about his relationship troubles with his current girlfriend. He trusts you and feels comfortable talking about his problems with you.
You could try telling ... (read in full...)
Do I not love him or is it because I'm homesick?
Q. I am a homing bird i love being with my family and have ner been apart from them.I just moved in with my boyfriend and we were getting on great. we had a row and all of a sudden i feel I don't love him any more. i know i do my life would not be the ...
A. 5 January 2006: I think that you probably do love your boyfriend, but you are feeling a bit homesick. It was probably hard having a fight with him and not having your family right there to turn to in your time of emotional need. You must have felt somewhat ... (read in full...)
She needs space and wants to think but what do I do?
Q. I had been dating a girl for a little over a year. We were in love. She was great always leaving little notes, text messages just being very loveing. This is her first long term relationship. She is 23yo and I am 28. All of a sudden she said ...
A. 5 January 2006: All women are different, but I personally use the "I need space" line when there is something about the relationship that is troubling me, but I have trouble discussing it, so I request the space and time to do some self-reflection and see what I ... (read in full...)
What should I get my boyfriend for valentines day? Headache pills? ;-)
Q. i now its a little early to be thinking about this but what should i get my boyfriend for Valentines Day? what are you guys getting and hoping to get from your boyfriends this Valentines? i was thinking ab...
A. 5 January 2006: It's never too soon to start planning...
How long have you guys been dating?
Valentine's Day is also my boyfriend and I's one-year anniversary, so it'll be quite the special occasion and will require some careful thought and planning. I'll ... (read in full...)
I'm seeing my bf of 2 years in a different light, over birth control issues. Am I being over dramatic?
Q. Iv been with my partner for a couple of years but I'm beginning to see him in a different light. The problem is he wont use condoms anymore,he says they dont feel right so he suggested I'd go on the pill which i did. Anyway,i have tried 3 different ...
A. 5 January 2006: If he had no problem using condoms before, then he shouldn't have any problems using them now. He'd rather see you get sick from taking the pill then put on a condom? It does sound like he's being pretty selfish, in my opinion.
No, I don't ... (read in full...)
I think my 12 year old was masturbating. I feel I should be aware of this..so how do I ask her?
Q. I have a daughter who is over 12 yrs now and knows most everything about the human body, its functions, about sexual intercourse and has also started her periods. A few times, on my way to bed, when I go in to straighten her blanket (she rolls ...
A. 5 January 2006: Your daughter is at an age where masturbation can be expected. It is normal and healthy, and there is nothing wrong with it. If she is masturbating, as you suspect, that doesn't mean that she is going to go out and have sex right away.
Frank... (read in full...)
I'm so terrified about sex I can't even use a tampon. How could I ever have a baby?
Q. I have a huuge problem that I'm not exactly ready to face. I have a problem with sex. Im 19 and my boyfriend and I have decided to wait till marriage to have sex. I'm fine with that, but I'm dreading the day we do get married and I'll be ob...
A. 4 January 2006: Hey girl,
Sex can be a wonderful thing when experienced between two people who love each other. When the time is right, it should be something that you WANT to do, not something that you're obligated to do. You shouldn't be afraid of it. Not... (read in full...)
Nothing for Christmas or my birthday, not even flowers! I'm so disappointed in my boyfriend.
Q. My boyfriend, for my birthday and Christmas - yep both in the same month - has got my nothing still for either of them. Not even a card. My feelings are hurt and it is pretty much drawing the line on everything. I have talked to him about it...
A. 3 January 2006: My ex-boyfriend was like that. We were in a long distance relationship for four years, and he only once, in four years, sent me a Christmas present (a book that cost about $10, including the postage) and only once, in four years, sent me a birthday ... (read in full...)
Four months after I got her number, she's still got excuses for why we haven't gone out!
Q. Is this girl interested? Is it harder to tempt a girl who has approached a guy? I have had an approach from a girl and I got her phone number. It's 4 months on but have never been out on a date. She keeps agreeing to go out on a date but doesn't ...
A. 1 January 2006: I think that you shouldn't waste your time waiting for this girl. She can't be serious about dating you if she gave you her number over four months ago, and yet you still haven't been on a date!
If she really is that wrapped up in work and frie... (read in full...)
I'm always the person who has to take the initiative with my relationship. Should I just break up?
Q. Should I break up with my boyfriend? He doesn't call me or talk to me at all. I usually have to push him to do stuff, like asking me to a dance. He's a great guy and I don't want to regret anything. I really do like him but our relationship is getti...
A. 1 January 2006: If your boyfriend really cares about you, then he should want to spend time with you. He should look forward to seeing you and hearing your voice on the phone. Right now, it sounds like he's not making you much of a priority. That sucks, and you ... (read in full...)
My girl doesn't want a boyfriend when we go to college, but I know she still loves me a little!
Q. My girlfriend is going to college and has always told herself she didn't want a boyfriend in college. At this point we are both 18 and have been dating for a year and a half. When we started dating, she fell hard for me, yet I didn't want to get ...
A. 1 January 2006: Why doesn't your girlfriend want a boyfriend in college? Does she feel that she won't be able to juggle her academic responsibilities with a personal life? Does she want to spend time meeting and getting to know multiple guys rather than staying ... (read in full...)
How do I get through my Xmas-day breakup with dignity?
Q. My boyfriend just broke up with me on Christmas...we had been fighting a lot lately and he is moving away in 3 weeks, but just that night before he left me we had been planning on trying long distance. I just don't understand how this happened. I ...
A. 30 December 2005: Hey girl, I'm so sorry to hear of your situation. First off, I'd like to say that long distance relationships take a tremendous amount of effort and require a tremendous amount of sacrifice. I know because I was in one for 4 years. It's al... (read in full...)
Did I mess up by telling him I loved him...he didn't respond and I feel awkward now. Help!
Q. I think I screwed up big time. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months now. I said the big 3 words, "I love you". I regretted it as soon as I said it. His response was "I really like you a lot". He held me why I cried myself to ...
A. 28 December 2005: Hey girl,
First off, I want to say that you did a very brave thing by expressing your feelings. I love my boyfriend, but I am so afraid of rejection that I've resorted to expressing my emotions in other ways, e.g., "I have strong feelings... (read in full...)
Would it be better for me to have sex with another virgin, or with the girl who I'm in love with?
Q. Hi, I am 16 years old and just met this wonderful girl who I am in love with. However she does not seem to feel the same way. I am still a virgin and she rather prefers a sexual relationship. I know she slept with other men before and I w...
A. 28 December 2005: Hi viere,
I always thought that it would be best to lose my virginity to someone who was also a virgin, but I came to see that whether or not someone is a virgin is not important compared to whether or not they love and respect you. Some people a... (read in full...)
If I get pregnant, can we get married at 16 without our parent's permission?
Q. I am 16 years old and I will be 17 in July of 2006. I live at home with my mom and my brother and I am just so tired of being treated like crap. My boyfriend is 16 also and he will turn 17 two days before me. We have been talking about getting ...
A. 28 December 2005: I am deeply sympathetic about your situation at home. However, I agree with Tinkz that having a baby is NOT a good idea in your circumstances. At your age, a baby is a financial impossibility. If you start having children from now, you'll end up ... (read in full...)
I've never really had a boyfriend, and I don't understand it... I think I'm friendly and have a lot to offer!
Q. I am a 23 year old female who hasn't had a proper boyfriend. I hear things like 'people can't love you until you learn to love yourself' and similar things, but I do love myself and feel I have a lot to offer and a lot of love to give. I go to cl...
A. 28 December 2005: Hey girl,
Don't you worry. All throughout high school, and most of college, I had the same problem. It seemed that none of the guys were interested in me, although I considered myself to be above average in terms of looks, intelligence, and pers... (read in full...)
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