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writes: I am a homing bird i love being with my family and have ner been apart from them.I just moved in with my boyfriend and we were getting on great. we had a row and all of a sudden i feel I don't love him any more. i know i do my life would not be the same without him. Am I doing this because I'm homesick and having cold feet. I won't be apart from him I couldn't be without him. help
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): I am so relieved that there is somebody else going through the same feelings as me. I feel exactly the same as you do about my boyfriend. Its a horrible way to feel but Im sure it will pass and I think you just need to give it time. I feel really really depressed at the moment but I know it is because I really miss my parents and my old bedroom! Me and my boyfriend had the perfect relationship before we moved in together. My life was great, so i know it must be to do with being homesick! I feel bad because he is so happy about us living together, but I feel so low, I just want to go home and for things to be how they used to. But we all have to leave home sometime!
Give it a few weeks and I bet things will be great again. That is what I am hoping for!
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (5 January 2006):
 Give it time and see what happens u just might be home sick. Dont dimiss him yet or push him away.
If ur home is within a few miles u could go visit and come back it might cheer u up.
All the best dear.
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (5 January 2006):
 I think that you probably do love your boyfriend, but you are feeling a bit homesick. It was probably hard having a fight with him and not having your family right there to turn to in your time of emotional need. You must have felt somewhat alone.
If you two are in love, then the love that you share with your boyfriend should help to compensate for the physical absence of family. But remember that your family is still there for you, although they aren't living in the same house. You have a great relationship with them! You can call them, e-mail, visit, at any time, and they won't turn you away. And before you know it, your boyfriend may become family too!
Good luck!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (5 January 2006):
 I think a big change for any of us can cause us to panic and start thinking loads of things that aren't true. Maybe you rushed into this too fast or maybe you just need time to settle down into your new environment.
You seem to really love this guy and I'm sure once you're both settled and happy agiin, everything will be fine. We all react differently to big changes in our lives, they can be very scary and moving away from family for the first time must be one of the hardest but you'll get through it together. Good luck and stick at it, trust me, you do love him.
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