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How do I ask her on a date?

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Question - (17 August 2010) 10 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, *appen writes:

dear cupid i do fancy this woman that lives in the same street as me how do i approach her. it a long time since i went out with a woman. she is single like me but a bit younger than me.

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A male reader, happen United States +, writes (22 August 2010):

happen is verified as being by the original poster of the question

forget it women don't wont me

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A male reader, happen United States +, writes (22 August 2010):

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men that are virgins late in life like me and many others have no chance what so ever have they . does matter how nice and polite you are. women won't want to know. virgin and shy men are not good engouh for women. men that are shy have no hope what so ever i should know i've tryed everything bars,clubs even joined book clubs, pottery clubs, dancing classes, sports clubs, even reading classes. once they find out your shy or virgin they make all sorts exsusess to leave you and probably make fun of you with there mates. i should know it happened to me

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A male reader, happen United States +, writes (21 August 2010):

happen is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i've been trying for over 30 years now. not one ever turned up for me. i'm always the last one anyone talks to. why don't know i probably wil never know the answer. i wil go through life all alone yet i would never hurt any woman. nobody knows what it like to be really lonely knowing you never be wanted by any woman does not matter how nice and charming i am. there is times i wish i not born.

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A female reader, princessjasmine United States +, writes (21 August 2010):

her loss! on to the next one, u did nothing wrong...sometimes girls give out numbers or act nice b/c they dont wana hurt feelings but yes we dont answer calls or show up to dates, its a cowardly thing to do but it does happen. Just never expect much outa people, and dont trust people either its the sad truth. Keep it up though, i know you've got swagger ;)

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A male reader, happen United States +, writes (20 August 2010):

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would you believe it linda never turned up at the movies tonight. i phoned linda but got no reply . this always happens to me. women never turn up. i wil never get a girlfriend does not matter how nice and charming i am. what can i do .

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (18 August 2010):

Denise32 agony auntGood! Enjoy.......

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A male reader, happen United States +, writes (18 August 2010):

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well linda and i are going to the movies on friday. we chatted all day about her and job and other things we like the same kind music . we getting on well with one other.

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A male reader, happen United States +, writes (18 August 2010):

happen is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you for your advice i will try that when i see linda today. i will let you know what happened.

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (18 August 2010):

Denise32 agony auntDo you know if she's married or in a long-term relationship?

If she isn't, then next time you see her why not just be friendly and casual and say something like "I was wondering if you'd like to go out for coffee sometime" and see what she says.........hopefully she'll say she'd like that......

Good luck!

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A female reader, princessjasmine United States +, writes (18 August 2010):

how much younger? I'm 24 and a 35 year old asked me out, I didn't know his age but when we hung out he told me and i kinda freaked. but everyone's different. Do you run into her? Just start talking to her about random, everyday things (like a friend.) Then just be like 'we should hang out.' She'll get the hint that your asking her out on a date but your asking in a chill way, its not 'can i have your number?' (lol MADtv) or 'can i call you sometime?' or 'hey girl whats your name whats your sign?' lol it's just 'we should hang out.' Don't say lets do dinner or lets go on a date (that is so old school and weird.) Good luck let me know how it goes (message me :)

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