I want my ex back in my life ...............
Q. I'm wondering whats up.My ex and I hung out. Everything was super good - no awkwardness, we laughed alot/flirted and yet nothing came of it.I thought atleast friends..but I havent heard from him much.Then I thought maybe he just wanted to fool ...
A. 26 January 2010: that makes sense..:)
however,
i wasnt planning on getting into a relationship w/ him. im dating other people..and wasnt depending on him to get with me. by wanting him in my life - i just want to hang with him.i was open to other things besides ... (read in full...)
I want my ex back in my life ...............
Q. I'm wondering whats up.My ex and I hung out. Everything was super good - no awkwardness, we laughed alot/flirted and yet nothing came of it.I thought atleast friends..but I havent heard from him much.Then I thought maybe he just wanted to fool ...
A. 26 January 2010: if i were to do that ..im afraid he'll just try to argue w/ me if i tell him how im feeling. he seems to take alot of stuff i say negatively even though none of it is negative.I'm not sure why but hes been like this since we broke up.He broke up w/ ... (read in full...)
I think he sabotaged our relationship because he anticipated it wouldnt last
Q. My ex and I hung out recently. He's been M.I.A. for months due to personal/financial probs.He contacted me,he was in the area - We talked and flirted for hours in the car.He talked bout hating the dating process,wants companionship,someone ...
A. 18 January 2010: Yeah I was just curious why he's the way he is...w the negativity and all.its not like we're dating.I'm seeing others. And he's been cheated ON...he wasn't the cheater.... (read in full...)
My ex is lonely and wants warmth in his bed. What should I do?
Q. My ex and I hung out for 4 hrs tonight (hadnt seen each other for 4 mo).We talked alot/caught up - good times. Last chick he dated left him confused/kinda sad - he left me the same way after we broke up.It was random and it hurt.(I think we ...
A. 9 January 2010: Dear cupid phrased my question.I just wanted to know how to make us hanging out work.that's why I said I wanted to invite him out but basically didn't want it to seem like a big deal. i am open to dating him again but that's not my goal w hangin w ... (read in full...)
My ex is lonely and wants warmth in his bed. What should I do?
Q. My ex and I hung out for 4 hrs tonight (hadnt seen each other for 4 mo).We talked alot/caught up - good times. Last chick he dated left him confused/kinda sad - he left me the same way after we broke up.It was random and it hurt.(I think we ...
A. 9 January 2010: i feel like if it was a booty call he wouldve atleast tried to kiss me.. touch me.. or do something - which he didnt.He didnt invite me over. I figured sex. advances shouldnt be hard considering we were a pretty sexual couple.
( hes the one that... (read in full...)
My ex is lonely and wants warmth in his bed. What should I do?
Q. My ex and I hung out for 4 hrs tonight (hadnt seen each other for 4 mo).We talked alot/caught up - good times. Last chick he dated left him confused/kinda sad - he left me the same way after we broke up.It was random and it hurt.(I think we ...
A. 9 January 2010: lemme clarify something.
i dont want to just be a booty call to my ex.if we engage in sexual stuff - i want us to maybe have a relationship again, well def more than sex.. if its gonna go there.
considering he mentioned wanting someone next... (read in full...)
Does it look bad to have foreplay with someone you've been on a couple of dates with?
Q. Does it look bad if you engage in foreplay with someone if you've only been on a couple of dates?. We've known each other for a couplre of months maybe 3 but have only been out twice, used to talk daily. I'm curious because I like this guy, we ...
A. 7 January 2010: I DO have romantic interest but I've gathered that he's prob interested in only hookin up.although he denies it n says he wants more than just sex. He msgs a lot but never makes plans(its always - hey how r u/what're u doin).he's incredibly ... (read in full...)
Anyone have an inkling of why my ex is like this?
Q. I miss my ex.I try to think of the negative but I only end up thinkin bout how much fun we had. I want to feel that I've done everything to try to make things right.I thought I did but I still feel drawn to him. Its been 6 mo since we've brok...
A. 7 January 2010: thats true..I guess everyone deals w/ everything diff.Im the complete opposite..which is why I didnt understand him disappearing.
im just glad he finally replied to me.. and thats hes okay.
Oddly enough I was worried about him.I do care about hi... (read in full...)
Anyone have an inkling of why my ex is like this?
Q. I miss my ex.I try to think of the negative but I only end up thinkin bout how much fun we had. I want to feel that I've done everything to try to make things right.I thought I did but I still feel drawn to him. Its been 6 mo since we've brok...
A. 7 January 2010: thanks :)
I actually just got a reply via email from him. He apologized & said for me not to feel neglected cos he hadnt been talking to anyone lately & claims hes doin a bit better & asked me how things have been w/ me.I find it odd that some... (read in full...)
Embarassed by drunken friend in front of my date! Will he want to meet up again?
Q. I had a date tonight w/ this guy but had canceled before.So despite the fact I had a killer migraine tonight - We got together (i didnt want to cancel again n come off as a flake).I had an obligation to be a des. driver for a friend later in the ...
A. 30 December 2009: Thankyou.I hope so. :)... (read in full...)
Did our date go well?
Q. This post has more than one q wrapped in it. I recently had a 2nd date w. this guy.He made a candlelit dinner. there was a wine, dessert and we watched a horror movie,chatted and just hung out. He was a gentleman and I was the one he prett...
A. 15 December 2009: thankyou..I just worry soo much/im a lil negative. I'm sure that hes doin his own thing & that he had a good time. Cos who makes sure someone got home okay if they dont know em? he didnt have to call. Thanks for the advice :) i feel a bit better :) ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to think I am in love with him just because we had sex
Q. I've been dating this guy for 3 mo.We see each other once a wk - Mainly me initiating it.Recently we had plans and he 4got to call(he told me b4 hand that he had to help a friend but wasnt sure what day of the wk/wknd it'd be.Well It was that ...
A. 6 December 2009: i feel like we're friends.. atleast thats what i think..but im too nice sometimes - i cant help it ..and i think its comes off as i like the guy to much or are in love w/ them..just cos i do or say nice things.
im tryin to keep it casual and have... (read in full...)
Our relationship was a fake relationship
Q. I've known this guy for 4-5 yrs.We've fooled around on and off the whole time.I got married and during that time that guy told me he loved me etc.I got divorced (not cos of him though).We fooled around for awhile and disappeared - everytime it ...
A. 1 December 2009: im not complaining its just sex.. i just think he should not throw the i love yous in there etc...and he also freaks out after we have sex..feeling bad..or being weird.
who feels bad for having sex w/ someone..if its just sex? thats what i find w... (read in full...)
I want to ask him out, but don't know how to do it!
Q. I was wondering what is the best way to ask a guy out? I like to get straight to the point/keep it short and dont want to have to repeatedly visit/work up the nerve to ask them out and find out theyre not interested or taken. Theres this ...
A. 1 December 2009: good answers..gives me good ideas.:D
thanks alot. :) ... (read in full...)
If I have sex with him will it ruin any chance of having a relationship with him?
Q. I met this guy a month ago.We've hung out twice/talk dailyOur texts involve alot of flirting + the usual - what we're upto etc.Despite our super flirty/naughty txts.He's a gentleman in person -hasnt crossed the line and apologizes when he feels he ...
A. 26 November 2009: ive had that happen to me too and i still talk to that guy.. he has a shitload of issues.. so i know better now when it comes to him (saw him recently and he said he loved me - weirdo).Anyhoo W/ this current guy (the one who the q/post's about)- who ... (read in full...)
If I have sex with him will it ruin any chance of having a relationship with him?
Q. I met this guy a month ago.We've hung out twice/talk dailyOur texts involve alot of flirting + the usual - what we're upto etc.Despite our super flirty/naughty txts.He's a gentleman in person -hasnt crossed the line and apologizes when he feels he ...
A. 26 November 2009: yeah i guess ill just ask him. cos i DID tell him what i wanted when we met..so he wouldnt think otherwise..
its irritating if he just pretended he wanted more than intimacy..cos why bs..if it looks like ur not gonna get anything..ya know? argh lol.... (read in full...)
If I have sex with him will it ruin any chance of having a relationship with him?
Q. I met this guy a month ago.We've hung out twice/talk dailyOur texts involve alot of flirting + the usual - what we're upto etc.Despite our super flirty/naughty txts.He's a gentleman in person -hasnt crossed the line and apologizes when he feels he ...
A. 26 November 2009: Sorry I didnt realize that all 3 replies went in . 1 shouldve only been up there.... (read in full...)
If I have sex with him will it ruin any chance of having a relationship with him?
Q. I met this guy a month ago.We've hung out twice/talk dailyOur texts involve alot of flirting + the usual - what we're upto etc.Despite our super flirty/naughty txts.He's a gentleman in person -hasnt crossed the line and apologizes when he feels he ...
A. 26 November 2009: I tried posting a reply on here.. not sure if it went through.
The way he acted tonight irritated me and threw me off.He was drunk, So I really hope that was the only reason.Cos it seems if he just wanted sex - he wouldve been all over me by now,... (read in full...)
If I have sex with him will it ruin any chance of having a relationship with him?
Q. I met this guy a month ago.We've hung out twice/talk dailyOur texts involve alot of flirting + the usual - what we're upto etc.Despite our super flirty/naughty txts.He's a gentleman in person -hasnt crossed the line and apologizes when he feels he ...
A. 26 November 2009: We've been on a couple of dates but I guess why all this bothers me is cos he has been cool up until 2night. I felt he actually had a genuine interest in me & then tonight - was just super agressive about wanting to be intimate w/ me & kept saying ... (read in full...)
If I have sex with him will it ruin any chance of having a relationship with him?
Q. I met this guy a month ago.We've hung out twice/talk dailyOur texts involve alot of flirting + the usual - what we're upto etc.Despite our super flirty/naughty txts.He's a gentleman in person -hasnt crossed the line and apologizes when he feels he ...
A. 26 November 2009: Yeah. I guess it just threw me off that he acted that way.Im guessing cos he was drunk? Cos I talked to him yesterday when sober and he was sayin he had wanted to hang out w/ me this week and was all nice. I dont wanna have sex w/ him i just want to ... (read in full...)
If I have sex with him will it ruin any chance of having a relationship with him?
Q. I met this guy a month ago.We've hung out twice/talk dailyOur texts involve alot of flirting + the usual - what we're upto etc.Despite our super flirty/naughty txts.He's a gentleman in person -hasnt crossed the line and apologizes when he feels he ...
A. 26 November 2009: BTW when I said everything but sex.I meant everything but intercourse.... (read in full...)
Where can I meet men?
Q. I've been dating since 16 (im 26 now). I've had a handful of bfs and I've been married. However I find bfs to be rare. I've been on more dates than I can count.that lead to a couple, handful or 1 date at most and nothing. It seems I'm always ms ...
A. 21 November 2009: my marriage didnt work out cos he decided that marriage wasnt for him. he wanted to do whatever he wanted, didnt want to answer to anybody - stay out late and be as immature as possible (too bad he didnt realize that sooner). My ex - mr 6 ... (read in full...)
Where can I meet men?
Q. I've been dating since 16 (im 26 now). I've had a handful of bfs and I've been married. However I find bfs to be rare. I've been on more dates than I can count.that lead to a couple, handful or 1 date at most and nothing. It seems I'm always ms ...
A. 21 November 2009: thats a good point - thanks :)... (read in full...)
After sex I'm afraid he'll disappear!
Q. I've been dating a guy for a cpl of months.Not sure what we are.Hadnt seen him in a cpl wks.So we got together - had a fun movie/pizza night.So one thing lead to another and we slept together.I dont normally have sex until I'm sure im in a ...
A. 20 November 2009: true true. he wrote me today to let me know hes busy this wknd w/ classes but maybe we can hang next wk. i just wont worry bout it anymore.. and will have a talk w/ him when i see him..if i do or over the phone.
thanks for the advice :) ... (read in full...)
What does he want? sex? Playing around? Or is he just full of bs?
Q. I met this guy from online.We talked/flirted daily for a wk before meeting. We met and despite our flirty chats..he was sweet, a gentleman and our drinks + coffee date ended w/ passionate kiss, followed by a txt tellin me he had a great time.He ...
A. 20 November 2009: thankyou :)
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After sex I'm afraid he'll disappear!
Q. I've been dating a guy for a cpl of months.Not sure what we are.Hadnt seen him in a cpl wks.So we got together - had a fun movie/pizza night.So one thing lead to another and we slept together.I dont normally have sex until I'm sure im in a ...
A. 19 November 2009: he txted me that night after hanging out to let me know he got home okay. and i talked to him a cpl days later bout some concert he went to- i txted askin how it went. and 3 days later i msged to ask bout hanging out (cos id rather plan)..which was ... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but had sex briefly without a condom, is it still possible to get pregnant?
Q. Recently I had sex without a condom...well, started sex.It was only for 2 min (prob less) and we stopped but it still freaked me out.Im on the pill but im wondering if its still possible to get pregnant.I've never done that before and I guess we ...
A. 6 November 2009: thats what i thought. i tend to worry and figured a lil advice/opinions would be good.considering this thing was out of the norm for me. thanks so much for replying. :)
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Why is he ignoring me?
Q. This is ridiculous but I've been ocassionally sending txts to my ex - wishing him well.Last time we spoke we had a huge arguement and he said he was going M.I.A. for awhile. (he went from adoring/infatuation w/ me to in a flip of a switch,want...
A. 23 October 2009: If he moved on.. he wouldnt have been hanging w/ me while supposedly dating another person or msg to tell me he got hit by a car etc.He doesnt serial date.Besides us hanging out wasnt physical*happened just once*.so thats not an excuse/reason. Him ... (read in full...)
Why is he ignoring me?
Q. This is ridiculous but I've been ocassionally sending txts to my ex - wishing him well.Last time we spoke we had a huge arguement and he said he was going M.I.A. for awhile. (he went from adoring/infatuation w/ me to in a flip of a switch,want...
A. 23 October 2009: i didnt nag him..
hes the one that made plans & flaked. its rude regardless of who u are. I didnt ask him to hang around or to make plans w/ me.but he did. went back n forth w/ me.
and hes the one thats been acting like i broke up w/ him.
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Am I crazy or is he tripping?
Q. I just need opinions as to whether or not im crazy or is this dood trippin? lol Met up w/ this guy as a movie buddy.Wednesday: met at a bar to see if we meshed.He said he'd stay a bit but stayed all night and txted me after to say he had a goo...
A. 19 October 2009: haha village people..
awesome.... (read in full...)
Am I crazy or is he tripping?
Q. I just need opinions as to whether or not im crazy or is this dood trippin? lol Met up w/ this guy as a movie buddy.Wednesday: met at a bar to see if we meshed.He said he'd stay a bit but stayed all night and txted me after to say he had a goo...
A. 19 October 2009: yeah i hear ya, er i believe u .. im sure thats true..
i just wish guys wouldnt bs what they want - be straight forward.i dont bs.
anyhoo - thanks for the replies. :)... (read in full...)
Am I crazy or is he tripping?
Q. I just need opinions as to whether or not im crazy or is this dood trippin? lol Met up w/ this guy as a movie buddy.Wednesday: met at a bar to see if we meshed.He said he'd stay a bit but stayed all night and txted me after to say he had a goo...
A. 19 October 2009: yeah im not sure whats up w/ him.. - i figure its a cop out..
its ok it didnt have a happy ending - his "uncomfortable" excuse is lame lol
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Am I crazy or is he tripping?
Q. I just need opinions as to whether or not im crazy or is this dood trippin? lol Met up w/ this guy as a movie buddy.Wednesday: met at a bar to see if we meshed.He said he'd stay a bit but stayed all night and txted me after to say he had a goo...
A. 19 October 2009: i actually got a reply from him. he said that he thought i wanted more..and he was uncomfortable. I told him i didnt want more..- and he said" whether or not u wanted more.. i was uncomfortable" I told him he made himself uncomfortable - I never ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy or is he tripping?
Q. I just need opinions as to whether or not im crazy or is this dood trippin? lol Met up w/ this guy as a movie buddy.Wednesday: met at a bar to see if we meshed.He said he'd stay a bit but stayed all night and txted me after to say he had a goo...
A. 18 October 2009: i guess i shouldve clarified. i met him online. he saw pics of me and said he didnt like my style but was down to hang as friends - see a movie.we agreed- it was fine w/ me. i had no expectations..thats why i thought it was weird when he dropped ... (read in full...)
Frustrated with my ex, does he want me or not?
Q. Im super frustrated.my ex and i have been in contact *been broken up over a mo*.We've slept together 2x, he's supposedly dating/hanging w/ someone we know, rubbed it in my face as much as possible *to get me jealous it seems*.Seems hes into ...
A. 27 August 2009: thx for the reply. i actually saw him tonight.He dropped off a piece of my art *so i can borrow it for my show*.He ended up stayin & havin a cpl drinks w/ me/doin karaoke.despite the fact he was dyin to rub the chick hes semi dating in my face when ... (read in full...)
I would just like opinions on this situation with my ex, please.
Q. I've written about my situation before - it keeps progressing. My ex and I have been talking/slept together.We broke up cos he was "no longer feeling it".It made no sense to me seein he was contacting/seeing me daily,made sure I met his fam etc ...
A. 12 August 2009: yeah that makes sense.Im tryin to leave him alone.Its hard not to contact him.I figure he can contact me - if he misses me/wants to hang or see whats up.... (read in full...)
I would just like opinions on this situation with my ex, please.
Q. I've written about my situation before - it keeps progressing. My ex and I have been talking/slept together.We broke up cos he was "no longer feeling it".It made no sense to me seein he was contacting/seeing me daily,made sure I met his fam etc ...
A. 11 August 2009: no im not..
why do u ask?... (read in full...)
Is there some kind of insecurity on his part, that makes him tell me these things?
Q. Recently I broke up w/ my ex. we've talked alot since then and slept together.Last time we talked it was kinda iffy cos I asked if he was goin on a date/who he was hanging w/ and he felt I was pryin *he also said its not his friends/my biz who ...
A. 6 August 2009: i knew who she was...cos they go to the same karaoke place. ive seen her several times - they never seemed into each other..i never felt threatened by her while we were together..
so i was surprised when he said he was dating her - granted ... (read in full...)
Hes mad with me because of a text. What to do?
Q. Ex and I broke up 3 wks ago.We've txted frequently.Broke up - claims he wasnt feeling it anymore *he gave numerous random reasons*(during our relationship he never acted unhappy/called and saw me daily - on his part, had me meet his fam/they ...
A. 4 August 2009: hello :)
its not the same question.. i just gave a summary of whats been up until this point..
cos my question is mainly the bottom..
(its better to give as much info as possible..so the reader can get an idea and give a better opinion or b... (read in full...)
I'm not sure about my feelings for my ex. But I think I might want him back...
Q. So I've been talking to my ex frequently. Even though our breakup was recent and andom and didnt seem to have much behind it *hes having financial/work trouble* and ended it but still wanted to stay in contact/hang (we supposedly broke up cos ...
A. 26 July 2009: i have no idea what u just said or what it had to do w/ my situation.... (read in full...)
Why would he say he's happier when he's really not?
Q. My ex and I got together last night to watch a movie at the house.One thing lead to another and we had sex.He initiated it *he knew previously that I wouldnt be against/weird out cos of it or think we're together*.During - he seemed like he was ...
A. 23 July 2009: he IS kind of an emotional wreck. i told him hes welcome to vent to me anytime..( i do care about him and whats goin on in his life) apparently his fam doesnt listen to him.. (not my fault) but still.emotionally im tryin to move on.. the sex doesnt ... (read in full...)
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