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Any Christians who date people of other faiths?

Q.   Theres this girl who I've known since I was 12 or 13 and her parents are good family friends with my parents. A coupe of mths ago things just seemed go really well between the two of us. However, we recently had a talk about whether we wanted to ...

A.   10 June 2011: My boyfriend of over 2 years is atheist, I'm Christian, so yes in a way. I wouldn't discount anybody immediately because of their faith. There are 2 very important things we'd have to agree on though. 1) I want to get married in a church, as part of ... (read in full...)

What do use for lubricant?

Q.   Ok so me and my Gf wanna try anal sex,but we dont have lubricant. She does have vaseline, and Bio Oil (vitamin E skincare tissue oil). Could we use any one of these?...

A.   25 April 2011: I completely disagree with mishmash ALWAYS, I repeat ALWAYS use lubrication when attempting to have anal sex - you could do SERIOUS damage to her if you try without - or with something inappropriate. Buy some anal lubricant (you can buy it online it ... (read in full...)

Birth control pill supply runs out when I'm aboard, how do I get more pills?

Q.   I've started the pill, and from my calendar that I am using to find out when I run out of my first three month supply, I am going to run out on the second day of my holiday abroad. How do I get more pills? Do I have to have a check up to get more ...

A.   25 April 2011: The same way as you usually get your pills. You don't have to wait till your packet has finished to get some more. Go to your GP/nurse - whoever usually prescribes your pills, have your check up, before you go. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend had sex with me while I was asleep!

Q.   Have a problem, don't know who to talk to. I've been with my bf for three years straight. Before we got serious, I told him I wanted to wait till we got married before we actually had sex. I've been grown in a Christian home and yea I know this ...

A.   27 March 2011: I'd just like to add to what everyone else has said with one more point; what he did was very dangerous. You should NEVER EVER go straight from anal sex to vaginal sex! You can transmit all kinds of harmful bacteria into your vagina by doing that. ... (read in full...)

Would a girl laugh at my penis when its not erect?

Q.   i wondering if my 6-7 inch dick (erect)is big enough to do the job? when its not erect its maybe about 2 inches. i kind of feel embaressed when its not erect. i feel like a girl would laugh when she felt it not erect....

A.   24 March 2011: My boyfriend is exactly like you. His is about the same size as you say yours is not-erect. He too was really self-conscious about it, but it doesn't matter in the slightest to us ladies. I'm actually totally with everything Odds has to say on this ... (read in full...)

After 4 years I finally met my LD girlfriend. Is it normal to feel weird?

Q.   I've finally met my long distance girlfriend after 4 years of talking online and on the phone. We met online 4 years ago and despite the distance we have developed a passionate strong loving relationship and even planned on getting married. ...

A.   12 March 2011: I can't answer this personally because my boyfriend and I met in real life first, but I strongly suggest asking this question on the forums of this site: http://members.lovingfromadistance.com/forum.php there are literally hundreds of people who ... (read in full...)

Any way to naturally enhance breasts by next month?

Q.   My boyfriend of five months will be visiting me next week for the first time and am desperately in need of breast enhancement. . .i have a very small breast and i don't want him to see me this way. Pls can you guys give me any tips that will enlarge ...

A.   9 March 2011: First of all, your boobs are beautiful just as they are. I have an A cup, and am perfectly happy with what God gave me. There are, however, a couple of things I could suggest, one would be a heavily padded bra, you can get gel bras or you could get ... (read in full...)

Ladies, if you’re with a well endowed man, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect?

Q.   Ladies...if you are with a man who is well endowed, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect? If it is his size, what specifically about his penis is the most enticing? Seeing it and looking ...

A.   8 March 2011: Ouch. Yep, that's pretty much the only thing on my mind when I see a large penis. Oh, and don't you dare bring that f***er near me. :)... (read in full...)

Female input needed!

Q.   For women only. How would you feel if a guy that you are interested in had 9 inch long penis?...

A.   3 March 2011: I wouldn't be able to be with him, the size would completely put me off. Personally, for me, anything over 7 inches is a deal breaker. ... (read in full...)

What birth control do you use and why?

Q.   Birth Control... I'm a virgin, have no desire to get BF yet and I am happy to finish living my childhood for the time being as I know when it's gone I'll miss just been young. But i see alot Qs about BC (birth control) and I'm just curious re...

A.   24 February 2011: I use the pill, specifically the combined pill Microgynon 30, and we also use condoms. I've never had any problems with this method. :)... (read in full...)

She wants to take a "Mommy Break". Would getting her a weekend by herself for V-Day be unromantic?

Q.   Would it be horribly un-romantic for me to book a beachfront room for my wife to take a 2-day getaway by herself, as a Valentines Day gift? She has been talking about wanting to take a "mommy break" as in, get away for a couple days to relax, read, ...

A.   7 February 2011: You know, this question really made me smile purely for the fact it shows that there are still some decent, loving, caring men, and wonderful husbands in this world. Go for it, she will love you all the more for it. You sound like you have a ... (read in full...)

His foreplay made me really wet... is this normal?

Q.   so last night me and my boyfriend went to the movies but we didnt watch the movie if you know what i mean, we made out the whole time. So anyway when we were leaving the theater it felt like i had gotten my period cause my panties felt wet.. but ...

A.   10 January 2011: Nothing to worry about, it's perfectly normal! Although the appropriateness of doing this activity in the cinema is questionable. I'm surprised no-one else has mentioned it.... (read in full...)

I'm 20 and look 10!

Q.   How do I make myself look older? I am 20 and I look like I am 10. I don't think I could find a guy looking like a kid. ...

A.   31 December 2010: I have no advice for you, other than to tell you that it is possible to find a man. I am 18, and look about 12, and have a wonderful boyfriend who doesn't see what people are talking about when they say how much younger than my age I look. He just ... (read in full...)

What do I get my 38yr old boyfriend for Christmas?

Q.   Any ideas on what to get my 38 year old boyfriend for Christmas? I was thinking maybe the Wii but I can't decide. Any advice?...

A.   30 November 2010: We would be able to give you more specific advice, and therefore, better, more personal suggestions, if you would give some information about his personality, interests, and how long you have been together.... (read in full...)

I couldn't have got pregnant from this, right?

Q.   I'm really worried... Last night, my boyfriend and I were messing around. While he was fingering me, I touched his penis... but as far as i can remember, I didn't felt anything wet on his package. after touching his penis, i touched his body and his ...

A.   30 November 2010: You're not pregnant darling, don't worry about it :) the sperm, which I highly doubt there was any in the first place, would have dried up and died way before you washed yourself.... (read in full...)

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