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What do people do straight after sex?

Q.   What do people usually do after sex? Do they both go clean themselve before cuddling up, or do they go straight to cuddle?...

A.   25 September 2006: i guess if its meaningful like the below says go straight to cuddling but then again, if you're young and dont want to get caught i suggest cleaning up straight away as you will have a higher chance of getting caught if youre young and dont clean ... (read in full...)

All my mates are going out with people from our school! Why isn't there someone for me?

Q.   Hi Im 15 and this is my last yr in school :D 1st question: there just doesnt seem to be ANY boys in my school that i have any interest in! i dont wanna go out wiv any of them! but all my mates are going out wiv people from our school. y isnt there ...

A.   23 September 2006: hey i have the same problem but im a male and there arent any girls whointerest me at school, im also 15 and in my last year and yeah in schools its hard to find someone like that i think in my school all the girls are chavvy and the thing is , and ... (read in full...)

I am a girl who prefers to hang with guys, why can't girls understand that?

Q.   I am someone who likes to hang around with guys, and I hate it when certain girls and women try to talk and hang out with me. (In fact, there are very few that I like, or can tolerate, because I know too many who are mean to me for no good reason, ...

A.   23 September 2006: i guess im the opposite, im a lad and find it easier to get on with girlsbut then again some lads that find it easy to get on with girls i get on with easily too, to me guys just try and act "hard" all of the time and that anoys me so i have alot of ... (read in full...)

How many times have you fallen in love?

Q.   A question to everyone... How many times have you fallen in love? I mean completely fallen in love - physically, emotionally, and mentally...? My reasons for asking: I have experienced this twice in my lifetime. The first time wasn't until the ...

A.   22 September 2006: well i am young and would say i am in love but im only 15 so everybody shall just say thats puppy love and whatnot but to me it feels like my first love but i dno lol 2 weeks time it could all be over the way everyone goes on about relationships ... (read in full...)

Kissing my bf's neck turns him on but when he does it to me...I feel nothing? Is this normal?

Q.   Hello! Usually just kissing my boyfirend's neck turns him on, but when he kisses my neck I don't really feel anything. Should I be feeling something? I've only been going out with him about three months and he's my first boyfriend. This may seem...

A.   18 September 2006: i have the same thing, kissing my girlfriends neck really turns her on, but whenshe does it too me it doesnt really make much difference but it makes me happy i guess cus i know she is just trying to give the same pleasure back kinda thing so just ... (read in full...)

My girl kissed another, shes says shes sorry, but now im confused!!

Q.   okay so ive been wih my gf for a couple of months now everything seemed to be going fine, w had a greta night the other day together until my younger brother walked in on us, im 15 and she 14, but yesterday she went to a friends party and came back ...

A.   17 September 2006: i agree with you all really, im going to give her another chance and try to not be watchful/obsessive about it as we are only young and shit happens so im going to have to get over it arent i? lol but yeah im going to give her another chance with ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to get so wet?!

Q.   hello...i was just woundering if there is somthing wrong with me! I seem to get very wet down there! I find it really embarrsing when my BF fingers me or goes down on me...is this something to be concerned about or not...plz help me x ...

A.   17 September 2006: just shows your incredibly turned on, when my gf is wet i know its because she enjoys what im doing, be proud of it :)... (read in full...)

I can't find where to put my penis when I try to have sex!

Q.   Hi, i'm an 18 year old male and twice I have gone to have sex with a girl. The first time I was very drunk and couldn't find where to put my penis but I put it down to me being drunk. But a few days ago I had a girl over and the scene was perfect ...

A.   17 September 2006: follow the other posts, 1) get ot know her body 2) et her to take hold of it and put it there 3) put your fingers inside her then put your penis right by your fingers, then take your fingers out hope that gives you a few ways to do it... (read in full...)

I'm worried that I have too much body hair, what should I do? Shave?

Q.   This could seem a strange question but its worrying me,i do have quite alot of body hair,and im worried that when i come to do anything with a lad,he won't like it cos id maybe be hairy down there,is it best to shave?please help?!?...

A.   17 September 2006: it doesnt really bother me either way, no hair is easier but it doesnt really make much dfference to me as i care about people i do things with, do what you're comfortable with... (read in full...)

Things are going wrong between us young lovers... do you think she will want to stay with me?

Q.   I have had a real hard time with my girlfriend for the past couple weeks. We've been dating for 2 years now, and I think this all started though because she started hanging around her friend more who likes rap music, goes to parties, and is ...

A.   17 September 2006: she doesnt want to be wih you, she is clinging on to you so she has something to fall back on, soon enough she will be "cheating" on you without your knowledge, let go of it as she has changed and moved on mostly and soon enough she is going to ... (read in full...)

I cant seem to stop cheating on my boyfriends! I've lost a guy I really loved because of it. Please help

Q.   i cant seem to stop cheating on my boyfriends. I done it once and it caused so much hurt i vowed never to do it again but its like i just cant say no! please help me. i've already lost the lad i love and so i really need help...

A.   17 September 2006: okay i have no sympathy for you, i just had the girl i love kiss her best friends crush and im so gutted, its your fault, howcan you say you love someone if you constantly wan to be or do get with other people? its crap? re-assess your life. sorry ... (read in full...)

After a few weeks my boyfriend has turned POSSESSIVE!

Q.   i have boyfriend trouble theres this guy i have being going out with for a few weeks now and alll of a sudden he has become very possesive and phoning me every 10 minutes what should i do i dont want to loose him or carry on with the phone calls ...

A.   17 September 2006: try telling him, perhaps he feels he's losing you and doesnt want to.... (read in full...)

I ejaculate too quickly, what can I do to prevent this from happening?

Q.   this is kind of hard for me to talk about, so i will remain Anonymous...but when i have sex, i tend to blow my load pretty soon, what kind of things can i do to prevent this from happening, so that i last longer in the bedroom..i want to make it ...

A.   17 September 2006: well kegel excerises, going to the toilet before hand, masturbation but stopping before you reach the "point of no return", as for making it equally as enjoyable for her try pleasuring her in other ways before hand then having sex and you should ... (read in full...)

Does every guy really watch porn ?

Q.   Is it possible to not watch porn as a guy? My bf told me he's not interested at these things. He admitted he was curious about it when he was 16, but he absolutely shows no interest about it now. I love him very much and I'm lucky that I found so...

A.   15 September 2006: i guess i watch porn, but i dont see the attraction i guess it's just my young age (16) but it doesnt really do anything, in this day and age most lads feel pressure to watch it as i did, but it doesnt do anything for me so dont bother with it ... (read in full...)

I'm 14. How do I tell him I don't want to go further?

Q.   ok well ive been gd m8s with this boy 4 about a year now and 2 days ago we started seeing each other. I really like him but hes 16 and im 14 and I know he will want to go further with me and I dont know how to tell him how much i like him but not ...

A.   30 August 2006: Im 15 and my gf is 14, and she made it plain in the first week we werent going to do anything for a while and im cool with it, just tell him straight out, and if he really likes you he wont mind.... (read in full...)

After sex this guy didnt talk much to me

Q.   so im sleeping with this guy, and he's said things like we're perfect for each other, he wants to know everything about me, and how he's glad i like him for more than just "ass". the thing is, the other night we finished, and he was just hanging ...

A.   30 August 2006: men get drowsy afterwards, it happens, ... (read in full...)

It went cold and just wants to be friends, what can I do ?

Q.   I had been going out with this boy for 2 weeks and he ended it while i was holiday. he told my friends it wasnt working but we had only met up 1 since we had been together coz he was then ill and i then went to france for 10 days. At the start of ...

A.   29 August 2006: perhaps he didnt enjoy it or couldnt see being in a elationship with you because after all it was only two weeks, and he probably just didnt enjoy it or something, i dunno u'll have to ask him ... (read in full...)

When I have sex..I orgasm too quickly. Any tips?

Q.   i have this problem were i orgasm really quickly i never use to its only been in the last 6 months its really getting me down because i no its not me can you help ...

A.   28 August 2006: Kegel Excercises (sort of when youtense you pelvic muscles, like holding in going to the toilet sorta thing) also going to the toilet before hand helps because it means ur bladder isnt pushing up against one of the things that makes yu come and ... (read in full...)

I got a hair cut and it turned off my gf! She ignored me and wouldn't even kiss me...what's up with her?

Q.   Right this is going too sound strange but i had my hair cut the other day and i had too much off so my hair is shorter than my usual medium length etc... My girlfriend loves my hair longer and swept over but yesterday she was acting as if i was a ...

A.   28 August 2006: thats put me off changing my haircut now lol yeh just ask herabout it, but ask her why she was being off with you as it may not have been your hair at all, ... (read in full...)

Is he cheating or really concentrating on his school work?

Q.   Me (14) and my ex (16) were dating for 2 months. Alot of people have said he cheated, and likes my cousin. He said he loves me alot but he said he brokeup with me because he needs to concentrate on school and he is worried about me cause i live in a ...

A.   25 August 2006: This year i am coming to my 16th and my GCSE's and i dont have a clue what im going to do about my GF we live in different towns and in differnet schools and am terrified i will lose her during that time but 16 is perhaps THE most important year for ... (read in full...)

I'm needing some good tips on how to 'feel up' my bf. I really want to give him pleasure!

Q.   Hi. I need tips on how to feel up my guy. I'm a virgin, 22, and don't really know what to do at all when i'm with my boyfriend. I've only petted him through his jeans once and for a few seconds only because it was new for me, but i want to be more ...

A.   19 July 2006: think about where or how or when he repositioned your hand because that is where he wants it ad where it will be most pleasurable for him. trust me... agree with guy below lol... (read in full...)

After losing my virginity it still hurts each time, should I be concerned ?

Q.   I'm 18 and lost my virginity a couple months ago and it hurt really bad and ive had sex twice since and its hurt those 2 times also. i was very tense each time but i think thats because it hurt. why does it hurt and should i be concerned about it?...

A.   19 July 2006: im not a girl nor have i had sex but girl friends of mine have told me it hurts for a couple of times. and may i say well done for not just sleepingwith any guy at any age ... (read in full...)

She got with a friend of mine, but kissed me... then kissed him! What's going on?

Q.   Last week I met an amazing girl and she is just genuinely nice. Unfortunately she already knew one of the guys there and fancied him. They sort of got together until she found out about his girlfriend. The guy is a great guy but is a complete...

A.   16 July 2006: I was thinking the same thing but as an update. She has just told me she fancies me but her friend (hu fancies me) says that she does like me but sh likes the other guy more but my best mate talked to the girl i like n apparently she sed she like... (read in full...)

Lads: what attracts you?

Q.   A question for lads...what makes you fancy a girl. I want alot of different responses so get typing please x x x...

A.   16 July 2006: For me it would be conifdence like anon sed if ur good looking it helps but confidence makes u seem so much more attractive. and also just being genuinely nice and want to not hurt anybody is a god thing for me. but also if i cant find something to ... (read in full...)

How do you know if a guy is in love with you?

Q.   how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...

A.   16 July 2006: speaking as a male im falling in love like getting there n i know because i just wana be nearher and im always thinking of her and in my eyes she is perfect. but i guess each guy lets off different signs liike hanging round you telling you how good ... (read in full...)

I think I'm ugly, even though people say I'm not...

Q.   I think I am ugly, even though a lot of people tell me I'm not. I guess I was called ugly so much because I had a mustache but now it's gone, Still the words linger in my mind and I have a hard time accepting that guys really do like me. I guess I ...

A.   16 July 2006: I think you see the mustache as your problems because of the way you refereed to that being the root of the problem. But now it's gone i bet people have stopped bein so spiteful try and forget about everything and start over. you're pobv... (read in full...)

My issue of trust is upsetting my boyfriend!

Q.   I have a problem with trusting my boyfriend because of past experiences, he often gets frustrated and upset and I don't want to lose him, How can I overcome my past wounds without hurting him?...

A.   3 July 2006: I too have this problem but i tryto not let it over come me. i got it from when i was best friends with a girl who cheated on her boyfriend who was one of my friends. and i was paranoid when i was going out with her and it has stuck to me. I tell ... (read in full...)

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