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writes: I'm 18 and lost my virginity a couple months ago and it hurt really bad and ive had sex twice since and its hurt those 2 times also. i was very tense each time but i think thats because it hurt. why does it hurt and should i be concerned about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2007): Hi im 17 i lost mine a while ago and it hurted but the next time didnt i would say yours hurted probably because you really didnt want to have sex at that time and you wasnt relaxed you gotta want to have sex when you start having and be ready for any of the consequences like a BABY thats what i half to do just be woman enough to take care of it so im just lettin you know
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): how about trying foreplay 1st? it should get you excited and make your vagina wider and prepare it fpr the penis
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2006): It's totally and 100% normal for it to hurt the first few times.. Each girl is different... some feel extreme discomfort others feel only a slight pressure. there is no "written in stone" way is should feel.
It's something new that you have never experienced before, so it's bound to feel weird the first few times. It might hurt because your body is not used to it yet, because your tense, because your not lubed enough... just make sure to be totally relaxed and to have anything you may need (like lube or w/e) on hand.
Good Luck
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reader, ogga +, writes (19 July 2006):
im not a girl nor have i had sex but girl friends of mine have told me it hurts for a couple of times. and may i say well done for not just sleepingwith any guy at any age
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