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I can't find where to put my penis when I try to have sex!

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Question - (5 September 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 17 September 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Hi, i'm an 18 year old male and twice I have gone to have sex with a girl. The first time I was very drunk and couldn't find where to put my penis but I put it down to me being drunk. But a few days ago I had a girl over and the scene was perfect there was lots of foreplay etc and when we went to have sex, again I had biology trouble. Please note this is not her fault at all, she's had sex lots of times and she really tried to help me out on the night but I just couldn't find it and eventually gave up!

What do I do?????

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A male reader, ogga +, writes (17 September 2006):

follow the other posts,

1) get ot know her body

2) et her to take hold of it and put it there

3) put your fingers inside her then put your penis right by your fingers, then take your fingers out

hope that gives you a few ways to do it

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A male reader, lboy United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2006):

lboy agony auntwell all i can say is that you should take a little time to explore the female anatomy and then try again.

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A male reader, Robin +, writes (7 September 2006):

Ha!

Been there, done that, got the T-Shirt!

Rule 1:Relax!

Rule 2: Relax

Rule 3: Explore her body, SLOWLY!!!

There are no prizes for the speed that you enter a woman, in fact the longer that you can control yourself and pleasure your woman the more you will both enjoy it.

When the moment is right you will slide into her with absolutely no problem at all.

If you are having problems in the rigidity department, and we ALL do! then just forget about penetration and satisfy each other in another way, no problem. love overcomes (no pun) all.

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A female reader, lucyloo135 +, writes (5 September 2006):

lucyloo135 agony aunthi hunni

sorry to hear about your troubles but belive me your not the only one sometimes my bf finds it a little hard 2 find at first but why dont you have a little play first explore the vagina it may find it easier to find.

or if all else fails you could ask the girl to insert it some people do enjoy watching there partner insert it for them.

hope this helps, lucy xx

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (5 September 2006):

David Lewis agony auntTry giving her a lot of oral pleasure first, this will enable you to have a good look at the target, lol. Dont be afraid to feel your way around, I am sure she will also appreciate this method of learning too.

Have fun, you will soon score the elusive goal.

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A female reader, Helen1986 United Kingdom +, writes (5 September 2006):

Helen1986 agony auntThe only thing you can do is ask the woman to take hold of your penis and guide to her vagina. She will guide you inside her. Honestly don't be shy just ask her for some help. It will work honestly. Goodluck

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