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writes:I always hear that "The best revenge ever on the Ex that dumped you is simply, LIVING WELL". Do you agree ? Any comments on this ? How can I let my ex know that I'm doing well without him if we're thousand miles apart ? How would he feels if I leave him in the dark and let him wonder how I do without him ?
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reader, roadman  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 I agree with hunny pie..If you still feel the need to get back at him your still feeling him..may be love or may be hate but you've still got this ex in your mind to come here and speak about them..
Question is do you want him back or just to share the pain you've felt,there a good chance what ever you do is not going to effect him in anyway,unless he still has feelings for you.I've had that left in the dark treatment in the past and I found what happens is after a while you just forget the person and they just drift out of your mind..To find many months later they them self spring back out of the wood work..
Revenge is a mugs game best not to play it..
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (2 January 2009):
don't contact him-being silent is the best revenge
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reader, roadman +, writes (2 January 2009):
Revenge makes you know better than the person who hurt you in the 1st place..
If you've moved on just get on with your life..and let it go,if you plan a revenge attack it may just back fire on you,you may say your living well and he says fine I'm really glad and proud of you,I'm happy you've found someone who can offer you more than me..
Then ask yourself what will you do next to try and return pain felt by you,it could just go on and on and life has better things to enjoy :D
Safe Sex and Safey Belts ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): When you're texting him or emailing put smiley faces and tell him all the good things that are going on in your life.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (2 January 2009):
 Screw the Ex - Be happy. Who cares what he thinks?
I agree to the Living Well part. You know why? Because you moved on you found happiness and he is history.
Anyone who's been dumped would love nothing better then get a form of revenge, but in reality if you need revenge, you are not done with the person, you have not moved on.
I also believe in Karma :)
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