We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 31 October 2010: Yes. Start by forgiving him for the affair. That's a start. You did mention you had counseling, but you did feel the need to bring it back up, I feel it's still some unresolved resentments, you can start with writing down "I" statements and going to ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 30 October 2010: I'm smiling the THE WORLDS BIGGEST SMILE! It's cool CaringGuy! I know you Care! ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 30 October 2010: Caring guy, I agree!!! Yes, he just want SEX!!!!... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 30 October 2010: Sorry, Caring Guy that's not true! I did advised her in an MUCH EARLIER POST,Here's my quote "You're at a vulnerable stage in your life right now"~ And I went ON say "(Trust me people talk, he "HEARD" something) and hold back your little "feelings" ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 30 October 2010: Sorry, Caring Guy!!! I beg to to differ! We are allowed to do that, Right? IF, We can prove what you're not saying is not the truth? Fair I would say!!! I did say in an MUCH EARLIER REPLY And I RE-quote "You're at a VULNERABLE stage in your life ... (read in full...)
All I want is one good time together with this married man
Q. there is a man who works at my school who is a good bit older than me but I can honestly say I dont think ive ever wanted to sleep with someone more. I know he is attracted to me but he is married. I just need to know how to tell him. i barely see ...
A. 30 October 2010: While reading your question? It brought back a very "FOND MEMORY" My daughter has from her childhood that she shares with each and everyone that would listen! and it makes me KNOW as a Mother,that I didn't give bad advice even when I was 18! & she ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 29 October 2010: I feel you have forgiven him but you have some unresolved resentments there, you spoke of the affair and then you said it happen while you were pregnant w/your second child.There is a constant reminder of his affair,when you see your second ... (read in full...)
It was my first time without a condom and I'm very nervous!
Q. Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. WE've had sex before but today I let him cum inside me for the first time. I'm on birth control and I've been on it for a while. I'm just a little nervous because my whole family is very ...
A. 29 October 2010: You should be worried about more then just an pregnancy! I've been to 3 funerals of (AIDS} VICTIMS and one them was a 3 year old who wasn't able to make a choice rather she would wear a condom, she was only 3 years old! Make the "RIGHT" choice ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy "popped your cherry?"
Q. What does it mean when a guy has 'popped your cherry'??...
A. 29 October 2010: That means He has taken your Virginity! ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 29 October 2010: It's been said "You can never recover the occasion after the loss" The Word after it's said" The Stone after it's throw" Blab,blab,blab...YES YOU CAN! People do it all the time!!! I've heard The Phrase "I'll take that back" Refereeing to something ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 29 October 2010: Yes, It still qualify as over-stepping his boundaries. WHY? The KISSES moved from one place which the MAJORITY would agree to be considered an simple act of friends greeting or departing. Once he "MOVED' THOSE LIPS of his to your lips the WORLD ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 29 October 2010: Men are misery magnets! Or maybe RUMOR has it! Regardless to whatever reason he has for overstepping boundaries with you he was WAYYYY OUT OF LINE! And you're at a vulnerable stage in your life right now, as you stated "your marriage is not as GOOD" ... (read in full...)
Why should I sit and watch another woman run his life when I can't?
Q. Ok, so I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months. We love one another and we are unseparable. I am 19 and he is 24. He has a 4 year old daughter who I have learned to love very much. I hate his ex girlfriend because sometimes I feel like she only ...
A. 29 October 2010: What Syrop said made sense to me! However let me add, regardless to whatever the REASON he's giving her the respect he's giving her RESPECT, Nevertheless.You need to look at it from that perspective then Why he's doing what he's doing? He's a "Good" ... (read in full...)
We broke up, but now she is cheating on new b/f with me!
Q. Ok ill start off by saying that i dated my ex for 2 and a half years and we were friends for like 6 months before that. We took everything slow and we fell in love with each other. we had some problems at the end and she started ignoring me and ...
A. 27 October 2010: Well there's no need to rush for the door,you still have time...How long is boot-camp? 6 weeks? So...you got 6 weeks to play! IJS! ... (read in full...)
We've been trying to save this relationship for 2 years
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 8 months. For about 2 years we've been trying to fix our relationship. We mostly fought because of my jealousy, insecurities, and low self esteem. I guess I would nag him a lot. However, lately he wants to ...
A. 27 October 2010: I think it's safe to say that the relationship was only 8 months not 2 years! You said 2 years has spend on fixing it! IJS. Why count the time the clock wasn't ticking? IJS! I know first loves are hard to let go!!! "BELIEVE ME I KNOW" I've only ... (read in full...)
We've been trying to save this relationship for 2 years
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 8 months. For about 2 years we've been trying to fix our relationship. We mostly fought because of my jealousy, insecurities, and low self esteem. I guess I would nag him a lot. However, lately he wants to ...
A. 27 October 2010: Let's start with what YOU said "I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 8 months. For about 2 years we've been trying to FIX our relationship" So...It's safe to say that you only had a "Normal" relationship was only 8 months! the rest of it was ... (read in full...)
My wife says sex makes her feel nasty?
Q. I have asked for help before and you guys have tried but it's been almost 2 years and I still can't get my wife to have sex hardly at all I still can't get a hand job, I can't even get a kiss goodnight here lately. I love my wife very much but I ...
A. 27 October 2010: Whenever I read a question concerning a woman.I almost can pretty much speak from experience, I've been through so many things and came out alright! I thought about "RAPE" When I read your story and how women don't feel "CLEAN" no matter what after ... (read in full...)
How do I become a stronger person?
Q. I need to be a strong person, not letting negative things stand in my way and be able to take risk not being afraid of the outcome. What should I do?...
A. 27 October 2010: Kenj, Hit the nail right on the head! When he said BELIEVE in yourself!!!! Here's a very short story! I asked a man what was his Beliefs he said "If Believe in myself" then everything else I believe in falls right into place. No watered down ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating. Do I leave him or stay because of the baby?
Q. Hi,I am 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating with one of he's co-worker and she is married too I dont know who's the jerk, but this problem is driving me crazy I just don't know what to do. I must leave him or stay cuz of the baby?...thanks ...
A. 27 October 2010: I agree with what Tennisstar88 said."Don't stay together because of the baby..It will only make for a nastier divorce" And I'll add that I think right now the baby deserve the best of everything! And staying will not be in the best interest of the ... (read in full...)
Why does sex die out when people move in together?
Q. So why is it that sex dies out when couples start spending more time with each other or when they move in together.My boyfriend and i will be moving in together pretty soon because not only do we love each other and feel like we're gonna be together ...
A. 27 October 2010: Because other things get involved with the SEX. Where you use to just come by and it wasn't the stress of the bills and the house work in there,& worried about how I'm going to look in the morning all the things that wasn't there "TO WORRY ABOUT" ... (read in full...)
Its hard enough being a single mother to one, I don't know if I can do it with two!
Q. okay so im 20 years old and i already have an 1yr old daughter... i just found out today that i am pregnant again ..n the guy that i was with already has a little girl with a another woman n doesnt see her at all he drinks alot n likes to go to the ...
A. 27 October 2010: Yes. You should you tell him. Remember it takes two to make a child. What other people "THINK" about you really isn't any of your business. Worry about and your baby and him for now. TELL HIM. You did say he'll "PROBABLY" deny it. You left room for ... (read in full...)
Its hard enough being a single mother to one, I don't know if I can do it with two!
Q. okay so im 20 years old and i already have an 1yr old daughter... i just found out today that i am pregnant again ..n the guy that i was with already has a little girl with a another woman n doesnt see her at all he drinks alot n likes to go to the ...
A. 27 October 2010: Can you say...."Birth~Control"? OR Better~Yet...Try this Word. "Condom"? IJS ...THE "STATE" KNOW HOW TO MAKE HIM SAY " I CAN PAY $$$$$ For 21 years! ~Yes! Sweet? Tell Him! You shouldn't $$$for a baby all by yourself! ~No watered advice here! And ... (read in full...)
15 and pregnant...parents don't know..
Q. I am 15 and 2 months pregnant.. i have told my boyfriend of 9 months this and he is happy but scared like me. but i have a big problem. my parents do not know and his don't either. and this baby doesn't belong to my boyfriend. i started seeing ...
A. 25 October 2010: Mommy's baby Daddy's maybe! LOL! That term was popular in my day!!! Well, Maury made "You!! Are Not the Father" Popular in your day! LOL!!!! What we ALL know and agree all is the fact that you're carrying a "child" that needs medical ATTENTION! And ... (read in full...)
I like a 40 y/o man and I am 17...what are the chances?
Q. I met a man in a chat room on July of this year. We didn't talk much in pm but when we did, I was mostly seeking his advice on something. I always showed a certain interest in the cat room because I liked his personality. Not once had I seen his ...
A. 25 October 2010: I think he's too old for you. And maybe you should think about what is it about him being an older man that you're really attracted too? BC..you know nothing about him other than he's an older man! Is it something missing in your life that you feel ... (read in full...)
I felt like an object again!
Q. Hi Aunts. I am in some urgent need for advice here.Hope you can help me. Sadly I carry a very traumatic past on my shoulders. A few years back I was kidnapped and raped by an acquaintance and for a long time I was nothing but a walking zombie. I ...
A. 24 October 2010: I think that that he had all the intentions in the world of having a relationship with you, until that moment you spoke of. I also feel that he's not mentally prepared to handle you right now. However, that's where you can step in and make him more ... (read in full...)
She says I'm not boyfriend material!
Q. Im 13 years old.I love my girlfriend very much I think about her always.She wants to break up. She told Im not a boyfriend meteriale i dont know what that meen.i wnat to get her back.Help me ...
A. 24 October 2010: AWWW!!!! What she's telling you is, you're like a "Brother" to her and guess what? Brothers last longer than boyfriends anyway! You'll see her boyfriends come on go! And guess who be able to be in life FOREVER? "YOU"! It's going to always be two ... (read in full...)
He took rough sex too far and now I'm afraid to trust him
Q. My boyfriend like to be rough during sex. So when he started slapping my face about 6 months ago I told him that he was taking it too far and they only thing I don't want him to do is slap me because I feel like he is abusing me. He still likes to ...
A. 24 October 2010: OMG!!! You must!! Get of this relationship NOW! This will only get worse, and the abuse will no longer begin with sex it'll begin from the moment he walks in the door. I'm speaking from "PERSONAL" experience. I started out liking a little "DRUNK" ... (read in full...)
He sends me songs and tells me what they mean to him!
Q. What does it mean if a guy sends you songs all of the time? I think he that he likes but never really says. He spends a lot of time picking these songs out and tells me what they remind him of. He even sends songs for me. The songs he sends me a ...
A. 24 October 2010: *I'm reminiscing* Thinking about a guy who would do that to me all the time when I first met him,(It was cool!) But...it started getting "OLD" FAST LOL! &,TRUST ME!!! YOU won't be saying: "MR.DJ PLEASE PLAY ANOTHER SONG" *In Backstreet Boys ... (read in full...)
I see lying as a lack of respect and self control
Q. Can someone say that they have grown and matured after they have cheated on someone, if they plan to never tell their partner they cheated on them? Can someone actually feel that they will never "do it again" and have grown from the experience and ...
A. 24 October 2010: Some people claim they want their partner to tell them "The Truth" When in actuality, Most people "Can't handle the truth the truth" *In my Jack Nicholson* That take me to what you asked about Maturity,"Lying has nothing to with Maturity" * In Judge ... (read in full...)
Can someone truly love someone they are capable of cheating on and lying to?
Q. Can someone who has cheated on me (serious flirting and texting, and slept with the woman 1x), and who intended to never tell me about it, actually love me? If I hadn't found out the way I did, he would've never told me. And he initially lied ...
A. 24 October 2010: OH YEAH!!! What does "LOVE" has to do with THAT? *In my Tina Turner voice* ... (read in full...)
What did I do? Is he jealous?
Q. My boyfriend and I been together for almost three years. We were so happy together but suddenly something happend. We were arguing sometimes. He told me that we can't be together because we always fight and he told me to be friends.After the breakup ...
A. 24 October 2010: SMH!!!What you did was what he wanted you to do. One more thing!!! SO..he can get rid of you! Anything to use as "The excuse" For what he's was already doing. Don't beat yourself up. You did nothing! This is "DINOSAUR~OLD" The mind~game he's ... (read in full...)
He deletes his emails and texts which makes me worry
Q. Hello. I'm very confused about my fiancé's behavior lately. He works in a liquor company where they travel every now and then, he is on the phone all day and working on computer as well (home office). It seems that lately all he cares is the stock ...
A. 24 October 2010: You already know what it is!!! You know when he 'delete those DAMN text messages that THEY'RE NOT business!!! BUSINESS don't "WORK" like that!!!! *In Donald Trump voice* LMAO!!!!... (read in full...)
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