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18 September 2008: I was born in a blue hospital right outside the city. I remember my youth as being very joyfull. I was happy, untill my brother was born. My parent's started to torture and abuse me. I was not allowed to go near my brother or to play with him when ...

I shouldn't have asked to see pictures of my boyfriend's ex

Q.   Why am I so angry at him? Is not his fault is it? So I asked my boyfriend about his ex and he told me everything about her and he asked if I wanted to see a picture of her and I said yeah sure but I bet she's not prettier than me and he said...

A.   2 January 2014: Hello, You're a little bit insecure but I don't think you can be mad at him for showing you the picture because you asked for it... Sorry What you can do is go to the gym perhaps to boost your self esteem and I wouldn't worry too much about h... (read in full...)

How do I get through this date?

Q.   I haven't dated for a while and I impulsively agreed to a date with my brother-in-laws brother. The thing is, I'm extremely nervous whole thing. I don't think we've actually spoken in the 4+ years that my sister has been married to his brother. He ...

A.   3 December 2011: Hi dear, Just try to relax and have a good time. If it doesn't end up a relationship, it's alright! You can always be good friends right? :) Try not to take it too seriously and enjoy yourself. And you will see what will happen, so don't... (read in full...)

Anxious, nervous

Q.   Hi, whats my problem ? I dont realy have any friends (well i do to talk to on Facebook xbox and such like)so I dont go out much, besides work Monday to Friday 8;30 till 5;30. My school friends I have distanced my self from due to them using and ...

A.   3 December 2011: Hi Dear, I think you have a little bit of low self esteem and a shy personality. You might be a sensitive person too. I used to be like this too and I still am sometimes :) Here is what helped me: I realized that I only live once a... (read in full...)

My boyfriend isn't showing concern for my problem!

Q.   Hi there. Okay I'm having a serious problem now with my boyfriend "Jim". Everything was going fine until just three days ago. One of my best friends got all mad at me because I was TRYING to comfort her after the guy she really liked rejected...

A.   3 December 2011: Hi dear, I don't think you should worry too much about it. Things like this happen and it's immature behavior. Your friend doesn't know how to value a REAL friend who has the courage to tell he the truth. It's her loss. Be the better person ... (read in full...)

She's rude so how do I get back at her?

Q.   hey one of my friends well not really friend... got my boyfriend number and texted him and told him things that weren't true so he broke up with me..he says would't have broken up with me if he hadnt heard that. so what should i do? i really want ...

A.   21 January 2010: I dont think your ex-boyfriend is worth your time. He breaks up with you because of a LYING 'friend' through a Text Message!? How much can he possibly care about you if he breaks it off this easily? I don't know what is written, but as a boyfrien... (read in full...)

Do I have to look like a model to keep the sex alive?

Q.   My husband does not seem to be attracted to me anymore.He does not say it ,but he never touching me or looks at me sexy... Now he is very polite guy, and kind.He is not rude with me, but I just see our sex life dead. I did put on weight over the ...

A.   21 January 2010: No you don't have to look like a model. U still love ur husband no matter what. It's inner beauty that is the most important. And i'm sure he sees that in you too. Now, how to keep you sex life alive. Maybe you should try to go to the gym and exer... (read in full...)

My cousin's ex is telling my fiance lies and he is believing them!

Q.   Dear Cupid: My cousin's ex boyfriend, Joe (name changed)works with my fiance and he is constantly telling my boyfriend lies about me. I dont know what to do. I am getting extremely frustrated. Help!!! To make a long story straight, my cousin i...

A.   15 January 2010: I really dislike people telling lies about me behind my back. They will always exist.. Nothing to do about it. Even if you asked them to stop. They won't. I would have a very good conversation with your fiancee. Make it VERY CLEAR to him that he ... (read in full...)

Why does ex behave like this after we said our goodbyes?

Q.   I broke up with me ex several months ago and met with him a week ago for a closure, then I said goodbye to him. This is because we had been communicating on and off and I told him we can't move on if we still get in touch. He agreed with me. Just...

A.   13 September 2009: I think he's having a hard time. Esspecially when you are facing each other. Goodbyes are never easy to deal with when u have a special bond with that someone and guys can't express them selves very well.. I think thats why. Good luck!... (read in full...)

My question is, why won't my FWB commit?

Q.   So, my best friend and i started to become friends with benefits about 4 months ago. earlier this year i went through a hard time with my ex and he always helped me through it. for the past few months, my friend has begun to act like my boyfriend: ...

A.   23 December 2008: He might be just insecure and afraid that he's not good enough to be your boyfriend, because many ppl asked you out? Afraid of losing you if the relationship doesn't work out? This is my opinion from what I've read.. Good luck! :) ... (read in full...)

How can I block her from calling me?

Q.   ok. my dads X-girlfriend is texting and phone calling me and giving me abuse. is there a way i can get her number completely blocked from phoning and texting me other than going to the police as this is to much hastle and i dont have time really...

A.   23 December 2008: Don't reply her messages, don't pick up or pick up and leave the phone on the table. If she is too persistant. I would change my number. Or ask you provider :) good luck!... (read in full...)

I found the perfect girl but will I be missing out?

Q.   Hello, i have met the perfect girl and i want to spend the rest of my life with her... but... im so shure that we will be together forever im afraid i will lose the chance of being with other women. Its not that i want to cheat or anything and trus...

A.   23 December 2008: You still very young, but since ur convinced that she is THE ONE.. I will take this serious in my comment. I think you are very lucky to have found THE ONE! We all date. Some ppl will date to have sex(in my opinion not good), the experience etc, ... (read in full...)

I'm the adventurous type and he sits at home surfing the Web and also drinks, what do I do?

Q.   I am a 42 yr old female and I know it sounds funny but I am very confused about what I want to do .I am seeing this man that is very sweet but he has a problem with drinking .When he drinks it is very scary .I love him but I dont however wish to ...

A.   21 December 2008: Are you happy with this man? You should seriously ask yourself that question. Can you live with him for another 2 years or maybe longer? I think you're not supposed to be scared of your spouse. It's just not right! I hope this will help..... (read in full...)

Will he judge my body if we have sex?

Q.   i want to have sex with my boyfriend but i'm a little worried that he won't like the way my body looks. what should i do?...

A.   21 December 2008: Hi! I think you should be more confident! Don't be insecure.. I was exactly like you, but I learnt that if he really loves you, he will think you're beautiful no matter what!!! If you feel confident you will look hot. If you find it difficul... (read in full...)

I was so mad I slapped her across the face!

Q.   My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would ...

A.   13 July 2008: maybe she doesn't realize how much this hurts you and is extremely insensitive. Pls find another friend. Forget about her. take care! I hope u will find happiness in your life. As ur brother will be happy for you too in heaven!... (read in full...)

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