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writes:Hi everyone! I checked my bf on facebook, his status says "i am separated and i am looking for dating" and the other one says " if your gf slap you what can you do?tell me then i wil tell you what i did", since we have been together(3 yrs) i never slap him and i last saw him 2months back but now i am suprised when he says his gf clap him i was worried , and i send him an sms and told him that if his no longer interested in me just tell me,and he replay that if i have made up my mind to leave him ther is nothing he can do and he says that he was just playing on face book,he doesn't even care about how i fil, can you plz help i don't knw what to do and he doesnt want to call i think he is just waiting for me to dump him and he does'nt talk about having a family he says may be after 5 yrs or l0 yrs,we are in a LDR.thanks for any advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice, you realy help me a lot
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reader, person12345  +, writes (14 October 2010):
 He's being a coward and trying to make you dump him so he doesn't have to do it. Dump him and find someone less cowardly.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 October 2010):
 Yes, it sounds like he doesn't want to take responsibility and want you to break up with him because he is too much of a chicken to do so himself.
You can do much better than this crap he is giving you. Only the disrespectful would play around on facebook like that. He s clearly not respecting you, so let him go so you can find someone who will treat you better.
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (14 October 2010):
He sounds tired of the relationship. Maybe ask him point blank if he's still for the relationship or he wants to move on. But seriously, he just sounds like he wants out. Leave him and find someone who cares.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 October 2010):
Take the initiative and dump him. Then actually find a decent guy rather than a total coward who isn't worth your time.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (14 October 2010):
 You should dump him. The moment you realized that he didn't care about how you felt, the relationship died. Move on and find someone who will not show such disrespect.
I hope that helps.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (14 October 2010):
 He's obviously unable to tell you where you went wrong (if you did that is). If you know you didn't, he's making you look like the bad guy, because he's too coward to assume the responsibility of a break up. And if he's doing this, he's just sick of you, he has no respect for you, so yeah, move on. He obviously lost interest. Also, I have a bad opinion about LDRs. They're meant to fail sooner or later, because the partners feel frustrated due to the absence of the other one RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW. I'm sure there's a guy nearby, who's waiting for you. Drop facebook and virtual love declarations - on the internet, they don't mean squat, because they're "artificialized" by the computer (or the phone). Focus on real life people, people you know you have REAL contact with. Best wishes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): I would dump him (because he is not thinking of you like a man should), but not before talking to him to see if he has a good explanation for why he is not communicating with you, and so he can explain his Facebook status.
If it seems like he doesn’t care for you, and you have told him you are feeling sad because of this, then I think you should leave him.
That’s when he might finally change his ways and start talking to you properly. If he doesn’t, then breaking up with him was the right decision for you.
You don’t need a man that isn’t going to be there for you, and who is going to lie behind your back.
Get some answers first.
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