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| | *onelyButNotAlone's profile:I'm just a guy in his mid-twenties who would rather hit someone (and be hit) with the cold hard truth rather than beat around the bushes.
People are too dishonest. If we could all only be a little more honest, half of our troubles would disappear.
I live in Iowa, work for a living and am going to school to become a pharmacist. I like horror movies, video games, biking, drinking, and that sort of thing.
After a year and a half long relationship and a bad break-up (girlfriend cheated on me with a guy she met online, told me she never loved me, I had to move out), only a month later I've started seeing someone else. My new girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a month now. |
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I want to get in contact with my ex! How do I go about doing it?
Q. Hey, I want to get in touch with my ex-bf. Bad idea or not, I'm going to do it anyway so I'd like advice to make it go as smoothly as possible. We broke up in June. I'm not gonna talk about getting back together or what happened, I just REALLY wa...
A. 20 August 2008: Bad terms, huh? In that case, I'd probably recommend something along the lines of returning the book, like you suggested.
I wouldn't recommend saying you wanna meet up because "you need something." He might think that you merely intend to just use... (read in full...)
I really like this boy and I think he likes me back too, but he has a girlfriend!
Q. right here goes im rele confussed :S I rele like this boy and i think he likes me back hes gotta girlfriend thou and hes been with her a reallly long time. I rele dunno wot to do cos i dnt wanna like come between them. I am really confussed can an...
A. 20 August 2008: It IS probably best that you don't come between them. That can create more problems than it's worth at times.
But perhaps you won't have to do anything and he'll come to you all on his own? Maybe he's unhappy with her.
Either way, it's his ca... (read in full...)
My husband has no desire for me.
Q. I am 41 years. I have been very slim all my life. I have never weighted over 115 lbs. after I got married I gained 15 lbs, my husband was turned off by me completely. So I lost 15 lbs and we started to have sex again. Now I weight 118-120, and we ...
A. 20 August 2008: He sounds like a real loser to me.
15 lbs? What a fucking baby. And a hypocrite.
Porn has been shown to desensitize a person to sex, so there's no doubt that it's contributing to his problem that he's having. And his age (I assume) isn't li... (read in full...)
Is this a sincere apology from someone that's grown up or is he just trying to get me in bed?
Q. My first major boyfriend got back in touch with me the other day and I'm not sure what to do about it. I was completely in love with him but he cheated on me, then after we broke up we just kept hooking up over and over again for about a year until ...
A. 20 August 2008: I think you should respect your current boyfriend's wishes.
You ex already apologized, so what more is there for you and him to talk about?... (read in full...)
I want to get in contact with my ex! How do I go about doing it?
Q. Hey, I want to get in touch with my ex-bf. Bad idea or not, I'm going to do it anyway so I'd like advice to make it go as smoothly as possible. We broke up in June. I'm not gonna talk about getting back together or what happened, I just REALLY wa...
A. 20 August 2008: It depends on what kind of terms you parted on. Assuming they were good, I think any of those excuses are fine.
But... he's still likely to see you contacting him out of the blue as a sign you want to get back together.... (read in full...)
My older boyfriend doesn't know if he wants a relationship?
Q. Ok so im 21 years old and have been seeing this guy who is actually alot older then me he is 38, it started out just hanging out and having alot of fun well now we are sleeping together and i stay at his house alot. Well i really really like him now ...
A. 20 August 2008: I agree with Ms.LoveDoctor. Give him some time. There are lots of things to consider when you're in a relationship with partners with large age disparity. Particularly when it comes to differing activity levels, lifestyles, as well as needs and ... (read in full...)
I'm more attracted to her mentally than sexually... I love a different girl!
Q. ok so ive been in love with this amazing girl since 2 years ago. ive never gotten over her and i have never wanted to. i mean i want to have kids with this girl and marry her! i love her more than anything. now at the beginning of this most recent ...
A. 20 August 2008: I would say that at the stage you're at, physical attraction is more important than mental/emotional attraction.
The truth is, most people need to be physically attracted to their mate. If there isn't a physical attraction, you'll end up running ... (read in full...)
Why do guys make jokes about this? Do they want girls to think they are studs or are they really sleeping around?
Q. Quite a few of the guys I have been with have joked about not making marks on them incase the other girls see. Why do guys make jokes about this? Is it a case of they want us girls to think they are studs and that lots of girls want them or are ...
A. 20 August 2008: You're pretty much right on the money with them wanting girls to think they're "studs."
Stupid isn't it?... (read in full...)
I'm a young guy with sexual problems. My girlfriend is getting frustrated. How do I fix this
Q. I've been having sexual problems lately. I've been with this woman for 4 years and never had anything like this happen, but for the past two or three months or so I've been going soft during sex and sometimes we have to stop altogether because I ...
A. 20 August 2008: It may be a lot of stuff. It could be stress related. It could be diet related.
I would suggest you go see a doctor about it.... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me while I was in Iraq... Is she always going to be a cheater?
Q. 5 years ago while i was in Iraq My wife (18years old) cheated on me and had a guy live with her while I was away. I too cheated out of resentment when I got back but have learned from my mistakes and never want to hurt her again (I admit I have ...
A. 20 August 2008: First of all, I gotta thank you for your service in the military. I appreciate what you guys are doing. You have my utmost respect and gratitude.
As for your wife, it sounds likes she's being immature and fickle. Just because you've learned ... (read in full...)
Have I lost my V-card?
Q. This is very important to me so I hope I get some answers soon. I have been with my boyfriend for about eight months now. We are very much dedicated and in love with one another. Not too long ago, he inserted the TIP of his penis inside my vagina ...
A. 20 August 2008: The truth is, virginity is lost at the first sexual act with another person. It's the loss of "innocence," if you would think such a thing exists in our culture these days. It doesn't matter if it's full-on intercourse, oral-sex, mutual ... (read in full...)
Can someone put me in the right direction when it comes to girls?
Q. Hi, i am 21, i have a real problem that i need help with. Im a virgin and i have real girl problems, when i was 16,17 and 18 i wasnt really that nervous or shy around girls but every girl i liked i had my heart set on them and they said they l...
A. 19 August 2008: You and I have a lot in common.
Here's what I recommend.
1) Try to find some sort of productive interest that'll get you out of the house and around people. Something active is very good. I took up mixed-martial arts.
2) Start talking to p... (read in full...)
I can’t decide if he is depressed, stressed or seeing someone else, or all three!!! Have not seen him in 3 weeks.
Q. I don’t know where I stand with my boyfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and have been going out just over a year. He told me when we first got together that he likes his own space and he finds talking about things difficult as he had ...
A. 19 August 2008: This sounds like my problem exactly. Do you and him still talk about your future together?
I unfortunately haven't found my answers, but I wish you luck with yours.... (read in full...)
Will my new boyfriend break up with me over sexual problems? This happened last time!
Q. Me and my bf of two years and a half just broke up because he said we didnt have a great sexual relationship, i guess the blame is on me but i feel as though it was because i wasnt really sexually attracted to him. I really loved him though but ...
A. 19 August 2008: At least in my experience, a man's definition of a "bad sexual relationship" is not having enough sex or having a partner that seems to "enjoy having sex."
If you can attribute both of those to the fact that you were not attracted to the man you ... (read in full...)
I can't talk to people and I'm a loner... how can I change that?
Q. Well it's time to be honest....I'm 21 and am a loner. I have never had any real social life up till now nor experienced any type of meaningful youth. I stay in my room night after night and my mum is right when she says I don't know how to tal...
A. 19 August 2008: I would suggest you see a counselor or a therapist. Talking to yourself and the paranoia you experience might be part of a larger problem that goes beyond "confidence issues." It might even be paranoid schizophrenia, which is something that can be ... (read in full...)
We don't see each other often due to our schedules, she's become distant and says it's depression. I don't know what to say, ask or do.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half, but this last month and a half she's been very distant. We've always been so close, very affectionate, had sex often... but now, it's almost like she doesn't even wanna be in the ...
A. 19 August 2008: have you ever asked her why she does not want to be you....
it has to be more then just being depressed there is another
reason why she dosent want be with you cause if i was going
thru that i would want to be with my boyfriend all the time
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My girlfriend kissed two girls while drunk, how should I handle this?
Q. ok so my girlfriend went to a party got drunk and kissed two other girls, i dont know what to do about it, i just want to know what would you do if it was you in this situation ? please help me :(...
A. 19 August 2008: It's become sort of a part of our "party culture" these days. To be open, promiscuous, free spirited.
It probably doesn't mean anything, so I wouldn't worry about it. But if it bothered you, just let her know next time you go out partying... (read in full...)
Met him online, I'm afraid I'm falling in love with him and I'm not sure if he is as serious as I am. Why am I so worried, and how can I stop?
Q. I have been dating a wonderful man for three months. He is 46 and I am 37, we are both divorced, and we each have a 10-year-old daughter. The sex is wonderful and we have a great time when we are together. Because of our work schedules, we only see ...
A. 19 August 2008: I too met my girlfriend online, so I can somewhat understand where you're coming from and the situation.
What I'd suggest is asking him what he feels about how things are going and if he'd like to try and make a go of the relationship. Tell him... (read in full...)
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