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22-25,
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writes:ok so ive been in love with this amazing girl since 2 years ago. ive never gotten over her and i have never wanted to. i mean i want to have kids with this girl and marry her! i love her more than anything. now at the beginning of this most recent summer i started dating another girl. shes great and treats me like no one ever has. the problem is that im more mentaly and emotionaly attracted to her then sexually and physically. plus she can be too much for me to take sometimes. how close she gets to me and how much shes kissing my face drives me insane sometimes. im just that kind of a person that doesnt like too much touchy feely crap ya know? i dont know what to do expecially because were all going to the same school!!!!! help!!!
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reader, LonelyButNotAlone +, writes (20 August 2008):
 I would say that at the stage you're at, physical attraction is more important than mental/emotional attraction.
The truth is, most people need to be physically attracted to their mate. If there isn't a physical attraction, you'll end up running into trouble down the road.
For the most part, both physical and emotional needs are equally as important, but if one girl can at least somewhat satisfy your emotional needs but completely satisfy your physical needs... you're much better off with her rather than the one that can only satisfy your emotional needs quite well.
Then again, you're still so young, so I wouldn't worry about making the "wrong decision" too much. Odds are, you'll probably date many other women before you eventually settle on one.
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reader, Ask Reanne :)  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 Personally mate i think you are veryyy young to be worrying about things like this i mean you 10 or something aint you.? If you are really in to this other girl then let her know how you feel because she might feel the same. but your current girlfriend is only trying too prove to you that she loves you but you have gotta remember love is a very strong word. If you feel your girlfriend is being very clingly (like always kissing you toutching you) then you should tell her.
i hope my advise works keep in touch and let me know how things work out :)
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