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writes: Ihave this guy friend and we are good friends intially but lately I have caught him staring at me alot more then usual.Then when I do catch him, he turns his head away quickly. Im not sure whether he likes me that way because we have known each other three years and I used to date one of his friends. I just say hi to him and stuff and whenever we talk like really talk, he always seems like a good listener and supports me in whatever I do but isnt that a sign of a good friend? I do have feelings for him alittle but I dont want to ruin our friendship. what do I make of his behavior? Reply to this Question
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reader, lilyflower.n +, writes (14 November 2010):
lilyflower.n is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSometimes though he doesnt turn his head away, he keeps staring until I turn away. He often has a blank look on his face. But friends even good friends dont stare at their friends for countless seconds unless they like them right??? My friends are convinced he likes me because boys dont stare at girls they're not attracted to. Im so terribly confused now. Does he really like me??
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reader, lilyflower.n +, writes (27 April 2010):
lilyflower.n is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea ok..I accept that but he told my friend, he didn't like me that way. is that normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): This probably means he likes you more than a friend. Friends don`t just stare at eachother, then when you look at them, they turn away. No. He probably can`t help himself ! It may seem awkward, but it`s a boy thing :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): the guy obviously likes you so go for it
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reader, Keira9312  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 The boy you are talking about is probably into you. Since you have been friends for so long, he has probably come to realize that both you and him get along better than most people. Also, if you had dated his friend, and his friend came out happy, then he might have seen that you were lovable, and wanted to try it himself. One thing though: don't ever be too sure about a guy's signals. Many guys are different, and it would hurt if he rejected you. My advice is to play along with him, talk to him like you always have, and he might just see about dating you!:)
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