I feel weird trying to spice it up...
Q. Hiya everyone! So I wanted to surprise my lad somehow with a little something extra added to our sex life. He's going away for a business trip and will be gone for Christmas :( But when he gets back, we're having our own private Xmas, jus...
A. 13 October 2007: Have 2 drinks before he gets there you will be more calm,just don't get sloppy drunk. If you feel stupid being sexy play it cute he'll think it's hot even if you say nothing at all. Tell him you have a present for him upstairs...... (read in full...)
My man cheated on me and I hurt so badly!
Q. i need advise really bad well my bf of almost 2 years had been hiding something from me for about 7 months and last night he fianlly admited that he faked phone sex with his ex girl friend, but we were not together and let me tell you why thi...
A. 13 October 2007: For starters any man that would leave you alone through a miscarriage and a d&c is not a man. He sounds like a baby and a coward,he's scared of his mom,he screws you over,isn't honest with you or his ex. Don't be friends with him or her. There are ... (read in full...)
Did he physically abuse me?
Q. This happened to me once. After 2 years of relationship I was about to storm out of my ex's apartment (he was my boyfriend at the time) crying (for the first time in our relationship I was crying in front of him for something he did, neglecting me) ...
A. 13 October 2007: When he grabbed your wrist and refused to let you go,that was abuse. The other things that you said he did "telling you what to wear" that was controlling. Ignoring you was stupid and immature,he sounds like a total loser and jerkoff. You are so ... (read in full...)
I look too young...
Q. i am 14 5'2 and i look about 12 i hate looking younger i realy want to look my age or older i have been told i am pretty which is nice but all i want to do is look older what make-up can i wear to make me look older (without making me look like a ...
A. 13 October 2007: Dermatologist are an invaluable resource,prescrition pimple meds and creams work very fast and are very effective. Also the clearasil conceal and heal creams and oil absorbing sheets are great. Bronzers and muted blushes are good, maybe a little bit ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of this irritation during my period?
Q. it appears that when im due on my period i get thrush.. i dont understand why.. i think its thrush anyway because its itchy and red and really sore.. how do i get rid of this and why am i getting this? is it because of the pill im taking? (micro ...
A. 11 October 2007: AZO has great product lines for this also,pill form. Also eat yogurt it sometimes helps,and it can't hurt. Schedule an app. when you can that would probably be most beneficial to you. Oh,and don't used anything scented tampons or pads and use the ... (read in full...)
My friends wife and I were out of control, blowing my principle right out the window.
Q. I have a fair amount of experience with women but not so much in terms of committed relationships. I have governed my dating life by a few basic principles, one being you don't cross the line when it comes to your friend's girlfriend/fiancee/wife. ...
A. 11 October 2007: You have to tell him. He'll probably wanna return the favor and F you but not in the fun way. Keep it in your pants,if you don't want to be that kind of person,Don't Be.... (read in full...)
Body confidence issues
Q. im 16 and yesterday i went to buy a nice bra and i was so self conscious, i thought people were giving me looks as i have no . how do i get my to grow?...
A. 11 October 2007: Aside from implants, gaining weight,or waiting period,not much. Your breast don't fully develop until 18,nor are you old enough for implants,don't waste your time on creams. Go into Victoria's Secret ask about Demi Pushups and Very Sexy bras, hardly ... (read in full...)
My heart and soul can't imagine living without her.
Q. WAS VERY GOOD I THINK. I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU IF I MAY.I AM GOING THROUGH A BRAKE UP AFTER 8.5 YEARS. SHE TOLD ME SHE NEEDS SOME TIME. WE HAVE ONLY LIVED TOGETHER FOR 3 YEARS. MY PROBLUM IS I LOVE HER SO MUCH THAT I CAN NOT SEE MYSELF LIVING WITH ...
A. 11 October 2007: Talk to her and find out what the problem is or was with the relationship. If this problem still exist and can't be changed it may very well be over. Surround yourself with loved ones,they will be an invaluable resource to you now.Remember "It will ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my best friend's brother how I feel?
Q. I've been extremially close with my best friend since Kindergarden. Starting over the summer i started to like her older brother, she knows this, and constantally said that he likes me back. Then i moved away, halfway across the country to be exact. ...
A. 11 October 2007: Tell him, you've held it in in long enough. What if you keep secret and 10-15 years later he's married,dead,or otherwise moved on. Life is short,pay your bills late,tell people you love them early.... (read in full...)
My questions are stopping me from having sex
Q. hey. im 16 and really want to have sex with my boyfriend. i emotionally and physically feel ready but there are just a few things playing on my mind about it. will it hurt? will he compare me to other girls? and what will he think of me after? an...
A. 8 October 2007: It will hurt like a pinch, burn or sting deep in your vagina. When I lost my virginity I honestly looked down at my crotch to make sure my b.f. hadn't for some reason stuck a lit match inside of me. It hurts for approx. 5 seconds,similar to getting ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my partner wants to terminate. What should I do?
Q. Hi I am 24 and I am aslo 10 weeks pregnant. I have been with my partner for only 4 months so got caught really quick - yes, we were both stupid. I had a termination last year at five months due to medical conditions and my current partner ...
A. 7 October 2007: It's too late for him to decide that he doesn't want to have kids. If after 2 he was done he should have been fixed. He has no right to ask you to abort,you don't need his permission to abort so why would you need his consent to keep the baby. I was ... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian?
Q. I'm just 15.. Not in a serious relationship.. But urgghh.. I have this confusing and hurting obsession towards my teacher, who happens to be a woman. She's aged 40, married..there's no sexual attraction duh..however, I love her so much, like my ...
A. 6 October 2007: Is your teacher younger,cooler,or more understanding than Mom? Alot of young girls get a "mom crush" on someone who somehow seems better or more easily accessable than their mom. Plus if it's not sexual you are probably not gay. Maybe you could ... (read in full...)
I need someone to tell me I'm not a slut for having sex at 11. And how do I tell my mum about the pregnancy?
Q. When i was 11 i had sex for the first time and got pregnant i just need someone to tell me im not a slut, am i ?? i am 11 and pregnant how do i tell my mum and what do i do??...
A. 6 October 2007: You are not a slut,but you do sound confused and misguided. My best guess is simply that you were looking for love,or you were curious and that doesn't make you a slut. The only way to tell your mom is just to sit her down and tell her. It's not ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he cum?
Q. My boyfriend and I are both seventeen and have been dating about 6 months, and we recently slept together. The first time he came after about 45 mins but the next time he didnt at all, am I doing something wrong or do all young guys get that???...
A. 6 October 2007: Sometimes men and women simply cannnot cum during intercourse, usually because of stress. Alcohol plays a huge part as do certain drugs. Maybe you could consider it a blessing from what I remember most young guys have the opposite problem.You are ... (read in full...)
He keeps hurting me! I keep loving him! Should I give him another chance?
Q. Hi guys. I've met this great guy, let's call him Tom in May. We met at work. He was really sweet, he bought me flowers and everything was perfect.We started dating.In July I had to leave the town for a month. He replied for my two e-mails and that's ...
A. 6 October 2007: No way!Finish school and get your s$@* together!Do you wanna be a 25 year old preg. girl without a degree and a luke warm boyfriend? No, years later say 29 when you have a degree and possibly the love of your life you will thank god, until then just ... (read in full...)
Dating advice.
Q. What is the best way to go out with someone? Please, I need big advice!...
A. 6 October 2007: I think the old stand by of "Dinner and a Movie".Because it's not suggestive.I think it's best to go to dinner first to feel him out,then you kinna know him,and if he's a dud you can go to a movie and not talk to him.But if you are shy go to the ... (read in full...)
I don't want to make the first move and ruin our friendship... What should I do?
Q. I am 15 and have never had a proper boyfriend. I am not completly worried about this as i love having so many great friends that are boys. Recently i have noticed that this one boy (lets call his bob) has been constantly looking at me and blushing ...
A. 6 October 2007: When you talk to him only slighty touch him,maybe gently on the shoulder,if he's receptive and leans closer,he likes you.If he pulls away and shrugs you off you're a dude to him.Either way you don't loose cool points, checking the water,if he ... (read in full...)
My brother keeps hurting me more and more. I don't know what to do.
Q. My brother and I have always fought mainly playfully but recently he has been hurting me more and more. My mum and dad know but they don't know what to do any sugestions about options that we could try...
A. 6 October 2007: I am going to assume your brother is at least 18,old enough to know better and old enough to go to jail.Have an intervention so he knows this is not cool.Tell your mum and dad you don't want him to come into the house hurting you,if they don't go ... (read in full...)
How do I not ruin first dates?
Q. I am quite a shy person so at 20 i have just started dating. i had a date on tuesday with a girl who i seemed to like but i have probably cocked it up as there was at times long periods of silence (like 1 minute at one point). She had to go early as ...
A. 5 October 2007: Ask her unexpected questions like "What would choose to be your personal themesong?" "Favorite cops in nutthuggers,Chips or Reno 911?" Ask her to tell her funniest story or tell her yours.Just have fun, first dates and really great, if nothing else ... (read in full...)
How should I act on my first date?
Q. iam new to being gay and i am hoping to meet my first possible boyfriend in sutton in surrey on saturday how should i act on the day and should i ask about a second date from craig, 22years old gay redhill...
A. 5 October 2007: Pretend to be a T-Rex rolling a joint it's sure to get a laugh,keep comenting on how short and stubby your dino arms are,use props if needed to demonstrate this.... (read in full...)
My daughter said my partner of 7 yrs tried to take a photo of her in the shower. He says he "walked in" texting me not realising someone else was there. I want to believe both!
Q. I have been with my partner for 7 years and thought evrything was great after being in a bad marriage. Tonight my 19year old daughter sent me a txt saying he tried to take a photo of her in the shower . When i challenged him about it he said he was ...
A. 5 October 2007: I don't know if this helps but usually when people text they hold the phone lower than if they were going to take a pic.You can check phone records on the internet through your cell phone provider.Probably better to err in the daughters favor if ... (read in full...)
Is it embarrasing catching the bus in front of the boy you have a crush on?
Q. Every night after school I walk up out of school to catch the bus home and the guy I have a crush on walks with me to the bus stop. But then I have to get on the bus and he continues walking home with his friends. I find it really embarassibng ...
A. 5 October 2007: I think being embarrassed is simply a sign of your age.For instance when I was in Elementary school sometimes my mom would put chips in my lunchbox,but not the snack size.You know chips she had bought of the value size and put in a clear ziplock.It ... (read in full...)
Cheating or not?
Q. i have had a boyfriend for about three months and i really like him and i recieved a message tonight saying how was london babe love you and i haven,t been to london and i then recieved a message saying that he had sent it to the wrong person i ...
A. 5 October 2007: Watch his behavior relating to his phone. Does he sit on his phone 24/7,sleep with it,freak if you go to answer it,delete his call log all the time? If so consider it a green light and go butting around though his stuff,phonebooks,glove ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont let me go in has car
Q. My boyfriend wont let me go in has car, he always makes up excuses why I can't and have to go in mine which I find odd as this has only started to happen recently it was never a problem before. I was due to go to college it was dark and i noticed my ...
A. 5 October 2007: In my opinion he's very selfish,if nothing else. He as your boyfriend should help you out and not leave you hanging.It's my life experience that a guy who won't share his car will not share his set of chores,half of the rent,or his heart for that ... (read in full...)
Am I being petty?
Q. do you think its ok for your fiance to conceal the fact that his ex was going to be at a family gathering,and i felt humiliated and was mortified as i should of been informed even asked if i though it was ok,but i wasn`t even considered,i was so ...
A. 5 October 2007: I don't think you are being petty at all. When people that you care conceal things from you, it hurts, and when plenty of other people know of your boyfriends deception it adds embarassment to the equation. You should probably ask him how he would ... (read in full...)
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