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writes:i have had a boyfriend for about three months and i really like him and i recieved a message tonight saying how was london babe love you and i haven,t been to london and i then recieved a message saying that he had sent it to the wrong person i mdon't know how to handle it what do i say and do? i really like him Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): true...don't just jump to conclusion but who do we usually call "baby"? So before it get's too far confront him and you'll see if he lies, you'll feel it. If he is, you should consider stopping evrything before it gets too far. I wouldn't trust after that so what's the point of continuing. good luck!
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (5 October 2007):
 I can only agree with everyone else dont jump to conclusions just aske him out right who he was meant to send the message to and why he said he loved them, his body language and tone will give you all the answers you need, any doubts that he is lying will be confirmed
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): Just call him right now and ask him about the text message. Be really straightforward. Say "who is the girl you intended to send that message to?" Ask him what's going on. And if he denies it tell him that you are not stupid and you weren't born yesterday. Just tell him to come clean. And if he still denies it I would just be like "ok, fine" and quit calling him or answering his calls and just move on.
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reader, heartbrokenxx +, writes (5 October 2007):
 do not jump to conclusions, ask him who it was meant to be to and watch his tone/body languagee! if he cant look u in the eye or he stutters, most likely chance that he is lyin!
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reader, Lila  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 Watch his behavior relating to his phone. Does he sit on his phone 24/7,sleep with it,freak if you go to answer it,delete his call log all the time? If so consider it a green light and go butting around though his stuff,phonebooks,glove box,wallet,etc. Get ahold of his statements,if you find anything substantial confront him but remember to conceal how you found your information.I now this sounds crazy,but if men wouldn't act like children,then they wouldn't be treated like them. All I'm really saying is protect yourself.Peace.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): Let it go....he's cheating your the other women he said he loved her!!!! She's the main girl! Its only been three months just let him go I've been cheated on by the same guy like 5 times and I took him back after the first time and 4 years later we still were going though the cheating game.I wish I would have left him the first time. Cause once you take him back and your together longer its harder!!!!! Trust me...its hell...crying can't eat sleep foucs in school or work. Don't let it get bad! Just find someone new you don't need him. Good luck....just hang with your girls it will help
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): I suppose he could have been intending to send it to his sister, but it doesn't sound like it!
Send him a text in the same manner and see how HE reacts! Should be fun!
Phil
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (5 October 2007):
 I agree. It might have been a typo, or he might just be a very loving person. Sit down with him and talk about it,but be calm it's only a big deal if you make it that way.
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reader, rcn +, writes (5 October 2007):
 First it may have been an error. DO NOT jump to conclusions. One of my exgirlfrieds use to bring up all the time, during arguments how I typed I love you and meant to send it to her, but sent it to another ex instead of her. OOPS. Simple mistake of over confident texting. I was moving a bit too quick.
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