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writes: My boyfriend wont let me go in has car, he always makes up excuses why I can't and have to go in mine which I find odd as this has only started to happen recently it was never a problem before. I was due to go to college it was dark and i noticed my car lights didn't work so I ask to borrow his until I got mine sorted. He refused and gave the reason it was his car. And wouldn't budge. Previously to this I discovered he was smoking dope I confronted him several times but he denied it, but later admitted it when the evidence was damming. The refusal on the car does only seem to of happened after he has supposly stopped smoking dope, do you think he could be doing it in his car hence the reason I think he won't let me in his car. What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lila  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 In my opinion he's very selfish,if nothing else. He as your boyfriend should help you out and not leave you hanging.It's my life experience that a guy who won't share his car will not share his set of chores,half of the rent,or his heart for that matter. You deserve better.
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 October 2007):
 Ask why? "Because this is my car." "ok well this one is mine and this time I'm not taking it."
Stand your ground and don't give in to this. I realize it's only a car, but it's not right for him to expect you to always take your and never take his. That's just wrong, and being quite disrespectful,
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