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Why does a man change after getting married?

Q.   hey guys,can any body tell me why man change after getting married.because i am sick of this life because of my husband.he was nice before marriage and care about me more than after . why this happening to me.sometimes i feel like i want just to ...

A.   26 February 2009: thank every one for the answers. i am not from Indian or Pakistan.i am Moroccan and my husband American. thanks... (read in full...)

Why does a man change after getting married?

Q.   hey guys,can any body tell me why man change after getting married.because i am sick of this life because of my husband.he was nice before marriage and care about me more than after . why this happening to me.sometimes i feel like i want just to ...

A.   22 February 2009: i dont have any friends here and i am too far from family i am in other country now.and i discussed this with him and i even told him that i regret marring him once because he drived me crazy.i feel disappointed because i have never expected my ... (read in full...)

I don't think he loves me... should I leave him?

Q.   I live with a guy, he tells me he loves me but he never wants to kiss me or have sex with be but he wants me to give him oral sex when he watchs porn. He sometimes has sex with other girls! We have been living together 5 months. Should I leave ...

A.   22 February 2009: dont waste your time with him just leave him.... (read in full...)

Why does a man change after getting married?

Q.   hey guys,can any body tell me why man change after getting married.because i am sick of this life because of my husband.he was nice before marriage and care about me more than after . why this happening to me.sometimes i feel like i want just to ...

A.   22 February 2009: i discussed this things with him always his answer is that i am the one changed and i have big mouth .and i am the one complain every time. what this man he doesn t want me to talk or complain,i am living with his mother so every move she asks me f... (read in full...)

Affair with a married man - why is it so hard to choose?

Q.   I am having an affair with a married man whom i met 16 years ago and then he suddenly appeared again in my life at my grandma funeral. He is married and they have 3 kids. They are not getting along very well and been not sharing the same room fo...

A.   22 February 2009: i am gonna say only one thing to you.who cheat with you,cheat on you.so you better not waste your time with this man.... (read in full...)

I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend...

Q.   hey guys I really need everyones opinion on this please im realllllly confused atm... I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend 3 months into out 10 month relationship... it was a funny way we started the relationship... ...

A.   17 February 2009: they say who can cheat once can cheat twice. but if you certainly sure he regretted what he did you can give him another and last chance. i hope he does not betray your trust again. good luck ... (read in full...)

We just got married and he does not want to have sex with me, I don't ask, and the problem goes on, what do I do?

Q.   hey every body. my husband is getting cold even we just get married.i talked about my situation before ,it is about sex. i don't know if it is normal to go with no sex in relationship for 2months especially if it is in the beginning.becaus...

A.   16 February 2009: i am tired of this.i don t want to touch him any more.when i find out that he was masturbating. help me plz i dont know what to do.my head wants to explose... (read in full...)

Living with his mom its driving me crazy!

Q.   hey, i don't know from where i start. i was in relationship for more than 2 years,and i just get married lately. my husband was living with his mother,she is at the sixties,to take care of her,because his sister never want to take care of her , a...

A.   29 January 2009: thank you for ur reply,his mother likes me because i am the only one act with her nice.she is just driving me crasy with her craznes. any way i appreciate your answer.thank you very much... (read in full...)

He's the best thing that has happened to me in a long time but he's married, what should I do?

Q.   hi, i've been seeing a married man, we've known each other for 16 years, but we started talking again 6 months ago and hit it off straight away, we fancied each other all those years ago but never acted on it, until now. We've spoken about how thin...

A.   23 November 2008: The only advice I can tell you is don't waste your life with this man. You are still young and you still have a long life in front of you. I am sure one day you will find someone you love more. The relationship you are in is impossible. He is liv... (read in full...)

I know he masterbates to porn then denies it. No sex for me !

Q.   hello every one, i have just written lately about my husband,the one that i have just got married to and he is little cold with me even before he was dieing to marry me,and i found out that he look at porn and play with his self. every one told...

A.   14 November 2008: Thank you for the answers.... (read in full...)

I know he masterbates to porn then denies it. No sex for me !

Q.   hello every one, i have just written lately about my husband,the one that i have just got married to and he is little cold with me even before he was dieing to marry me,and i found out that he look at porn and play with his self. every one told...

A.   12 November 2008: I want to say that he is open when it come to sex and me too, I don't mind doing any thing just anal (I hate that). My life is good. The only problem I have is that he is not that interested about sex like the day I knew him and his temper.lol... (read in full...)

I know he masterbates to porn then denies it. No sex for me !

Q.   hello every one, i have just written lately about my husband,the one that i have just got married to and he is little cold with me even before he was dieing to marry me,and i found out that he look at porn and play with his self. every one told...

A.   12 November 2008: i thank every one for answering me. i want to say that i watch porn with him i have no pbm. i even told him when he denied that is normal every man in teh world like to watch that from time to another and play with his self just say you did it a... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a man to masturbate in his 1st month of wedding?

Q.   is it normal that the man masturbate at his 1st month of weeding? i have just get married lately and i found out that my husband musturbate alone he gets on line and watch nacked women,i dont know why he does that especially that i have never sa...

A.   4 November 2008: sometimes i feel that he is cold,useally u find man active at their 1st month of weeding but he asks me for sex from time to another. i dont know if that because he did not have sex for 2years ,or sonthing eles. i feel i am more horny than he is, ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a man to masturbate in his 1st month of wedding?

Q.   is it normal that the man masturbate at his 1st month of weeding? i have just get married lately and i found out that my husband musturbate alone he gets on line and watch nacked women,i dont know why he does that especially that i have never sa...

A.   4 November 2008: sometimes i feel that he is cold,useally u find man active at their 1st month of weeding but he asks me for sex from time to another. i dont know if that because he did not have sex for 2years ,or sonthing eles. i feel i am more horny than he is... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a man to masturbate in his 1st month of wedding?

Q.   is it normal that the man masturbate at his 1st month of weeding? i have just get married lately and i found out that my husband musturbate alone he gets on line and watch nacked women,i dont know why he does that especially that i have never sa...

A.   4 November 2008: thank every one for the answer. what i hear is that man are active in their 1st months of weeding and they have sex more at that time. but my husband doesnt show any interest at that , so i ask my self since he does not ask me just from time to... (read in full...)

He said I have a big vagina yet he's the first man I've ever slept with!

Q.   hi everybody, I am writing this so I can have advice about things I don't know. I've just get married lately and I was virgin but the problem is when I had sex with my husband he says that I have big vagina and he hardly feels me. Even although...

A.   3 November 2008: thank every one for the help... (read in full...)

He said I have a big vagina yet he's the first man I've ever slept with!

Q.   hi everybody, I am writing this so I can have advice about things I don't know. I've just get married lately and I was virgin but the problem is when I had sex with my husband he says that I have big vagina and he hardly feels me. Even although...

A.   30 October 2008: is there any sollution for wetness?... (read in full...)

He said I have a big vagina yet he's the first man I've ever slept with!

Q.   hi everybody, I am writing this so I can have advice about things I don't know. I've just get married lately and I was virgin but the problem is when I had sex with my husband he says that I have big vagina and he hardly feels me. Even although...

A.   27 October 2008: yes,i have never seen man penis before.his penis is the 1st one i have ever seen. and i really get so wet down there .i think uncle phill find me teh answer. and when he is not waring condom he feels me litlle bit and when he wars it he stop fee... (read in full...)

He said I have a big vagina yet he's the first man I've ever slept with!

Q.   hi everybody, I am writing this so I can have advice about things I don't know. I've just get married lately and I was virgin but the problem is when I had sex with my husband he says that I have big vagina and he hardly feels me. Even although...

A.   22 October 2008: i thank every one for his help.... (read in full...)

He said I have a big vagina yet he's the first man I've ever slept with!

Q.   hi everybody, I am writing this so I can have advice about things I don't know. I've just get married lately and I was virgin but the problem is when I had sex with my husband he says that I have big vagina and he hardly feels me. Even although...

A.   17 October 2008: which exercice i can do .if you have any link give it to me. by the way my husband is not too young he is old enough and he had lot of wemen in his life. and what bother me is that he says i have virgina like i has baby before .he says i am born ... (read in full...)

He said I have a big vagina yet he's the first man I've ever slept with!

Q.   hi everybody, I am writing this so I can have advice about things I don't know. I've just get married lately and I was virgin but the problem is when I had sex with my husband he says that I have big vagina and he hardly feels me. Even although...

A.   17 October 2008: thank you for the answers.my husband has a large penis and thats what bother me.because when we have sex he says i have big virgina even its the 1st time i have it with him.this is really irritating me .... (read in full...)

Should I leave from this marriage?

Q.   I have been married for 13 years and through our marriage my husband had an affair. We made through it but, our love making has declined drastically. I caught him masturbating several times and looking into porn. He's making me feel unattractive and ...

A.   17 August 2008: you know what!!!do the same and let's see how he will feel!! if you did not make him feel how u did he would never understand u!!!... (read in full...)

My husband won't go near me because I have spots...

Q.   My husband doesn't want sex with me anymore but I know he is getting off on his own it in the bathroom or watching porn. We have been married for 18 month and it started only a few months after we got married. We had sex only when I initiated and ...

A.   17 August 2008: this is just childish!!!!don"t lose ur congidencebecause of his stupid comments!!we all get pimples!!and if u hadit before u marry him why he complain now ;;or he was blind then he just notice u do!!!!and i am sory to say ur husband is silly mana nd ... (read in full...)

How can I tell if a guy really loves me?

Q.   How can I tell if a guy really loves me and when Imeet the right person. It Ssounds silly, but I figure if it was that simple we'd all be in beautiful, loving relationships right or at least with the right one. Any suggetions?...

A.   17 August 2008: i don"t know if we can express this bywords!!!but when a man love u you feel that !!!because he would make anything that will make happy ,he will always like to see u smiling he will always be caring ,he will feel yuwhen u r sad and when u r ... (read in full...)

How can I tell if a guy really loves me?

Q.   How can I tell if a guy really loves me and when Imeet the right person. It Ssounds silly, but I figure if it was that simple we'd all be in beautiful, loving relationships right or at least with the right one. Any suggetions?...

A.   17 August 2008: i don"t know if we can express this bywords!!!but when a man love u you feel that !!!because he would make anything that will make happy ,he will always like to see u smiling he will always be caring ,he will feel yuwhen u r sad and when u r ... (read in full...)

We need help, our relationship is getting damaged.

Q.   i need help, my relashionship is getting damage ,it has been 2years of engagement, and from 1st i told my fiance not to have sex till marriage, and he apreciate my idea. but now he reached his limits. And now his health geting damaged and he is ...

A.   17 August 2008: thank you baby duck for ur advices... (read in full...)

I started my periods and I don't know how to tell my mum.

Q.   hello erm i dont really know how to put this but i started my periods. and i really dont know how to tell me mum! like she has a draw full of black pants and pads and things and i put on some of the black pants and put a pad on and yes im basically...

A.   13 August 2008: you remind me of my 1st day of period!!i was shy to tell mom that i got period, but i said why i am shy i should tell her she is my mom and she should know!! when she came home from work i was laying down like i am in pain(even i had litlle pain... (read in full...)

Why don't I make noise during sex?

Q.   So my boyfriend and I first had sex about a month ago. I was a virgin, and he wasnt sure if he was or not. (he woke up at a party naked next to a naked girl) But anyways, neither of us make any noise during sex, other than the heavy breathing....

A.   13 August 2008: it's normal !!!becaue peopel are not same!!!may be you are from kind that are quiet and that's good too at elast it's beter than screaming and people can hear you from street!hehehehee! you should not wory!!the important is that you enjoy it!!!... (read in full...)

We need help, our relationship is getting damaged.

Q.   i need help, my relashionship is getting damage ,it has been 2years of engagement, and from 1st i told my fiance not to have sex till marriage, and he apreciate my idea. but now he reached his limits. And now his health geting damaged and he is ...

A.   13 August 2008: when i say i can"t live without him it means the day can"t go well just if i see him!!!he wenta week for vacation and ohh mygod it was a mesirable week i could not wait the day he comes back home so i can talk with him even he was calling me every ... (read in full...)

She was gving me the wrong signals. How do you fall out of love with someone?

Q.   I'm crazy about this young lady, I told her how I feel, but she told me that she only wants to be friends. I really thought she had feelings for me as well, but it turns out that she was giving me wrong signals. I'm now left feeling very sad...

A.   13 August 2008: it's ok man thatis not the end of world!!!!!you will find the women who will apreciate your love and you will forget about this one!!just try to make urself busy and don"t think of here(or at least try to )!!! you feel this way because this is new ... (read in full...)

I really like calling her, but I don't want to annoy her

Q.   We are together for almost a year. We seldom meet. I miss her a lot. Whenever I feel I want to talk to her, I will call her. I know I have been calling too much, 2-3 times everyday. She did tell me she get annoyed by that. I have tried not to cal...

A.   13 August 2008: i don"t understand why that annoy her because if she loved you she could notw aitto have a call from you and hear your voice!!! i lov my fiance and when he call ohh my god it's like i am in heaven and the day i don"t get sms from him i feel like... (read in full...)

My ex is always around but my fiancee wont let me even say hi!

Q.   I feel in love for the first time at a young age. I was probably around 13. Everyone said it was puppy love and it'd go away. We dated for 4 years and he turned out to be everything I didn't want in life. So I left him in 2003. And I started dating ...

A.   12 August 2008: now your engaged that mean you should forget your ex,if you still have feeling for your ex that mean you should not continue with your fiance because that is like cheating on him also how can you let that man kiss you and you are in other ... (read in full...)

We had anal sex, and I hurt her, now she is too afraid to try it again, how do I regain her trust and assure her that I will not hurt her again, if we have anal sex??

Q.   How do i earn my fiances trust to do anal again? My fiance always loved it when i toyed with her from behind, and when we finnially did anal it went well and she loved it but i accidentally went to deep and hurt her. I felt absolutely terrible that ...

A.   12 August 2008: if she did not like is beter you don"t impose the idea so can both of you be happy!!and use her virginia which will make both of u happy!!it is beter when you both enjoy having sex not only one part!!!... (read in full...)

We need help, our relationship is getting damaged.

Q.   i need help, my relashionship is getting damage ,it has been 2years of engagement, and from 1st i told my fiance not to have sex till marriage, and he apreciate my idea. but now he reached his limits. And now his health geting damaged and he is ...

A.   12 August 2008: i know that no one change religion just if he wantd too!!but if we want toget married here (in my contry)oe of us should change!!! now he always try to make me change my religion by showing me bad things about (he says i should be open)!! i lov... (read in full...)

We need help, our relationship is getting damaged.

Q.   i need help, my relashionship is getting damage ,it has been 2years of engagement, and from 1st i told my fiance not to have sex till marriage, and he apreciate my idea. but now he reached his limits. And now his health geting damaged and he is ...

A.   12 August 2008: thank you for replying!!! our problem is that we can't get married in my contry till he change religion but he doesn"t want to do that,and i can"t get married out of contry because we are waiting visa because we have some problem with it,and he says... (read in full...)

How long will a guy wait for sex??

Q.   So heres just a general question to see what everyones point of view is. How long is a unreasonable amount of time to expect a guy to wait for sex? What I mean is, say a girl isnt ready to have sex with her bf (whether she be a virgin or not) but...

A.   12 August 2008: i don"t think that man can wait a life time because that cause many health problems,it has been 2years now and my fiance waiting me to have sex but now he is fed up because his health is damaging !!!... (read in full...)

An already hot & heavy relationship, yet still a kinky twist!?

Q.   Alright, this is mainly a question for the ladies but the men are more than welcome to answer as well. My girlfriend and I have pretty good little thing going, ...especially when it comes to the sex. I'll just put it this way, ITS HOT!!! We're ...

A.   12 August 2008: this should not be problem for you!and i think you just pretend you didnot see somthing so this will not cause arguing or you can ask her nicely again if she said no don"t keep asking and know she wants to keep that as secret!!good luck... (read in full...)

I really love this girl, but we have trust issues and we argue all the time, should I break up with her, and if so, how do I do it without breaking her heart?

Q.   ive been with a girl 8 months and i really love the girl but we have no trust in our relationship and argue all the time ..... i dont think i can make this relationship work .... do you think i should give up and leave her ? and if so how do i let ...

A.   12 August 2008: 1st you should know where is the problem?why there is no trust!!and if you really love the girl you will forgiv her for things she does and try to make things beter ,but if you did that and you found that relation is same and still no trust you can ... (read in full...)

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