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*ena1
writes:is it normal that the man masturbate at his 1st month of weeding?i have just get married lately and i found out that my husband musturbate alone he gets on line and watch nacked women,i dont know why he does that especially that i have never said no when he wants sex and i am horny all the time i think i am even more active than he is .i dont know if he used to masturbate especially that we have been apart 2years and we had sex till mariage.i dont know what can i do when i found out i got so angry because i never said no to him,and useally u find man active in their 1st months of weeding.till now i did not tell him that i found out this.and by the way he is 34years .help me plz with your answer
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reader, lena1 +, writes (4 November 2008):
lena1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question sometimes i feel that he is cold,useally u find man active at their 1st month of weeding but he asks me for sex from time to another.
i dont know if that because he did not have sex for 2years ,or sonthing eles.
i feel i am more horny than he is,
so if he is not interesting at that why he gets on line and see other nacked women.
is there any thing wrong with me i dont think so.
is that because of something eles ,i dont know
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reader, lena1 +, writes (4 November 2008):
lena1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsometimes i feel that he is cold,useally u find man active at their 1st month of weeding but he asks me for sex from time to another.i dont know if that because he did not have sex for 2years ,or sonthing eles.i feel i am more horny than he is,so if he is not interesting at that why he gets on line and see other nacked women.is there any thing wrong with me i dont think so.is that because of something eles ,i dont know
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reader, lena1 +, writes (4 November 2008):
lena1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank every one for the answer.what i hear is that man are active in their 1st months of weeding and they have sex more at that time.but my husband doesnt show any interest at that ,so i ask my self since he does not ask me just from time to another why he gets on line and masturbate.is it something wrong with me,i dont think so .is he waiting me to ask him to do it too.i dont know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): Unfortunately the internet has made masturbation a hot topic..when a man had to buy porn in a shop in a seedy neighborhood, his masturbation fodor limited his activity level.
With the advent of unlimited porn that is free and easy, it has become a problem in many marriages. There is no way to foresee if it will become a problem in your marriage, only time will tell.
It seems that faced with the boredom of the same women for the rest of their life, some men find the allure of many women, in all kinds of shapes and ages, doing anything the man wants at the touch of the mouse, irressistable.
More than likely, your husband has engaged in masturbation to porn for many years. It is a hard habit to break and has nothing to do with his feelings for you. You know the old saying "if he loved me enough, he would quit drinking" well the new saying is "if he loves me he wouldn't do porn". It has nothing to do with how much he loves you.
Hopefully your husband is one who does not have a problem with porn and doesn't let it interfere with his sex life with you. Don't get too excited about things just yet, time will tell if he has a problem with it or just uses it out of habit.
If it becomes a problem for you, that you feel betrayed or not good enough, then talk to him about it in a non-threatening and calm way. Ask him ahead of time if he could set aside a few minutes to talk about something that is concerning you. It would be best though, if you can just give him some time to adjust.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 November 2008):
 Masturbating becomes a habit - especially when or if single up to the point of marriage. Pornography, which was not at all so readily available 15 or more years ago, has increased such activity, in my opinion. So I would not now think that anyone who has developed a bit of a habit masturbating would suddenly withdraw right after a marriage ceremony. I agree that you should not "over-react" unless it begins to interfere with, or supersede, sex with you.
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reader, Cowboy  +, writes (4 November 2008):
Yup, we do it all the time, no biggie.
There is a theory that men masturbate in order to ensure that old sperm cells are flushed out and replaced by new, more viable ones, thus increasing the chances of producing offspring.
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