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writes:Would men in their upper 50s and older still be into sex (think about sex often, masturbate, visualize having sex, etc.)?Let me explain - this guy and I have known each other for about four or five years; he'll turn 60 next month and I'm 25. We get along great and are good friends and he's been flirting with me a lot (I won't lie, I've been flirting, too, although I know the age difference is too much; but I am attracted to him).He sits very close to me, smiles and laughs a lot with me, looks into my eyes all the time when we talk, sometimes comes close to touching me but doesn't (like once we were sitting next to each other and our knees came very close to touching); not sure if he wants to see how close he can come to me without touching. The last time we saw each other (after two hours of heavy flirting), he told me the next time I'm in town (I live several states away and won't be home til the summer) we can just meet at his house. Is he thinking what I think he's thinking or is it just being friendly? And all this after three months of not seeing each other. When I'm home over the summer it's gonna be at least six months!!He, to me, is a very kind man who respects me. Of course he's the only one that actually knows this but do you think he sometimes sees me and thinks about sex?
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (27 February 2009):
 I think it truly depends on the genes as well as the way a person takes care of him/herself in the health and staminda department.
My last relationship - who unfortunately had to end because he had unresolved anger past issues which resulted in verbal abuse against me - was with a 53 yo male. It was the best sex ever for me, no artificial/chemical enhancement at all. Twice daily on weekdays and more on weekends LOL. Tantric orgasm for him too ... which I guess can only come with years of practice LOL. In contrast, in my early 20s, I had an ex who was 3 years younger than me who had a very loooow sex drive.
Just make sure that you are not an "experiment" to him, and that he is not still married or in a committed relationship. And whatever you do, please use protection (condoms) until such time that you feel it is safe or until you want to have children with him. But that's probably wayyy to long down the road eh? LOL
As my recent ex said to me once ... "I am not dead yet" ... LOL
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reader, lena1 +, writes (26 February 2009):
 man are not the same,there is man that care lot about sex and other that care less.but in general when man start getting old their sex drive decrease.
in your situation ,the age difference is so big,so i think even if he likes you he is not brave enough to talk with you because he would always think that you will reject him .
and also he may just see you as friend nothing more .
just wait and see what will happen and if he did not do any movement and you like him that much express your feeling to him.
good luck
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