Am I just using her to get over the pain of losing my girlfriend and my best friend?
Q. about a year ago my girlfriend died. I went into a depression. I think about her every day. I let it affect me too much and ended up losing my job. two weeks ago my friend who I knew since I was 6 killed himself after losing his job. I havnt talked ...
A. 10 November 2009: Maybe you're both helping each other, but either way, I think you may be over thinking the situation with her a bit too much. If she makes you happy in your time of need, then there's nothing wrong with that. Would you date her if you hadn't lost ... (read in full...)
Are these signs of him not caring about me or wanting to break up?
Q. I would just like pointers as to what I should do in my current situation. My bf keeps arguing with me over the smallest things nowadays, I make a joke he takes it the wrong way. When he's mad and I'm trying to cheer him up he just snaps at me...
A. 10 November 2009: There's only so much you can do in this situation. You can either put up with his irrational behaviour or speak up.
Have you tried talking to him about how you feel? Sit him down with a cup of tea and tell him what you've told us. Just make sur... (read in full...)
I want to fight for this girl...so anyone got any good tips?
Q. Its me again. This one will be short and sweet i promise, no 1000 word questions this time. Background----------------------- 6 mos ago I had this little crush on a girl, except my vulgar best friend (unintentionally) complicated th...
A. 10 November 2009: All I can say to you is think how the girl you don't want to date feels. What could she do to possibly win you over? Maybe there's nothing that would make you want to be with her, and you've got to consider that maybe your crush feels this way too ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hasn't touched me for a month. Is there someone else?
Q. Looking for honest answers here: My boyfriend of 4 years and I have not had sex in more than a month. He was away for 3 and 1/2 week on business, but he's now been back for an entire week. We live together, but the first 2 nights he was back, he ...
A. 8 November 2009: This definitely sounds like depression. I had the same problem with my boyfriend, whereby we went on vacation for 2 weeks and only had sex once. Before that, we would go ages without sex, and of course, I'd think it was either me at fault, or there ... (read in full...)
Busy with sick mum for a week so my girlfriend ended it!
Q. Here is the situation, and thank you for reading this and possibly giving me some advice. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months now, and we usually spend everyday together. If not then we talk on the phone often and text. I am ...
A. 8 November 2009: Did you make her aware from the beginning that your Mom was ill? Could it just be a misunderstanding? My advice to you is to send her an email or a letter telling her that you're very sorry if she felt neglected, that you do want to be with her, ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my wife? She held my viewing of porn against me for years... now I find it on her laptop!
Q. Let me start from the beginning. I love my wife and in the beginning of our relationship everything was perfect until she found some porn in my computer the same day that we have had sex. I explained to her that it was nothing to worry about and ...
A. 8 November 2009: First of all, you need to evaluate your situation... Are you both happy in your marriage, or is the consistent arguing one of you looking for a way out? You both need to sit down and make sure this relationship is what you both want, and sort o... (read in full...)
How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?
Q. Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I ...
A. 6 November 2009: First of all, there's nothing wrong with a healthy sexual appetite. Where it all goes wrong is when people start sleeping around with any person and not using protection.
Now, don't go and sleep with the first person you date straight away. Be... (read in full...)
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